Originally posted by: LostTraveller
My problem is not her moral standpoint...she can be moralistic and still fight Vansh to bring him on the right path.....i would have no problem if she fought with him for being an idiot and doing stupid things like drugging her or lying to her. My problem is her deciding to abandon her marriage and so called βsoulmateβ before she even understands if her husband really did murder someone or had special reasons to keep her hidden for 3 yrs .....agar usko har mod pe uske achhai bhool ke sirf uske anger aur zeher ko accuse karna hai toh phir soulmate kahe ko boli? Bol deti she is just attracted to him, I would be fine with it. Lekin jab soulmate baat use ki hai aur uske baad aise vichaar mann pe paalna hai, toh uska neeyat shallow ho jata hai. My problem is her deciding loving her husband is a punishment for hurting her exlover on baseless impulsive assumptions......thats shallow and frankly I cannot stand shallow people.....my problem is her not accepting anything negative against Ragini despite what all she heard about her being a gold digger, with a fake father, betraying Vansh but her believing everything bad pointed at her husband.
As you said, she is a hypocrite.Vansh atleast has damn good reasons to hide things from her. He knows she spies against him for someone. from the very start. Despite that he welcomed her in his heart seeing her good qualities after she saved him. Despite that he gave her many chances to stop spying......He was trying to protect the last witness of his momβs murder...ofcourse he wouldnt trust someone whose actions have proven time and time again that she doesnt trust him and spies on him.
His problem is his anger. Thats his biggest enemy. He loses control of his better senses and says and does things that cross limits. But compared to Riddhima, he has more justifications since he has been living an extreme life surrounded by betrayers and killers.
My greatest problem with Riddhima is that she negated anything good he is, to just focus on the bad and decide to abandon him on her assumptions, not even proof. Just assumptions.
Usko ek perfect man chahiye jiski woh puja kare. Unfortunately aise husbands sirf sapno mein milte hai, haqeeqat mein nahin.