Yepp..
But kabhi kabhi ateet baar baar saamne aata hai toh takleef deta hai behen.. Bahut takleef..
Yes. I know that. Maybe I never had such hurtful experience so can't really say, nor do I know what happened with you exactly so I won't tell you to forget it, because I know it's not easy and sometimes it's not even possible. But I'll tell you are not at fault. Whatever happened, was destined to and it happened so as you define.