Has this track made Bondita lose her innocence for good?

Hello dear BBians,

I am new to BB forum.

No doubt our dear Anidita are rocking and making us fall deeper in love with them with this separation track but today, Bondita wiping off her tears with her pallu after remembering her roshagulla memories with Anirudh and trying to hide her tears had me unsettled.

I feel this is too strong a reaction to expect from a 11-year old child bride. Missing Anirudh is natural but trying to hide her pain, covering up with fake smile is a very mature reaction. I don't think a 11-year old would be mature enough to engender and exhibit such deep feelings of loss of being away from her husband. Had it not been for her height, one would swear she's an adult.

So, I am afraid whether Bondita is losing her innocence in this whole separation fiasco. She has always been more mature than other girls of her age but I could not feel the innocence in her since the episode where she leaves the RC mansion.

I felt that the episodes before she left RC mansion had a perfect balance of her innocence, emotions and intelligence. But post that, her innocence been missing.

Originally posted by: RTDeewani

Hello dear BBians,

I am new to BB forum.

No doubt our dear Anidita are rocking and making us fall deeper in love with them with this separation track but today, Bondita wiping off her tears with her pallu after remembering her roshagulla memories with Anirudh and trying to hide her tears had me unsettled.

I feel this is too strong a reaction to expect from a 11-year old child bride. Missing Anirudh is natural but trying to hide her pain, covering up with fake smile is a very mature reaction. I don't think a 11-year old would be mature enough to engender and exhibit such deep feelings of loss of being away from her husband. Had it not been for her height, one would swear she's an adult.

So, I am afraid whether Bondita is losing her innocence in this whole separation fiasco. She has always been more mature than other girls of her age but I could not feel the innocence in her since the episode where she leaves the RC mansion.

I felt that the episodes before she left RC mansion had a perfect balance of her innocence, emotions and intelligence. But post that, her innocence been missing.

I agree. They need to stop making Bondita the typical ITV bahu.

She's just a child right now. They need to let her remain a child till they are ready to show the leap. Making her act like an adult removes the childish charm from the character.

Leap bhi nahi chahiye but typical ITV leads ke characteristics chahiye toh it doesn't quite match.

Originally posted by: RTDeewani

Hello dear BBians,

I am new to BB forum.

No doubt our dear Anidita are rocking and making us fall deeper in love with them with this separation track but today, Bondita wiping off her tears with her pallu after remembering her roshagulla memories with Anirudh and trying to hide her tears had me unsettled.

I feel this is too strong a reaction to expect from a 11-year old child bride. Missing Anirudh is natural but trying to hide her pain, covering up with fake smile is a very mature reaction. I don't think a 11-year old would be mature enough to engender and exhibit such deep feelings of loss of being away from her husband. Had it not been for her height, one would swear she's an adult.

So, I am afraid whether Bondita is losing her innocence in this whole separation fiasco. She has always been more mature than other girls of her age but I could not feel the innocence in her since the episode where she leaves the RC mansion.

I felt that the episodes before she left RC mansion had a perfect balance of her innocence, emotions and intelligence. But post that, her innocence been missing.

that day when anirudh thrown bondita out, she lost a part of herself. the harsh things he said scarred her young heart.

she is a baby but not that small to understand that she has made her patibabu so angry and disappointed that he doesn't want to see her😭

it was a big blow but still after coming to village she is trying to hold herself together for her maa. but here also villagers kept torturing her and gave her much bigger shock. this small girl was named an abandoned women. she didn't even understand the meaning but she had to face it. all these things happened so quickly.

you can see a emptiness in her eyes, she smiles but there's a pain in her eyes. applause for aurra for her outstanding acting.

regarding her feelings for patibabu, i think looking at the flashbacks they were so attached with each other. also after bed wetting track bon knows ani is her rakshak babu so she adore him deeply. that's also normal for a 11 years old girl. she miss her time in RC mansion. whenever she is reminded of him she also remembers her mistake and his harsh words said while sending her back. so she can't help but shed tears🥺 her innocence isn't lost completely though. how she said today she will take gandhiji with her to make villagers agree and also to patibabu so he forgives her.

i think bon is growing up much earlier than her age not only because her smartness but also the circumstances.

sorry for the long rant😆

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

I agree. They need to stop making Bondita the typical ITV bahu.

She's just a child right now. They need to let her remain a child till they are ready to show the leap. Making her act like an adult removes the childish charm from the character.

Leap bhi nahi chahiye but typical ITV leads ke characteristics chahiye toh it doesn't quite match.

Or may be they are showing the loss of her innocent behavior to make aniruddh straggle to bring back her innocence.🤔

I think she is shown very mature in the show. Her words, her logic, her presence of mind, her patience, her loyalty, her relations with the in laws... I am not surprised that she is actually having feelings for Anirudh be it as his wife, or just as a friend.

In real life too girls tends to be more mature in young age and due to one reason to another they lose thier innocance pretty early and bondita belongs to the time when girls had no rights or any say about their life and provides with tons of responsibilities and also she faced the harshness of society towards her and her mother she is bound to become mature..

Bt i hope bondita do not lose her childish behaviour and her innocance this is what i love about her

Originally posted by: Kammy02

In real life too girls tends to be more mature in young age and due to one reason to another they lose thier innocance pretty early and bondita belongs to the time when girls had no rights or any say about their life and provides with tons of responsibilities and also she faced the harshness of society towards her and her mother she is bound to become mature..

Bt i hope bondita do not lose her childish behaviour and her innocance this is what i love about her

The more exposure child gt the more it takes toll on his or her innocence(mentioning in positive way) I can connect to bondita.

Originally posted by: Doe_gurl

The more exposure child gt the more it takes toll on his or her innocence(mentioning in positive way) I can connect to bondita.

Yes i agree with u 👍🏼

and as far as i know many children especially girls gets involved in the toxic environment there are boya too which leads them to lose their innocence

Originally posted by: Kammy02

Yes i agree with u 👍🏼

and as far as i know many children especially girls gets involved in the toxic environment there are boya too which leads them to lose their innocence

Hey it depends to content.. like if child is exposed to sexual or violence stuff he or she will start enaging with them. Here bondita is struggling with her marriage problem. She is going through a lot in this early age she was playing with her dolls 2 days back now she has become rag doll over the night . But these situation are giving her emotional strength.

I started reading harry potter and other jk rowling stuff at 10. A 10 yr old kid cant judge ppl on the basis sexuality but i was gting idea abt trans and etc. Somewhere it took toll on my innocence i was exposed to controversial content. But it developed sense and empathy. Consequently, my social account bio alwz says dont be homophobic and transphobic. So it depends on the content and your mind too

Alexia idk whether i shd discuss it or not 🙏 i could nt resist. If its against rules il delete

Originally posted by: Doe_gurl

Hey it depends to content.. like if child is exposed to sexual or violence stuff he or she will start enaging with them. Here bondita is struggling with her marriage problem. She is going through a lot in this early age she was playing with her dolls 2 days back now she has become rag doll over the night . But these situation are giving her emotional strength.

I started reading harry potter and other jk rowling stuff at 10. A 10 yr old kid cant judge ppl on the basis sexuality but i was gting idea abt trans and etc. Somewhere it took toll on my innocence i was exposed to controversial content. But it developed sense and empathy. Consequently, my social account bio alwz says dont be homophobic and transphobic. So it depends on the content and your mind too

Alexia idk whether i shd discuss it or not 🙏 i could nt resist. If its against rules il delete

i could not agree more 👍🏼