On serious note and generally , I can only say this if this is type of relationship in which you are blamed and bullied for every action then you need to man up and take a decision and come out of this toxic relationship which is simply destroying you and making your life a living hell.
People don't realise they have been victimized and how badly it is affecting their lives .
My heart goes out to people who are actually suffering in these kinds of relationships simply because I actually know people personally who have been through this.
It breaks you completely and it was so hard to pull them back to life