Article on Jasmin - Page 5

Originally posted by: Equine

She should leave the show. That’s the best for her.

Agreed

They should evict her or help her

If this is serious, it should not be exploited for TRP

Originally posted by: pratts

It is just sad to see people use the victim card for every unjustifiable behavior. It may have triggered her but then she would have had the clarity of saying I know you did not mean it, it is only because something bad happened, I get triggered by such things. End of story. No need to throw a hissy fit.

P.S. I am myself a victim of sexual molestation as young as 8 years old, then in my pre-teens one grocery boy tried to grope me as I walked down the stairs not realizing his intentions but as with other kids 25 years back did not dare to tell my mother as I felt I would be blamed. I did walk into that uncle's house whose niece was my friend because he showed me a bag full of chocolates.

The result down the years is that I dont wear sarees at all because I fear that someone would touch me on my neck or stomach and I may get triggered. I avoid shared rickshaws and do not like to be touched unless I know you are about to touch me but if you did unknowingly I will not throw a hissy fit and accuse you of something I know you did not intend to do.

Sorry for the long post, these victim stories are too much. You cannot enter a show like this and talk about being triggered because of incidents. People who are victimized actively avoid the people, places, situations and circumstances they were victimized in.

I am sorry for what you had to go through, I wish the best for your future

I don't agree with Bold, different people have different ways of dealing with trauma

Originally posted by: Aegon

I am sorry for what you had to go through, I wish the best for your future

I don't agree with Bold, different people have different ways of dealing with trauma

No they do, they really do. People heal differently and over time like me are open to talking about it too but they key word still is avoid as much as they can.

I have known so many victims as my line of works brings me in contact with them, they do avoid especially when they get triggered to the kind of reaction Jasmine was giving because then you havent healed at all and maybe not even processed it correctly.

So agree to disagree. She shouldnt have agreed if these things trigger her to such an extent.

Originally posted by: pratts

Thank you so much. Over the years I have learnt to be open about it and that it is not my fault or nothing to be ashamed of but I still actively avoid any situation that may lead to unwanted touch.

No they do, they really do. People heal differently and over time like me are open to talking about it too but they key word still is avoid as much as they can.

I have known so many victims as my line of works brings me in contact with them, they do avoid especially when they get triggered to the kind of reaction Jasmine was giving because then you havent healed at all and maybe not even processed it correctly.

So agree to disagree. She shouldnt have agreed if these things trigger her to such an extent.

Originally posted by: pratts

No they do, they really do. People heal differently and over time like me are open to talking about it too but they key word still is avoid as much as they can.

I have known so many victims as my line of works brings me in contact with them, they do avoid especially when they get triggered to the kind of reaction Jasmine was giving because then you havent healed at all and maybe not even processed it correctly.

So agree to disagree. She shouldnt have agreed if these things trigger her to such an extent.

I avoid talking about it as it takes me back to that place

Who would have thought something like this will be happen in bigg boss house? It was Bigg Boss' responsibility to take care of them, but BB is known for exploitation of people

Jade Goody is an example of it

They should avoid this place if they can't handle it but they don't come on the show thinking it will happen with them

Last year in school, a boy threatened that he'll hit me with his belt, it brought back every single thing back to me and the fear/pain is uncontrollable. It's not that he was capable or incapable of it but if he does something like this, I would have to live with the knowledge of being beaten up, It takes years to come out of one thing then face it again and again, not everyone is strong enough, I can't avoid school, my father took me home the next day but the night I spent in my hostel with fear is something I can't explain in words.

I can relate to the fear and I guess not having an escape made it worst for her.

Itana sab hone ke baad Salman 'WKV' mein Tv ki Katrina ko samjhayega ya usski beauty aur roney ke talent ko badhava dega.😔This is serious issue yaar. Ladkiyon, auraton ki izzat izzat aur ladkon ka kya.

Originally posted by: Aegon

I avoid talking about it as it takes me back to that place

Who would have thought something like this will be happen in bigg boss house? It was Bigg Boss' responsibility to take care of them, but BB is known for exploitation of people

Jade Goody is an example of it

They should avoid this place if they can't handle it but they don't come on the show thinking it will happen with them

Last year in school, a boy threatened that he'll hit me with his belt, the fear and pain is uncontrollable, it's not that he was capable or incapable of it but if he does something like this, I would have to live with the knowledge of it. It takes years to come out of one thing then face it again and again, not everyone is strong enough, I can't avoid school, my father took me home the next day but the night I spent in my hostel with fear is something I can't explain in words. I go to school and live a normal life as much as I can but the fear is always there

I am sorry it happened to you too. There really are too many who have been victims of so much cruelty.

Exactly my point!! You will never willingly put yourself in that kind of a situation ever again and avoid anything that could turn things back to that situation at all costs. These kind of things change your perspective and make you see and do things differently. The fear is always there as it is with me. In my case, I entirely stopped going down to play, started compulsively eating and have been struggling with weight issues since.

Bigg boss is a house where you know stuff happens, you can have no control over circumstances and seeing if abuse is a factor at all in Jasmine's behavior then she should not have agreed to be part of a circus like Bigg boss where things go out of control almost instantaneously.

Seeing the promos Jasmine is not able to let it go and still thinking ill of Rahul. Its unfair what she is doing and damaging Rahuls reputation. If shes u able to overcome this then please BB take her OUT. She is not well and should be at home healing.

Originally posted by: anna143

Seeing the promos Jasmine is not able to let it go and still thinking ill of Rahul. Its unfair what she is doing and damaging Rahuls reputation. If shes u able to overcome this then please BB take her OUT. She is not well and should be at home healing.

She is a sore loser and is trying to justify her behavior. I do not believe her being a victim of anything had anything to do with her behavior. Victims are still rational people who still can differentiate intent behind actions. She is just deriding him to gain victim points. Cannot take it, time to quit, go home, heal and be well

Originally posted by: AISHU183

This article is dated 2 years back it is not a fresh article so it's not good we comment on what happened with her during her teens coz we never know what one has gone through in such cases unless we r in their shoes dear

I am not supporting jasmine neither I am against rahul as a contestant here coz I am fan of nishant but as a woman I am feeling bad for her coz often closest relations give us the darkest scars in our life such incidents can shake us to the core

Here neither rahul was wrong nor jasmine was wrong it's just that situation which went wrong thats it

Whoever did whatever to her teens usko bolo na bhai. Sabko rapist aur ganda bulaogi kya