It also depends on how the show is received by viewers.
The Bengali version revealed the VanYa affair very quickly in less than 70 episodes and Anupamaa stands up to Vanraj's and Leela's character but she is still a doormat for her kids, Pakhi's character takes a long time to support her and Paritosh is still selfish. Leela's character is totally negative there and supports Kavya, while Sanjay is a much stronger character more like Sanjay and Kalpesh clubbed into one. Also Anupamaa doesn't budge much after Vanraj's heart attack there, though she helps him a lot.
A lot of time is also devoted to Samar's romantic arc and his journey as a singer (both Mom and son are singers there) and introducing a parallel lead who is Anupamaa's college mate.
However Marathi version is what seems the most close to how the Hindi version is progressing except that Leela's character is a little less grey in Marathi version. The reveal has finally happened there after 150 episodes, so God knows how much we have to wait in Hindi version.
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