if kalyani cant hate malhar she should at least be like
'i belong to deshmuk family and i know how much u may try but can not forgive deshmuks for whatever they have done to you and your family, and we can't change this fact no matter what. so its better if part our ways/ just live as friends other than getting hurt and being emotionally broken every time, i will stay in this house as moksh's mother but not as your wife' 👍🏼