Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 71

Originally posted by: spacebutterfly

Phir explain krdo ye pic dekh ke Rimi😆🤣

🤣shinning more than the diyas 🤣

ajj pata chala bon k patibabu can look good in this ankh jala dene waale colors too 🤪

Originally posted by: Katy4566

even me also.

I would like to comment on ani bon relationship after hira Mandi and moreover why they did not give any dialogue to bon in this whole plan except her saying truth and trying to prove mini is not blind which makes us believe if bon feels her own ( she considered mini as her and ani own) has done some bad thing , she will always speak truth and never hesitate to fight for it.

in Monday episode ani said he wronged her he is her gunehgaar and he will not let himself ( i.e right now his expectations from her or anyone harm or trouble her?

secondly I think ani has become much more calm and poise right now with bon not because of seperation track but his understanding of situation, earlier he used to shout at bon for making her understand and never used to understand what is she feeling , throughout this track he kept on saying he can't involve bon in it as she is at a tender age because during seperation fight , he told so many things to her as he used to expect from her a lot as a wife , yes indeed . he used to think bon is his responsibility and wife and also bounded by guilt for mini and her condition , he just wanted that bon from her side should not bring any problem , he never used to pay much attention as to what she has learnt , she is doing and she is feeling for each and every thing happening around them but now

he realised bon even though is mature , strong and selfless yet an innocent kid who was sold into brothel , left by him and faced humiliation from society which could have led her into trauma and such a childhood scar which could have snatched her chirpiness and she would never come back to him .

kaka and ani knows the gravity of situation bon was in , bon also knows but not the impact it could have on her practically if we don't go by hope that ani would have come or faith on dug maa twhich she would have felt if she was a GROWN UP ??

and we have seen her pain and disappointment in village and seperation track when she kept on thinking will ani come to her village , see her face?? why did he leave him , why nobody stopped her. if

in case of little bon we had a grown up bon or even a teenage bon she would have taken time to forgive ani or the amount of Pain she went through , she would have definitely questioned ani and kaka and would have refused to come home , she would have also asked Sampoorna that why she was quiet when bon dignity was at stake?? , she would have left ani forever( if ani would have done engagement , I am not talking about brothel track and rasiya e ) which ani and kaka knows knowing the kind of girl bon is and will be.

because they did exactly with her what any other family does with their wife and daughter in law??

that is what was shown in ani imagination of bon ( remember in room bon asking why girls have no home or during engagement after rasiya , ani imagines bon ). those were the exact questions ani knew any woman or wife will ask her husband or bon would have asked him .

that is why ani and kaka feels they have wronged her in the worst way as being an elder girl , she would have asked will you throw me out for my one mistake , a husband cant forgive his wife mistake , if instead of ani, bon had spent a night with her friend in his room or shown care , attachment for her close friend will ani and whole rc family bear this ??? will her kaka sasur be there for her

bon is a girl who will love her family immensely , do anything for them but at same time will question her rights , her importance and moreover stand for her and others self respect that will make other speechless as they know she will be right.

Originally posted by: Katy4566

sorry for double post. it is just my opinion as I was thinking about it , I did not watch those episodes I was watching them today , so I thought to ask from you if these things have happened with a grown up bon or reason why kaka and ani is so protective is because they knew they wronged her at such a tender age??

what do you think about it

Bon's dialogue was not needed in that expose.! Im glad that they treated her as a preteen (she is not a kid anymore) and she got to know about what mini feel towards Ani.! They left some loopholes for future track and for after leap.!

@underlined Ani is a changed man now, ofcourse for good! He was impulsive and impatient towards things because he was new to all the customs and practice around him.! For him it was all new and his reaction towards all this caste priority, child marriage, sati everything being impulsive was right.! ( Agar woh impulsive na hote bon se kaise Shaadi karta )

But in today episode he realised that being impulsive and hurting himself will not do any good things instead he must remain calm and work towards it convincingly so that people understand's it.! That's why I always say he is also growing with bon and he learns from his mistake.!

Regarding what if bon was a grown up girl?

The mistake was fully not on Anirudh in seperation track.. he is partially responsible for bon's state..! He was not aware of the gravity women face then if they were sent back home from sasural.! Infact he was not aware of any rituals and customs happening and they are practicing around him.! He had no idea that his country can be this cruel towards a women.! ( I'm not saying that you meant ani was responsible... Explaining just to understand the situation from my pov)

The scenario will be totally different if bon were teenage girl , on first palce she would have not believed brijwasi... Woh saara kaand hi nahi hoti.!

She wouldn't have kept quiet when ani asked her to reveal the truth that why she was helping BW.! Either she would have revealed the truth or find way to prove her innocence.!

Even teenage bon would have easily forgive ani because bon knows that kahina kahin ye halat uski chupi ki wajase and ani was not fully to mistaken.!

We are all seeing this show in a 2020 view , whereas this show is on about 1918.! Women doesn't think of what's right and what's wrong for them... Their life was like puppet show.! Maa baba ne kaha toh teekay, pati aur sasural ne kaha nahi matlab nahi.!

Most of the people lived then where inhumane.! Only 20% people like Anirudh were existed then..! Who asked women their opinion and let them freely to lead their life.! Warna khel ne khud ne umar mein kya kya jhelne padtha hain unne.!😭

Whereas now in 2020 , 20 % are still following those customs but not strictly though.!

It was a great thing then that a man is thinking about his wife's problem and feeling for her.! Ani is a person who deliberately accepted his mistake before everyone that he did mistake to his wifey before he gets to know about bon's innocence..!

Those FBS of bon questioning him was his thoughts and questions to himself, bon would never question him that.! But he thought in her point of view and felt bad for doing wrong to her and immediately went to repent his mistake.!

And about sharing the room, people still aren't fine with that and won't take it as a normal thing ,even now they will question a girl not a boy.!

So how can we even compare or fight for justice before 100 years ? Impossible.!

When even broad minded people in 2020 has a problem and judge only girls. To change their mindset we need another 50 years 🤪 so expecting from kaka and samaj is Totally waste..! They always discriminate ladka,ladki... bed baav between them and they follow sadiyon se chalti arahi parampara.!

@coloured/bold : That freedom of speech and freedom to fight for her and others is only possible because she is Bondita Anirudh Roy Choudhury 😎 patni of Anirudh Roy Choudhury.

Originally posted by: rmahi25

Did i you get traditional welcome in EDT by me?? I guess nooo Naah!!

nah what that?

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Bon's dialogue was not needed in that expose.! Im glad that they treated her as a preteen (she is not a kid anymore) and she got to know about what mini feel towards Ani.! They left some loopholes for future track and for after leap.!

@underlined Ani is a changed man now, ofcourse for good! He was impulsive and impatient towards things because he was new to all the customs and practice around him.! For him it was all new and his reaction towards all this caste priority, child marriage, sati everything being impulsive was right.! ( Agar woh impulsive na hote bon se kaise Shaadi karta )

But in today episode he realised that being impulsive and hurting himself will not do any good things instead he must remain calm and work towards it convincingly so that people understand's it.! That's why I always say he is also growing with bon and he learns from his mistake.!

Regarding what if bon was a grown up girl?

The mistake was fully not on Anirudh in seperation track.. he is partially responsible for bon's state..! He was not aware of the gravity women face then if they were sent back home from sasural.! Infact he was not aware of any rituals and customs happening and they are practicing around him.! He had no idea that his country can be this cruel towards a women.! ( I'm not saying that you meant ani was responsible... Explaining just to understand the situation from my pov)

The scenario will be totally different if bon were teenage girl , on first palce she would have not believed brijwasi... Woh saara kaand hi nahi hoti.!

She wouldn't have kept quiet when ani asked her to reveal the truth that why she was helping BW.! Either she would have revealed the truth or find way to prove her innocence.!

Even teenage bon would have easily forgive ani because bon knows that kahina kahin ye halat uski chupi ki wajase and ani was not fully to mistaken.!

We are all seeing this show in a 2020 view , whereas this show is on about 1918.! Women doesn't think of what's right and what's wrong for them... Their life was like puppet show.! Maa baba ne kaha toh teekay, pati aur sasural ne kaha nahi matlab nahi.!

Most of the people lived then where inhumane.! Only 20% people like Anirudh were existed then..! Who asked women their opinion and let them freely to lead their life.! Warna khel ne khud ne umar mein kya kya jhelne padtha hain unne.!😭

Whereas now in 2020 , 20 % are still following those customs but not strictly though.!

It was a great thing then that a man is thinking about his wife's problem and feeling for her.! Ani is a person who deliberately accepted his mistake before everyone that he did mistake to his wifey before he gets to that bon is innocence..!

Those FBS of bon questioning him was his thoughts and questions to himself, bon would never question him that.! But he thought in her point of view and felt bad for doing wrong to her and immediately went to repent his mistake.!

And sharing the room, people still aren't fine with that and won't take it as a normal thing ,even now they will question a girl not a boy.!

So how can we even compare or fight for justice before 100 years 😆 ? Impossible.! When even broad minded people in 2020 has a problem and judge only girls , to change their set of minds we need another 50 years 🤪

@coloured/bold : That freedom of speech and freedom to fight for her and others is only possible because she is Bondita Anirudh Roy Choudhury 😎 patni of Anirudh Roy Choudhury.

thank you for clearing things out of me , yes you are right in order to become that girl , bondita needs to be wife of Anirudh roy Chaudhary ( a man who stands for right ) yes his impulsiveness was also required else he would have never married bon nor strived to keep her with him during bed wetting track also . I was just thinking from bon point of view as how would things have affected her if she was grown but you made whole situation clear for me. yes it is 100 years back show and I also saw in 2020 point of view .

at underlined : if something happens like this with bon in future and she is questioned in front of society , ani will be man who will trust her fully and take stand for her in front of society just like how he does as he is altogether a gem , a person who has flaws yet we love his character as he has guts to accept his mistake and then do anything to correct it . if people like him more would have existed then in that era also , women could not have suffered much and lived life of dignity.

thank you

Originally posted by: rittika

nah what that?

Lol better stay away from her rules 🤣

Btw welcome to BB forum and EDT Ritika 😳

Originally posted by: Katy4566

thank you for clearing things out of me , yes you are right in order to become that girl , bondita needs to be wife of Anirudh roy Chaudhary ( a man who stands for right ) yes his impulsiveness was also required else he would have never married bon nor strived to keep her with him during bed wetting track also . I was just thinking from bon point of view as how would things have affected her if she was grown but you made whole situation clear for me. yes it is 100 years back show and I also saw in 2020 point of view .

at underlined : if something happens like this with bon in future and she is questioned in front of society , ani will be man who will trust her fully and take stand for her in front of society just like how he does as he is altogether a gem , a person who has flaws yet we love his character as he has guts to accept his mistake and then do anything to correct it . if people like him more would have existed then in that era also , women could not have suffered much and lived life of dignity.

thank you

Thank you for understanding 😊

Definitely ❤️ He will believe his wife Bondita more than anyone , he won't care about society and others thoughts.!

He is one such gem of a person , I wonder if anyone exist like him now 😳

@red Can't agree more ❤️

Originally posted by: castlebones

Koshish karungi, pakka kuch bol nahi sakti...☺️

Btw, I'm T.🤗

What should I call you?

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All the best for your 1st FF for Rudhita.😊

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Wooowowwwwwww❤️

He gonna teach his wifey ❤️

Maybe in batuk's school teacher will say no to teach bon as she is a girl so ani might join as teacher 🤪

Haha . Sahi hai. Naya career option for him. 😆 barristery ka certificate toh dhul gaya waise bhi.

Padhata bhi accha hai wo. Bacche bhi khush rahenge. 😆

What a drool-worthy episode it is

Ani was overwhelmed with realization that bon called him her "sansaar" and he finally got equal status as her ma in her life.. party time for him... how cutely he asked main sansaar hu tumhara? And bon ke ans ke baad toh banda flat hi ho gya tha..☺️🤣

Why was he getting so excited for puja.. kind of desperate🤪. was stealing glances at wifey during puja.. damn can't get over it.

When kaka said after yrs laxmi ke hath laxmi puja hui Ani was most happiest person there🤣koi toh roko iski khushi/hasi ko..smile rukne ka naam nahi le rahi..🤣

And Kaka asked bahu to ask gift and he answered🤪..btw when did they talk about meeting sampoo? Inn logoka firse private/secret life shuru😆..and when Kaka called bahu ye bhaisahab kyu gye uske piche? he's behaving like a typical husband rather joru ka gulaam. when kaka refused he immediately did khusur pusur that don't worry I'll do some jugaad.. anything for you was silent🤣

Finally Ani said this aloud that he's learnt his lesson that impulsiveness and gussa don't always help in solving issues⭐️.

Ani doesn't know his wife is much more possessive than her sis🤣. ye toh husband ke laye roshogulle dekhne tak nahi di thi ramaiya ko😆 waise Ani ne bas bon ko bola tha let's go and meet HM girls, she dragged her Didi and jamaibabu.. end mein Ani was all smiling ki dono hi ja rahe🤪🤣

RC family scenes are *kala tika* boudi devar ho ya twins ya bon batuk kaka... bas Ani ko kisiki padi nahi hain sivay biwi ke🤣

Binoy is😎.. I so knew ye na regret karega na pretend.. but he's 2 steps ahead.. khud hi ruthke baithe hain janaab..🤪🤣

Was Kaka expecting bon to do parikrama of him? As he's emphasizing on ma-baap thing and when she went he's like kya samjhi? Bahu did popat..🤣

So so happy with this episode. I'm liking how they're balancing HM girls, Bon's education tracks with family and Rudhita scenes..

Precap is also

Rudhita will meet HM girls(hopefully dikhaye).. no kabab mein haddi outing pe

Ani already prepared her gift before she asked for it unlike that new year where he's unaware that he should gift wifey on occasions😆... he's becoming *husband goals* ☺️

P.S. yesterday I was busy later tired so couldn't reply you all. Sorry for that 😳

Ani again in teacher babu attire❤️

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