are the viewers of this show ..... ..... ?

A guy Catfishes a girl

Manipulates to marry her

Injures her brothers for picking her up during the wedding

Suspects her

Takes her virginity test without her permission (which is literally like rape even if it's just female doctors doing it anybody touching our private parts without our consent is considered as rape for people who did not know)

Puts her in a cage

Disrespects her family

Disrespects his own father

In today's episode - he kept touching and kissing her without her consent Ik they are married but touching someone without their consent is still wrong on so many levels she was so disgusted with him

And people still want this girl to fall in love with this guy and ships them??

there is something pathetically wrong .

I agree with you.

I am pleasantly surprised to not see too many people shipping Mayura-Omkar on IF but on social media, most want Mayukar together. This clearly means they find them appealing. IMO, anybody who does is only romanticising abuse. Omkar is a sociopath.

It also made me think whether people would like Omkar if he were not played by Sahil Uppal. People are always talking about good vs evil and women's rights, but it seems they don't mind romanticising a clearly abusive relationship if the people involved are good-looking. If Omkar was an unattractive man in his 50s, I doubt people would want Mayura with him.

Also, Omkar does not love Mayura. He only values her beauty. She is like an expensive painting to him. All the 'tenderness' we see is only because he doesn't want to sully her beauty. Sanjay said today that Omkar will not hurt Mayura because he loves her. Omkar not physically hurting Mayura is only because he wants her to be perfect. What about all the emotional duress he is putting her under? Is that okay just because they don't cause visible wounds? People seem to be underplaying the mental trauma Mayura is going through; they think "Oh Omkar isn't as bad because he doesn't beat Mayura up." 'Cause locking her up, keeping her away from her family is totally normal *rolls eyes*

People have always romanticised toxic and abusive relationships on TV. Male leads can abuse, slap, humiliate the female leads and people will still gush over the few superficial 'romantic' moments when the female lead falls into the male lead's arms and they lock eyes with each other.

Originally posted by: clarity

I agree with you.

I am pleasantly surprised to not see too many people shipping Mayura-Omkar on IF but on social media, most want Mayukar together. This clearly means they find them appealing. IMO, anybody who does is only romanticising abuse. Omkar is a sociopath.

It also made me think whether people would like Omkar if he were not played by Sahil Uppal. People are always talking about good vs evil and women's rights, but it seems they don't mind romanticising a clearly abusive relationship if the people involved are good-looking. If Omkar was an unattractive man in his 50s, I doubt people would want Mayura with him.

Also, Omkar does not love Mayura. He only values her beauty. She is like an expensive painting to him. All the 'tenderness' we see is only because he doesn't want to sully her beauty. Sanjay said today that Omkar will not hurt Mayura because he loves her. Omkar not physically hurting Mayura is only because he wants her to be perfect. What about all the emotional duress he is putting her under? Is that okay just because they don't cause visible wounds? People seem to be underplaying the mental trauma Mayura is going through; they think "Oh Omkar isn't as bad because he doesn't beat Mayura up." 'Cause locking her up, keeping her away from her family is totally normal *rolls eyes*

People have always romanticised toxic and abusive relationships on TV. Male leads can abuse, slap, humiliate the female leads and people will still gush over the few superficial 'romantic' moments when the female lead falls into the male lead's arms and they lock eyes with each other.

Originally posted by: shirin04

ik I am confused about what the writers want . Sometimes it looks like they want to tell us omkar is bad other times it feels like they are romantising them

I guess it makes sense considering the romantic moments were when Mayura was not aware of Omkar's truth. In today's episode, Mayura clearly had no interest and hated being close to Omkar; it was one-sided.

I think the show itself hasn't really pointed to Mayukar being endgame because they have always highlighted how Omkar only loves Mayura's beauty, not her. Even when she is sad, he is worried only because 'chehra utar jaayega'. There have been no signs that Omkar will change. He has been consistent in his obsession with her beauty. There are more indications for Piyush-Mayura because Mayura wants to be loved for herself and Piyush is the only guy who values her personality over her beauty.

I think viewers were meant to understand that whatever romance Mayura-Omkar have shared till now was because Mayura did not know the truth about Omkar. If people are romanticising their relationship despite seeing what Omkar is like, I think it's on them more than the makers, TBH.

Honestly, I am disgusted by some posts of Mayura and Omkar fans. There was one where the post said I feel bad for her but I can’t unsee the chemistry. Like what chemistry? He is abusive, abusive doesn’t only mean to hit. I bet these people who ship them and say things like “oh, he is mentally ill. He needs helps and Mayura should help him” wouldn’t say the same thing if Omkar was played by a not so good looking actor. They can’t look beyond omkar’s hotness and see his clearly toxic and abusive behavior, just like how Omkar can’t see beyond mayura’s beauty. Thank god mayura can stand up for her self, I might not like her other personality traits but I like this a lot about her.

And there are people saying oh, but Piyush and Mayura don’t have the same level of chemistry that Omkar and mayura have. So you would rather have an abusive husband just because he is hot rather than a nice guy who likes you for you and respects you?

Mostly I see these fans in Instagram and I think they are teens who think that only so called “angsty rough love” are cool and true love. Their shippers remind me of Ipkknd 1 fans. I am sorry I used to watch that show too but I never liked Arnav’s behavior with Khushi, he was too aggressive for my liking and I didn’t like how he manhandled her in a lot of occasions. I stopped watched that show after he married her by blackmailing.

Thank god now people have realized the importance of nice and supporting male leads and there are many good male leads out there. Piyush here is a good example, I hope the makers keep him the lead and don’t listen to those stupid shippers.

I am not gonna say every viewer is pathetic but the ones who watch it for the so called chemistry and ship mayura with Omkar are the worst and I am gonna judge them based of that.

Mayura is already raped virginity test without her consent is rape this man can never change he need electric shock to stay quiet hope mayura run away from this soon otherwise she will too become mad like his and his mother only his father is normal I hate his mother the most

Originally posted by: clarity

I agree with you.

I am pleasantly surprised to not see too many people shipping Mayura-Omkar on IF but on social media, most want Mayukar together. This clearly means they find them appealing. IMO, anybody who does is only romanticising abuse. Omkar is a sociopath.

It also made me think whether people would like Omkar if he were not played by Sahil Uppal. People are always talking about good vs evil and women's rights, but it seems they don't mind romanticising a clearly abusive relationship if the people involved are good-looking. If Omkar was an unattractive man in his 50s, I doubt people would want Mayura with him.

Also, Omkar does not love Mayura. He only values her beauty. She is like an expensive painting to him. All the 'tenderness' we see is only because he doesn't want to sully her beauty. Sanjay said today that Omkar will not hurt Mayura because he loves her. Omkar not physically hurting Mayura is only because he wants her to be perfect. What about all the emotional duress he is putting her under? Is that okay just because they don't cause visible wounds? People seem to be underplaying the mental trauma Mayura is going through; they think "Oh Omkar isn't as bad because he doesn't beat Mayura up." 'Cause locking her up, keeping her away from her family is totally normal *rolls eyes*

People have always romanticised toxic and abusive relationships on TV. Male leads can abuse, slap, humiliate the female leads and people will still gush over the few superficial 'romantic' moments when the female lead falls into the male lead's arms and they lock eyes with each other.

Hi Appu.. 🤗

How are you, remember me..?

I don't watch this show, i mainly came here after seeing the promo, i was like wth the guy who call himself her husband literally just hit her how can he be the male lead.. And reading your comment i really like the concept of the show but i seriously dont want Mayura to ever forgive him.. No girl seriously deserve a guy like him

Fangirls can turn a blind eye to the story if two people have "chemistry".But I dont believe in judging morality of people based on the couple they ship. Anyways, it would send a very bad message across if Mayura ends up with Omkar. Hope they dont take that route. Because that guy is a monster and nothing can justify his behaviour.

The story is moving on a retrograde line of thinking.

When it comes to legal, the virginity test violates article 21 of the Indian Constitution.

Still in some states, testing a bride's purity is a ritual which many are following even in this modern-day society, 😲 regressive traditions are still prevalent in India. 👎🏼

There is no physical sign that indicates the virginity of a woman: in fact, no physical examination will be able to evaluate the virginity of a human being, man or woman. That we all know. A thin layer can't define your character!V -test means, it's simply a violation of the privacy and dignity of a woman.

A few facts here---

This custom is an Anti-women custom, said by a woman raised her voice against the anti-women custom. “I am quite determined not to let any panchayat test my virginity. I am going to talk to my partner about this ritual. It is an assault against the dignity of women”. “There is not a single marriage that happens without this virginity test. The council tells us they don't want the women to go 'out of control”.

The words from an activist named Priyanka.

They also added that “They think women would indulge in 'illicit' physical relationships if they don't have the fear of the virginity test awaiting them. Our question to these councils is - what is the virginity test for men?”

“The social expectation that girls and women should remain 'virgins' is based on stereotyped notions that female sexuality should be curtailed within marriage. This notion is harmful to women and girls globally

These types of rituals do not have any legal sanctions.

UN also made comment on this issue that, “This medically unnecessary, and often times painful, humiliating and traumatic practice must end,"

This was not only an issue with India, many other traditions have their own ways of testing the purity of a woman as if she is a product, not a living being!!!

A character cannot be judged on the basis of virginity. If that had been the case, most of the guys should be proved characterless.

Whenever virginity is talked about it is confined to women, if men are not bounded with the terms, why should women be?

Virginity has nothing to do with long term relationships or commitment. If it had been the case, most of the arranged marriages must have been successful.

It is another regressive aspect of the prevalence of patriarchy in India.