I agree to an extent ....but we also share out secrets with best friends etc beside our hubby na....par we don't go and share our hubby ke secrets and weakenesses with with someone we know is their enemy and doesnt like them at all....someone who can go to the extent of getting their lover married to said enemy.....that itself screams caution.Cheating is not always about being physical with someone or emotionally attached to someone. It is also about confiding in the other person, telling him about the secrets which no one knows and informing about he next steps she would take