Re-living YRHPK journey // Episodic Discussion Thread 3 - Page 37

I will be a bit late tonight girls, could not get away from an impromptu plan that my friends made 😆

Anyhow, i wont stay away from EDT either so will be here der-savair 🤓 @Sums, Pallavi di and Surya hope u guys will be around still.

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Break up ka discussion chal raha hain toh i give my little bit of gyaan 🤭🤭

1. First thing, I adored abt mishti was when she came to know about baba's truth she called up abir ( very rare in itv where dey actually use d mobile phn) . Her bad luck, it was baba who took d call.

Thanks for reminding about that phone call. So it’s proved Mishti had tried to tell Abir about his Baba’s villainy but unfortunately she got the villain himself

2. D sensitivity she showed towards meenu, she knew how embarrassing it would be for meenu, if mishti talked about her husband marriage n second son. She decided to not tell about kunal n dan when everyone asking her to go to rajvansh house to stay beside them, her refusing to go there understanding how such personal matter to be nly within family members

Good point! That was indeed considerate and thoughtful of Mishti. Although she was already engaged to Abir she didn’t want to interfere in his family’s private matters, revealing their dirty secrets. Probably that’s why she couldn’t tell Abir about Kunal’s birth truth either? Also at that point she trusted Meenu as she thought Meenu was finally by her side as she had helped her find the truth.
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3. Agree or not, I somehow understood meenu's character in dat blackmail. She was not wrong. She somehow was threatened by mishti. If dis girl would search so much abt mehul she could definitely come to know about meenu illegitimate marriage n it was actually abir who is d najaaz not kunal. It would effect her n abir. She did dat keeping in mind abt abir's future.

But how can Abir be the illegitimate child if he’s 3 years older than Kunal? Do you mean Mehul married Parul first in the village, then came to Rajkot, married Meenu, they had Abir, then 2 years later went back to village and impregnated Parul? Then he returned to Rajkot, committed fraud in nanu’s company and ran away? Wow that’s a really convoluted plot!

4. Abir was ryt in choosing kunal over mishti. He knew mishti only for few months but he literally raised kunal. For kunal, abir is his entire world. He was correct

Right! Kunal was like his child, he couldn’t risk jeopardizing Kunal’s future life because of his love for Mishti

5. Mishti was wrong in placing abir over her self respect. He rejected her twice, she should huv taken dat answer as final.

Right again! She should not have chased him, should not have used Nannu to make Abir jealous! Definitely should not have sacrificed her self respect to repeatedly go after Abir even after his repeated rejection and insults!

6. Nishant was totally wrong, he may had feelings for mishti but he saw how much she was trying to get back to abir even begging to bade papa for a chance. Later agreeing to do what bade papa was telling her to do. He would huv definitely back off. Mishti cleared him dat she was trying to move on but clearly he saw she isn't able to move on.

Nishant was quite hateful towards that track ending. He went on full on psycho mode, trying to marry Mishti against her will, trying to defeat Abir in a stupid competition to “win” Mishti. BP forcing Mishti to marry Nannu and Nannu resorting to dirty tricks to make it happen, even joining hands with evil Meenu( who tried to kill him) all of it was quite unbearable and Mishti was the victim of all these people’s power games!

7. Mishti was wrong in running away from her shaadi. She left her foster parents for abir. How many months did she know abir??? Did he become so important Dan her bp n bm.

Agree! She ran away not just to rescue Abir from whatever danger he was in but after finding him she said they should run away somewhere and get married. That was wrong! Like Abir showed loyalty to Kunal she should have been loyal to her foster parents. No, that doesn’t mean she should have gone back and married Nishant, not at all, that marriage was creepy as hell.🤢 She should have just told them firmly, “No I won’t marry Nishant, and I won’t marry Abir either! So Bade Papa, don’t force me to marry Nannu as I don’t love him and never will”

Literally leaving them to face an embarrassment. I would never support her.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

I think lot of ppl skipped d rajgarh episodes so dey r confused between d events. Dat pandit said when mehul n parul got married dat time mehul used to stay in d village nly. After marriage, he went to city for job. Dat's where he meet meenu. He got married n had abir.

In Ganesh puja, meenu was telling ryt mehul used to go in d factory work for many days. Dat time he used to go back to parul. When parul was five month pregnant n mehul was not coming for many days Dan parul went to rajkot to search for him. She meet meenu, n she made parul realize dat her relationship with mehul was illegitimate where as it was her n kept parul der in rajvansh house.

Tbh lot of ppl had issue with mishti keeping d whole rajgarh detective giri secret. I never had because when she herself was confirmed, she let abir know abt it.

Whole rajgarh sequence, except dat photo showing thing of lost relative, I found dat track well executed . Dey didn't make mishti any super human. Like how she escaped d goons n all. It was pretty logical compare to itv standard.

Neither I had an issue abt mishti handling all d proof to meenu . She may be anything but all those things were family secret of rajvansh. If she would huv disclosed it in front of whole family it would huv been very embarrassing for them. She felt meenu might hate her but she would definitely think abt her son well fare , Which meenu did actually. Though blackmailing abir n back stabbing mishti, but her priority was always abir.

Her whole jealousy plan was foolish, she became so desperate to be with abir she forgot every thing even risking her own life. She went once, twice abir rejected her their was no need for her to beg him so many times.

Dan leaving d mandap, dat was worst. More than her parents if any one loved her it was BM n BP. She never thought abt them. Just fleed n left them to face d embarrassment.

I said dat before also, mishti loved abir like mad. Dat was not healthy. She actually made abir her whole world. In d end, she lost herself. She was just being abir's wife nly not Mishti Aggarwal.

What ever she didn't want to be in her relationship, she ended up exactly like dat!!!

Irony in life.

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

I think lot of ppl skipped d rajgarh episodes so dey r confused between d events. Dat pandit said when mehul n parul got married dat time mehul used to stay in d village nly. After marriage, he went to city for job. Dat's where he meet meenu. He got married n had abir.

In Ganesh puja, meenu was telling ryt mehul used to go in d factory work for many days. Dat time he used to go back to parul. When parul was five month pregnant n mehul was not coming for many days Dan parul went to rajkot to search for him. She meet meenu, n she made parul realize dat her relationship with mehul was illegitimate where as it was her n kept parul der in rajvansh house.

Tbh lot of ppl had issue with mishti keeping d whole rajgarh detective giri secret. I never had because when she herself was confirmed, she let abir know abt it.

Whole rajgarh sequence, except dat photo showing thing of lost relative, I found dat track well executed . Dey didn't make mishti any super human. Like how she escaped d goons n all. It was pretty logical compare to itv standard.

Neither I had an issue abt mishti handling all d proof to meenu . She may be anything but all those things were family secret of rajvansh. If she would huv disclosed it in front of whole family it would huv been very embarrassing for them. She felt meenu might hate her but she would definitely think abt her son well fare , Which meenu did actually. Though blackmailing abir n back stabbing mishti, but her priority was always abir.

Her whole jealousy plan was foolish, she became so desperate to be with abir she forgot every thing even risking her own life. She went once, twice abir rejected her their was no need for her to beg him so many times.

Dan leaving d mandap, dat was worst. More than her parents if any one loved her it was BM n BP. She never thought abt them. Just fleed n left them to face d embarrassment.

I said dat before also, mishti loved abir like mad. Dat was not healthy. She actually made abir her whole world. In d end, she lost herself. She was just being abir's wife nly not Mishti Aggarwal.

What ever she didn't want to be in her relationship, she ended up exactly like dat!!!

Irony in life.

Thank you for clarifying the Rajgarh track. I had skipped those episodes too.

Bold: very well said 👏Mishti was so blindly in love that she lost her identity at the end..complete opposite of what she was looking for in her life partner during the courtship period. Both mishbir are to be blamed here

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Thank you for clarifying the Rajgarh track. I had skipped those episodes too.

Bold: very well said 👏Mishti was so blindly in love that she lost her identity at the end..complete opposite of what she was looking for in her life partner during the courtship period. Both mishbir are to be blamed here

At d end she didn't huv any say in her relationship. Things which irked her d most, she became one such as dat.

After their marriage, it was whole one sided relationship. Mishti character was reduced very badly.

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

I think lot of ppl skipped d rajgarh episodes so dey r confused between d events. Dat pandit said when mehul n parul got married dat time mehul used to stay in d village nly. After marriage, he went to city for job. Dat's where he meet meenu. He got married n had abir.

In Ganesh puja, meenu was telling ryt mehul used to go in d factory work for many days. Dat time he used to go back to parul. When parul was five month pregnant n mehul was not coming for many days Dan parul went to rajkot to search for him. She meet meenu, n she made parul realize dat her relationship with mehul was illegitimate where as it was her n kept parul der in rajvansh house.

Tbh lot of ppl had issue with mishti keeping d whole rajgarh detective giri secret. I never had because when she herself was confirmed, she let abir know abt it.

Whole rajgarh sequence, except dat photo showing thing of lost relative, I found dat track well executed . Dey didn't make mishti any super human. Like how she escaped d goons n all. It was pretty logical compare to itv standard.

Neither I had an issue abt mishti handling all d proof to meenu . She may be anything but all those things were family secret of rajvansh. If she would huv disclosed it in front of whole family it would huv been very embarrassing for them. She felt meenu might hate her but she would definitely think abt her son well fare , Which meenu did actually. Though blackmailing abir n back stabbing mishti, but her priority was always abir.

Her whole jealousy plan was foolish, she became so desperate to be with abir she forgot every thing even risking her own life. She went once, twice abir rejected her their was no need for her to beg him so many times.

Dan leaving d mandap, dat was worst. More than her parents if any one loved her it was BM n BP. She never thought abt them. Just fleed n left them to face d embarrassment.

I said dat before also, mishti loved abir like mad. Dat was not healthy. She actually made abir her whole world. In d end, she lost herself. She was just being abir's wife nly not Mishti Aggarwal.

What ever she didn't want to be in her relationship, she ended up exactly like dat!!!

Irony in life.

Bold: Actually I watched all Rajgarh and Baba track episodes last year but didn’t rewatch them this year. I remember the priest’s story and Parul’s sister’s story. But Abir being older than Kunal was confusing me, yet your explanation makes sense. No wonder Meenu was so desperate to keep Rajgarh story a secret from Abir! She didn’t want him to learn all those family secrets. She was protecting her own and Abir’s izzat and that’s another reason she wanted to keep Mishti far away from Abir because Mishti knew about Mehul Parul Kunal.
But did Mishti figure out that Parul was actually the first wife and Kunal the legitimate child? I don’t think even Parul knew that otherwise she would have blurted it out someday. Probably Meenu made Parul believe P was the 2nd wife and Kunal was illegitimate. What a shaitani dimaag Meenu had, really! She kept Parul and Kunal in her house so nobody would find out the real truth!
Hats off to Meenu that even in the end her deepest secret was never revealed! And she kept calling Kunal Najayaz during the baby track. 😳

@ Bold/italics : Mishti tried to inform Abir about Mehul but she couldn’t. I can understand how awkward it would be for her to tell Abir about Parul’s and Kunal’s truth! Of course she couldn’t tell anyone else either, it was the RJV elder’s secret and she wasn’t even their bahu yet!
Mishti fighting the goons, blasting Mehul all that was believable because she was the fiery spirited fighter back then! Meenu was so vile, she knew about Mishti being locked up, Lakshman sent her pics and she even got them enlarged as giant proofs 😆 but her henchmen didn’t help Mishti or try to stop Mehul in his tracks! 🤢
Underline: I really hated Mishti begging Abir to listen to her just once and him pushing her away, insulting her, rejecting her repeatedly! She had no self respect left in her desperation to get him back!

I don’t disagree with Mishti leaving the mandap as she absolutely could not/should not have married Nishant .....but he was emotionally blackmailing Mishti and his family about resuming his addiction. So she had no other choice than to run away. Even if Abir wasn’t in trouble she should have run away somewhere to escape from the wedding. Nishmish wedding would be a disaster!

I absolutely hated Nishant in his last few episodes as he had become a monster and I felt like shaking Abir for defending Nishant and trying to cover up his crimes in the temple road scene!

Color bold: Ive also said that Mishti’s love for Abir was the slavish, worshipping kind, she was the devotee, he was her everything! Women often do love like that, with all their heart and soul, letting go of all ego and self worth. And women do lose their birth identity after marriage when they become just wife and bahu. But somewhere deep inside the original personality survives. Mishti lost her fiery spirit completely after the magazine track and became a wet noodle.
But towards the end of the show she regained her original spirit with the newfound confidence of motherhood. That’s why she took the bull by the horns, decided to make Meenu’s taunts of homebreaker come true, staged that whole leaving home drama and made Meenu run after their cab 😆

So intrinsically she remained the same Mishti but outwardly became a meek, subservient wife/ bahu😉

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Bold: Actually I watched all Rajgarh and Baba track episodes last year but didn’t rewatch them this year. I remember the priest’s story and Parul’s sister’s story. But Abir being older than Kunal was confusing me, yet your explanation makes sense. No wonder Meenu was so desperate to keep Rajgarh story a secret from Abir! She didn’t want him to learn all those family secrets. She was protecting her own and Abir’s izzat and that’s another reason she wanted to keep Mishti far away from Abir because Mishti knew about Mehul Parul Kunal.
But did Mishti figure out that Parul was actually the first wife and Kunal the legitimate child? I don’t think even Parul knew that otherwise she would have blurted it out someday. Probably Meenu made Parul believe P was the 2nd wife and Kunal was illegitimate. What a shaitani dimaag Meenu had, really! She kept Parul and Kunal in her house so nobody would find out the real truth!
Hats off to Meenu that even in the end her deepest secret was never revealed! And she kept calling Kunal Najayaz during the baby track. 😳

@ Bold/italics : Mishti tried to inform Abir about Mehul but she couldn’t. I can understand how awkward it would be for her to tell Abir about Parul’s and Kunal’s truth! Of course she couldn’t tell anyone else either, it was the RJV elder’s secret and she wasn’t even their bahu yet!
Mishti fighting the goons, blasting Mehul all that was believable because she was the fiery spirited fighter back then! Meenu was so vile, she knew about Mishti being locked up, Lakshman sent her pics and she even got them enlarged as giant proofs 😆 but her henchmen didn’t help Mishti or try to stop Mehul in his tracks! 🤢
Underline: I really hated Mishti begging Abir to listen to her just once and him pushing her away, insulting her, rejecting her repeatedly! She had no self respect left in her desperation to get him back!

I don’t disagree with Mishti leaving the mandap as she absolutely could not/should not have married Nishant .....but he was emotionally blackmailing Mishti and his family about resuming his addiction. So she had no other choice than to run away. Even if Abir wasn’t in trouble she should have run away somewhere to escape from the wedding. Nishmish wedding would be a disaster!

I absolutely hated Nishant in his last few episodes as he had become a monster and I felt like shaking Abir for defending Nishant and trying to cover up his crimes in the temple road scene!

Color bold: Ive also said that Mishti’s love for Abir was the slavish, worshipping kind, she was the devotee, he was her everything! Women often do love like that, with all their heart and soul, letting go of all ego and self worth. And women do lose their birth identity after marriage when they become just wife and bahu. But somewhere deep inside the original personality survives. Mishti lost her fiery spirit completely after the magazine track and became a wet noodle.
But towards the end of the show she regained her original spirit with the newfound confidence of motherhood. That’s why she took the bull by the horns, decided to make Meenu’s taunts of homebreaker come true, staged that whole leaving home drama and made Meenu run after their cab 😆

So intrinsically she remained the same Mishti but outwardly became a meek, subservient wife/ bahu😉

B- she doesn't need to run away from her own house to escape marriage. But her running away just let BM BP to face embarrassment

Mishti didn't figure out d whole meenu - parul - mehul angle.

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

B- she doesn't need to run away from her own house to escape marriage. But her running away just let BM BP to face embarrassment

Mishti didn't figure out d whole meenu - parul - mehul angle.

If Mishti didn’t run away from the mandap, Nishant would have forced her to get married to him by hook or crook. He would threaten her to go back to drinking or something like that. By then he had become psychotic, obsessed to possess her. Remember how violently he was pulling her hand in the temple road scene? If Abir didn’t let go of her other hand......that’s when BP realized Nishant CAN hurt Mishti and Abir was the right guy for her.

I noticed IF removed our Chaska meter so now our show isn’t on main page of IF anymore.

Episode 46

Kunal already acting possessively about Mishti? He tells Ketu not to disturb her so Ketu cuts off Abir’s call, promising to message when Mish wakes up.

Abir winced in pain, mami asked if it’s hurting, he says there’s a wound so it will hurt. Haye poor guy! Jee bhar ke usey dekh bhi nahin sakta!

Mishti wakes up, Ketu calls Kunal, BM is so happy she goes to light lamp before her deity.

Abir looking to buy a phone 🥳as remembers Mishti in the fire, asking him to get a phone

Parul comes in to give him turmeric milk, tells him Ketu called that Mishti recovered. Parul asks Abir if he’s alright, he says he was panicked before but now doing fine. Parul tells him when everyone realized Mishti was still inside everyone panicked but thank goodness Kunal rescued her. Parul sees Abir’s laptop and asks if he’s buying a phone? Abir says its for when someone wants to reach him in an emergency like this! Parul tells him to do what his heart says, but if there’s a problem Kunal is always there. Damn, Parul’s words make him decide against buying the phone!

Kuhu comes and tells Mishti that Kunal left and promised to return next day. She asked Mish how did she get trapped inside when even wheelchair aunties managed to escape? 😆 Mish says something important got left behind. Kuhu asks did Ranvir Singh get left behind that she risked her life to save him?🤪

Mishti tells Kuhu not to worry, she found whatever it was..

Mish goes to her desk and starts writing her diary , when she started this courtship she never thought this day would come so soon, she had thought work is Kunal’s first priority, hes detached from all emotions but after meeting him a couple of times she’s realized family is more important to him than work. So his wife would also be important to him as she’s part of his family! (What amazing logic🤪) Mishti wrote Kunal likes khichdi, he sent her flowers, he understands her desire to work, he didn’t abandon her in the burning building.😔

Meenu playing sitar next morning, looking angry remembering the Naman photo falling in the fire, Kunal carrying out Mishti. Meanwhile downstairs there’s commotion in RJV house as Nidhi shows newspapers to Nanu where Mishnal pics have been published with sensational lurid headlines. Ketu and Mamu also bring papers to show them. 😆how many newspapers does this household get? And what’s so dramatic or romantic about a guy saving his almost betrothed from fire?🤪 Pyar ki aag mein jalte Huey do premi? Paparazzi in Rajkot?

Meenu stops playing sitar and thinks however hard she tries to keep Mishti away from her family she’s coming closer everyday! Meenu can’t understand how fate helps Mishti everytime! Downstairs everyone’s nervous that sitar stopped playing and now Meenu will know about those headlines

Abir trying to exercise on the terrace keeps on getting Mishti flashbacks and gets frustrated. Hes thinking when did he develop these feelings for Mishti, she’s intended for Kunal but that painting, Mishti saving it, how did it get so complicated? Abir thinks so far he couldn’t define his rishta with Mishti but now that he has, he can’t express it. He wonders how will he explain these feelings to others when he can’t explain it to himself? Mishti appears to him as a vision and asks why isn’t he following his own advice about taking that 1% chance?

Meenu raging about the newspaper editors how can they print such gossip about Kunal! Parul interjects that Mishti’s name is also there! Meenu says truth is there’s no relationship between Kunal and Mishti!

Nanu lost in his thoughts remembers Abir coming out with that painting and Mishti’s dupatta in his hands. Nanu has guessed that Abir actually saved Mishti 😎

Nanu goes to Abir’s room and takes out the painting, uncovers it, discovers its Mishti’s portrait! He remembers Abir’s panic at realizing Mishti had been left behind in the fire, how he rushed inside to rescue her. Nanu knows the truth, that Abir loves Mishti🥳

Mish coming down the stairs in a lovely blue printed chiffon dress, almost knocks down a lamp as her glasses are broken. Jas starts her mean taunts, that she’s completely blind without her glasses. Mish asks her if that was a joke? She says that Jas kills sense of humor everyday by torturing it 😆 Does she have enmity with SOH? Jas has no clue about Mishti’s joke. She tells Mish should get laser surgery so she won’t have to wear glasses again. Mish says she will just get new glasses. Jas taunts that of course mish loves her glasses too much! Glasses are her identity! True, wish Mishti never got rid of her glasses.

Mish gets a call to meet at the market place

Abir wandering around in the market says life is full of complications, first there was confusion now there’s hesitation. He’s wondering what to do and asks his partner to give him a signal . A balloon seller passes by, Abir smiles remembering his balloon meetings with Mishti, he buys those red balloons. Right then he sees Mishti approaching and thinks that’s the 2nd signal, he smiles and decides to express his feelings. He goes towards Mishti

Kunal appears on the other side, Mishti walks towards Kunal, Abir walks towards Mishti, shayari in his mind, though the time, circumstances and emotions all are wrong but then why on moonlit nights does love seem right? Kunal calls out Mishti’s name, Abir stops in his tracks! Oh god, he was almost in front of them!😲 He turns and walks away.
Mishnal greet each other and she thanks him for saving her. Does she really not remember anything about Abir saving her? Did she think that was her hallucination?🤔 Kunal says when they realized she was still inside he had to go in but tells her not to make it a habit to get into trouble. ITV ka FL hai, how can she not get into trouble?

Kunal tells Mishti it’s very sunny so he will drop her home, they can talk in the car. Mishti agrees and turns and spots Abir’s balloons in the distance, she spots Abir! Very sharp sighted, he was so far yet she saw him! She calls out his name, Kunal says how can bhai be here? Mishti tracks abir down from his balloons. Mishti rushed towards Abir and trips, her damaged glasses fall but Abir catches them. Abir says he brought the balloons Kunal had asked him to, he signals Kunal to go along with the lie. Abir hands over the glasses to Mishti and says he should leave. He walks away hoping Mishti won’t call him back as it’s so hard to smile when in pain. Mush suggests why didn’t he come along with them? Kunal agrees that after dropping Mishti home they can go home too. Kunal says he will call mom and tell her. Meenu trying to call Kunal at the same time gets busy signal and wonders where Kunal is. Nidhi gives her tea and tells her Kunal told Ketu he went to meet Mishti

Meenu looks mad, thinks Kunal went to see Mishti at her home without telling me?

Koshlu asks Meenu about the laptop she gets mad at him too. Nidhi tells Koshlu that Meenu is angry because Kunal went to meet Mishti without telling us, he’s already getting influenced by her family even before marriage

Meenu shuts up Nidhi and says Kunal is her son and will always remain so! Parul also says Kunal won’t do anything without taking Benba’s advice first!

Koshlu defends Nidhi saying she meant because Kunal saved Mishti, Meenu interrupts him saying because she’s given her son good values and upbringing so he saved Mishti, even if it was Jugnu trapped inside Kunal would have gone to save him.

Nidhi says but reporters won’t print that news of Kunal saving Jugnu! Meenu gets mad again, says Kunal won’t take any decisions without her approval. She says Abir also went in to save Mishti but he’s not involved in any way with Mishti. Nanu overheard and looking thoughtful remembering Abir with her dupatta again.

Meenu leaves with Parul but before leaving punished Nidhi by ordering her to make lunch for everyone without any help.

Nidhi asks Koshlu to help her in the kitchen and he agrees. But then Nanu tells Koshlu to find Abir and bring him home. Nidhi wonders where are BB’s both sons? With Mishti of course!

Abir in back seat with Mishnal in the car, he tells they have become world famous in Rajkot! How is Rajkot the world?

Mishti wished World Cup was going on then these newspapers wouldn’t have space for these useless news! BM will be so upset about this!

Abir says she won’t be upset just a little angry because she’s so sweet. Unlike their mother who’s not a mom but a volcano

Mishti asks him not to make such jokes as it makes her feel awkward

Kunal says bhai also cannot handle awkward situations

Abir hints Kunal doesn’t know what Abir handles, he says he’s feeling sleepy from their boring tracks and asks Kunal to turn on the radio

Kunal turns radio on and the RJ is saying some lame shayari about heartbreak, Mishti laughs and tells Kunal even he does better shayari than that, Kunal looks nervously at Abir who shrugs

DJ dedicates the next song to the local Devdas types who are in one sided love ... Dheerey Dheerey se plays on the radio ....Abir thinks what a bad timing for this song!