BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 Discussion- Week 5 - Thread 1 - Page 110

1. Considering Aari shouted at Sam by mentioning she spoke in front of kamal.

2. by saying She isnt leadership material, she shouldnt take it up coz some one helped her win repeatedly.

3. even dining table reply to sam saying he cant come for breakfast was also harsh.

I feel Aari is bullying sam.

He didnt target when Rio was squating as a captain, he targets sam coz he knows she will still be polite. That is the very sign of a bully.

Originally posted by: krithika2012

" Maathi maathi pesum pothu oru kattathukku mela people will lose their patience. " Actually that is what I feel about aari, he jumps around so much that I lose my patience with him.

His first irritation with Sam was that she spoke in front of kamal about him. Isnt that childish?

With due respect to all forum members opinion, in yesterday's issue I really don't want to take any of sam and aari side, but atleast I am understanding the anger from aari side.

Bala maathi maathi pesum bodhu oru kattathuku mela aari lost his patience..

During bala and sanam issue, idhu typical bala behaviour nu ellarum onna kai thooki celebrate pannangala.. then why can't they also take aari on lighter note and say he will always talk in that warning tone nu..

Bala va yaaro un voice tone maathu nu sonappo he said something settings change and all.. (I think it's Rio nu marandhuten)

Sanam edachum problems iruku nu sonna they all brand her as ellathulayum mooku nuzhaikura, and they don't take her seriously at all..(that is what happened in tharuthala case also. Nobody took her seriously when it was for sanam.)

Adhe maadhiri advice aari nu brand panni they won't even let him talk ippo arrogant aari, warning aari nu ishtathuku kasa Panama nu adichi vitta kovam varum dhaan paa..

I am so disappointed with aari on one thing is, he is loosing his cool and getting angry, this will never give a solution at all.. aatirakaaranuku buthi Mattu.. in coming days also he will lose track.. ipdiye irundha

Originally posted by: krithika2012

Sam's allegation was

1. he isnt being cornered

2. he is being partial.

I went back and rewatched the Aari scene.

1. He started off his reply saying, she is not qualified for leadership.... repeatedly. Because bala gave it to her she should have walked off.

But why? If bb didnt have a problem with it so this is just aari's opinion she should have walked off.

So blaming her for not acting according to his opinion is childish.

2. He says she only questioned him in breakfast table. #1

But you can go back and watch that scene, when sam said let us meet for breakfast at the same time, he is the only one who replied in negative. Others didnt. So she obv. would talk back only to him.

( i dont agree with sam anyone can eat anytime in the house). But his issue was she targeted him.

Which She didnt. he put himself in the centre by saying he cant.

3. On that tharuthalai matter, it is bad to look at her specifically and yell again and again in that harsh tone. I dont support balaji's rude obnoxious behavior, nor sanam's nor sam's( tharuthalai is a bad word) nor aari's( you cant pick on only one bad behavior and attack only balaji, sanam was wrong too) that day.

Anitha's argument is every one says he is boring and not coz of any fault they could say for him. Wrong. This Worst performer was coz he wasnt ready to any of the silly task as slave. and he has had this issues again and again.

Because sam explained that she asked him to do certain tasks during the slave game and he didnt. #2.

In both #1, #2, he isnt cornered even unintentionally by anyone. But one thing I am learning if someone uses a word repeatedly ppl would believe him.

I agree with your points.. cornered and captain aaga thaguthi illa , this is all repetitive and childish.. aari rambam maadhiri arukuraaru

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

I agreed that Sam lost her cool and wrong. She is not perfect and never claims that. She should say sorry. Sanam already said beeped words for Suresh. Actually, no one corrected her even Aari never asked her to stop using bad language. Sanam can create more dramas in future. Waiting for Aari vs Sanam, the honest and always right ppl.

Nobody is honest and always right ppl in bb..

All are playing.. inthat case sanam even done extra homework and came..

Definitely there will be aari vs sanam, maybe bala vs sam, (oru vela bala vs. ajeem, new wild card nu solraanga) in the future..

Yaarume perfect nu sollala.. aari is definitely dragging his issue with Sam and bala. But adhukunu we can't ignore the correct points said by aari la.. adhaan

Hi friends, seems newbies are allowed to post eleven messages nu varudhu..

sanam maadhiri enakum extra page venum pola iruku.. lol

Innum evlo naal newbie tag irukum, or evlo posts pota next stage pogalaam??

Originally posted by: krithika2012

Sam's allegation was

1. he isnt being cornered

2. he is being partial.

I went back and rewatched the Aari scene.

1. He started off his reply saying, she is not qualified for leadership.... repeatedly. Because bala gave it to her she should have walked off.

But why? If bb didnt have a problem with it so this is just aari's opinion she should have walked off.

So blaming her for not acting according to his opinion is childish.

2. He says she only questioned him in breakfast table. #1

But you can go back and watch that scene, when sam said let us meet for breakfast at the same time, he is the only one who replied in negative. Others didnt. So she obv. would talk back only to him.

( i dont agree with sam anyone can eat anytime in the house). But his issue was she targeted him.

Which She didnt. he put himself in the centre by saying he cant.

3. On that tharuthalai matter, it is bad to look at her specifically and yell again and again in that harsh tone. I dont support balaji's rude obnoxious behavior, nor sanam's nor sam's( tharuthalai is a bad word) nor aari's( you cant pick on only one bad behavior and attack only balaji, sanam was wrong too) that day.

Anitha's argument is every one says he is boring and not coz of any fault they could say for him. Wrong. This Worst performer was coz he wasnt ready to any of the silly task as slave. and he has had this issues again and again.

Because sam explained that she asked him to do certain tasks during the slave game and he didnt. #2.

In both #1, #2, he isnt cornered even unintentionally by anyone. But one thing I am learning if someone uses a word repeatedly ppl would believe him.

Nice points.

Aari is in attack mode only with Sam. Others mistakes, he is not even noticing it but ready to scream at Sam. In garden, Sam was nicely asking him about his problem with Captain? He was talking about Bala issue again that doesn't involve sam in courtroom. Should Sam shout and Scream for his illogical convo? But she let him speak. That is Sam problem being nice to others. So she is being partial and biased with Aari here for being nice. No, she is allowing everyone to convey their message.

Aari is always biased with Sam in his shouting match. If her captaincy winning is wrong, BB will tell her or Kamal. Both accepted so what is Aari problem here? Who is biased? Everyone is biased with everyone. No one is calling themselves unbiased and always right!

So if someone is against Bala, they automatically becomes good person. Eg Sanam and Aari. They can unethical shout or give warning. Everything is fair.

Also dont want to miss out on Anitha appreciation post.. what a turnaround this week. was dreading her but vast improvement in her behavior.

Originally posted by: llptch

No one was supporting Sanam in yesterday’s incident. If anything they were just consoling her after her outburst. Anitha said they should listen to Sanam’s perspective too, and Aari said others needn’t have jumped into an argument made for someone else (referring to Rio and Som jumping for Archana). Otherwise they’ve let her handle things on her own. The only place where they interfered in support was during Bala’s open attack on Sanam calling her tharuthalai in front of them.

3rd group form aagi iruku nu solradha naan othukave maaten..

Instead of anitha and aari, andha edathula vera yaarachum irundha kooda they would've talked.. because bala kovama "yei tharuthala" nu bedroom kulla enter aanapo romba aggressive ah dhaan irundhuchi..

One more thing, when Sam said during court task, "ennane teriyama aari was interfering, advicing nu edho sonaanga... But sorry to say sam, ungaluku dhaan bala bedroom la evlo harsh ah pesunaan nu teriyadhu... You was not there.. so don't say that aari ku teriyama pesuraar nu

What I was so disappointed with Sam is, in unseen video, both ajeeth and ramya is telling to sam that, " avanga sandai podum podhu, before that kick he said indha veetla iruka unaku thagudhi illa nu" ... See even aajith and ramya realises that bala enna venalum solli irukalam, so sam don't trust bala..

Naan aan Penn ku equal ah respect adhu idhu nu bala said ellam dubakoor.. chumma color color ah reel viduraan..

Ramya maadhiri cool lose pannama irundha dhaan balas stupidest strategies ku padhil sollalam

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

Nice points.

Aari is in attack mode only with Sam. Others mistakes, he is not even noticing it but ready to scream at Sam. In garden, Sam was nicely asking him about his problem with Captain? He was talking about Bala issue again that doesn't involve sam in courtroom. Should Sam shout and Scream for his illogical convo? But she let him speak. That is Sam problem being nice to others. So she is being partial and biased with Aari here for being nice. No, she is allowing everyone to convey their message.

Aari is always biased with Sam in his shouting match. If her captaincy winning is wrong, BB will tell her or Kamal. Both accepted so what is Aari problem here? Who is biased? Everyone is biased with everyone. No one is calling themselves unbiased and always right!

So if someone is against Bala, they automatically becomes good person. Eg Sanam and Aari. They can unethical shout or give warning. Everything is fair.

Due respect to all of your points, IMO

1. Aari is attacking Archana last week, this week he is attacking bala and sam.. may be in coming week he may also attack anitha and sanam.. who knows. He even pointed out suchis biased as judge during first day, may be next week avanaga kooda irukalam

2. I agree sam initiated the talk in garden, but start panrapove naan enna IAS padichita captain aaga mudiyum nu sonnadhu, just to irritate Aari.. chumma peruku meeting nu solli mani aatuna maadhiri dhaan irundhuchi..

Daybefore yesterday ellarum sendhu pesuren nu solli dining table la Archana and sanam ku oru issue create aagi teva illama perusu aachi..

One to one convo dhaan indha problem ah solve pannum.. illana everybody instigate the problem and Kulir kaayvaanga.. yesterday adhaan nadandhudhu..

3. Ellarum court room la rendu side ninu vaadhadi aachu, what is there again for everybody to convey, nothing is there.. peace out panni mudikanum na one to one convo dhaan best indha big boss veetla..

4. I don't think aari is playing unethical.. ulta IMO bala dhaan unethical ah vilayuduraan..

Sorry for the long post friends..

Originally posted by: -banu-

Due respect to all of your points, IMO

1. Aari is attacking Archana last week, this week he is attacking bala and sam.. may be in coming week he may also attack anitha and sanam.. who knows. He even pointed out suchis biased as judge during first day, may be next week avanaga kooda irukalam

2. I agree sam initiated the talk in garden, but start panrapove naan enna IAS padichita captain aaga mudiyum nu sonnadhu, just to irritate Aari.. chumma peruku meeting nu solli mani aatuna maadhiri dhaan irundhuchi..

Daybefore yesterday ellarum sendhu pesuren nu solli dining table la Archana and sanam ku oru issue create aagi teva illama perusu aachi..

One to one convo dhaan indha problem ah solve pannum.. illana everybody instigate the problem and Kulir kaayvaanga.. yesterday adhaan nadandhudhu..

3. Ellarum court room la rendu side ninu vaadhadi aachu, what is there again for everybody to convey, nothing is there.. peace out panni mudikanum na one to one convo dhaan best indha big boss veetla..

4. I don't think aari is playing unethical.. ulta IMO bala dhaan unethical ah vilayuduraan..

Sorry for the long post friends..

For me, Bala and Aari bully others. I don't see any difference. Aari bullied Sam and Aajeedh. Bala bullies everyone. If Kamal is not advising Aari this weekend, he will bully everyone too. Aari will scream, shout, bully Sam but can't even take a joke about IAS. He needs some more shouting from Sam but she is behaving nicely. She used wrong sentence and I am against it. But Aari needs more harsh treatment from Sam.