What is wrong with Suman?

Honestly, i blame Suman for everything that has happened. I get her parents died and Shravan's dad was to be blamed for it, but why is she hating on Shravan as if he took a gun and shot her dad. The case is still going on, so Devraj hasn't been proven guilty, yet Suman goes on and declares him responsible.

She honestly doesn't deserve Shravan. He hasn't done anything wrong in this whole situation but still people are hating him for it. Even Chahiji has more sympathy for Shravan than Suman.

But who will the veridic come in favor of? Is devraj really guilty? I really hope the verdict comes in favor of Shravan. Because then Suman can understand what she did with Shravan was wrong. I get the she was going through a hard time, but she left him when times got difficult. She insulted him and his family on just mere accusations. Even if Devraj is guilt, Shravan still hasn't done anything wrong for her to treat him like that. I wan't devraj to be proven innocent and Suman to feel bad. I want her to apologize to Shravan and he will eventually forgive her, but doesn't want to keep any relation with her, because he doesn't trust her. She literally thinks she is the only one who has lost anything in this whole thing. I know whatever attitude she is showing is because of whatever she has gone through in the last 7 years, losing both her parents and i'm sure she even feels guilty for treating Shravan the way she did, but it doesn't make it okay.

i am seriously starting to question this side of Suman. it's as if she has taken the literal avatar of Shravan's nickname for her- SUMO.

Nothing. She is behaving like a completely normal human being who went through an incomparable tragedy that she hasn't yet coped with. I am so glad that ITV has evolved enough to show this kind of complexity in a character.

When you say Shravan hasn't done anything wrong. That's not exactly true. When he talked about his dad he insisted on reassurance from her at time when it was absolutely reasonable for her to be conflicted. After all her dad had lost trust in Devraj before the incident and yet she called out her dad as being wrong and using personal enmity to judge her relationship with Shravan. Suman chose her Shravan before her dad in the last moments of her dad's life. Yet Shravan technically put loyalty to his dad above her in that moment. Although I don't think she particularly blames him for that, tbh. She is consumed with her own guilt of never being able to make amends for hurting her dad FOR Shravan. She pushes Shravan away because she cannot be with him while she holds this guilt but it is clear from her nonverbal actions that she still holds that love in her heart. She needs to be harsh otherwise he will guess what's truly in her heart and come back and her defence will break.

Frankly I am not even clear that she is totally against Devraj. My guess it is that something will come out later that will show Shravan that she was only ever seeking the truth or justice for her dad which frankly is fair. If your father was killed by a faulty vest made by the company of your boyfriend's father, would you really act any different?

The way the story is written, Shravan still has his father, his family, his friends. Suman doesn't. Which means she doesn't have an outlet to help her through her emotions. She needs some love and support and help. And if Shravan can't eventually come to the point where he understands that then he is probably not the right man for her.

i think we are starting to get bits of depth to her layer now, yes she failed in her relationship which is why she told vikram to not expect to much and shravan to mind his own business ...bc getting too much attached can cause her to feel conflicted at times...probably she expected way too much and got failure in return...they have matured so im pretty sure they will learn from the past mistakes with coming episodes..

Originally posted by: malikakas

Nothing. She is behaving like a completely normal human being who went through an incomparable tragedy that she hasn't yet coped with. I am so glad that ITV has evolved enough to show this kind of complexity in a character.

When you say Shravan hasn't done anything wrong. That's not exactly true. When he talked about his dad he insisted on reassurance from her at time when it was absolutely reasonable for her to be conflicted. After all her dad had lost trust in Devraj before the incident and yet she called out her dad as being wrong and using personal enmity to judge her relationship with Shravan. Suman chose her Shravan before her dad in the last moments of her dad's life. Yet Shravan technically put loyalty to his dad above her in that moment. Although I don't think she particularly blames him for that, tbh. She is consumed with her own guilt of never being able to make amends for hurting her dad FOR Shravan. She pushes Shravan away because she cannot be with him while she holds this guilt but it is clear from her nonverbal actions that she still holds that love in her heart. She needs to be harsh otherwise he will guess what's truly in her heart and come back and her defence will break.

Frankly I am not even clear that she is totally against Devraj. My guess it is that something will come out later that will show Shravan that she was only ever seeking the truth or justice for her dad which frankly is fair. If your father was killed by a faulty vest made by the company of your boyfriend's father, would you really act any different?

The way the story is written, Shravan still has his father, his family, his friends. Suman doesn't. Which means she doesn't have an outlet to help her through her emotions. She needs some love and support and help. And if Shravan can't eventually come to the point where he understands that then he is probably not the right man for her.

Ten on Ten...

Suman’s character has a lot of depth... Every time I think of everything this girl went through, losing her parents at such a young age, a complete broken family, lost of friendship, lost of love & trust on relationship, my heart bleeds...

The pain is unimaginable and ladki still stands strong...

A girl who is shown as a bitter person to others but can still have smile while talking to a kid and still the same soft Suman didi to her Damru bhaiya..

This is strength.. This is power... The act of turning your pain into power...

The power of rises from the ashes of life...

ITV dont have such strong Female Lead character.. We are too used to Bechari Ablanari.. Those simple and innocent girl who fell in love with rude boy..

But this time we have an Iron Woman!

Originally posted by: malikakas

Nothing. She is behaving like a completely normal human being who went through an incomparable tragedy that she hasn't yet coped with. I am so glad that ITV has evolved enough to show this kind of complexity in a character.

When you say Shravan hasn't done anything wrong. That's not exactly true. When he talked about his dad he insisted on reassurance from her at time when it was absolutely reasonable for her to be conflicted. After all her dad had lost trust in Devraj before the incident and yet she called out her dad as being wrong and using personal enmity to judge her relationship with Shravan. Suman chose her Shravan before her dad in the last moments of her dad's life. Yet Shravan technically put loyalty to his dad above her in that moment. Although I don't think she particularly blames him for that, tbh. She is consumed with her own guilt of never being able to make amends for hurting her dad FOR Shravan. She pushes Shravan away because she cannot be with him while she holds this guilt but it is clear from her nonverbal actions that she still holds that love in her heart. She needs to be harsh otherwise he will guess what's truly in her heart and come back and her defence will break.

Frankly I am not even clear that she is totally against Devraj. My guess it is that something will come out later that will show Shravan that she was only ever seeking the truth or justice for her dad which frankly is fair. If your father was killed by a faulty vest made by the company of your boyfriend's father, would you really act any different?

The way the story is written, Shravan still has his father, his family, his friends. Suman doesn't. Which means she doesn't have an outlet to help her through her emotions. She needs some love and support and help. And if Shravan can't eventually come to the point where he understands that then he is probably not the right man for her.

Bang on post!! Seriously nothing is wrong with Suman nor Shravan , it’s just circumstances. I’m actually liking both the characteristics.

It’s so nice to have different ITV FL 🙂 and I guess I’m in minority who is loving her chewing gum habit with that damn care attitude 😀

Originally posted by: zeal11

Bang on post!! Seriously nothing is wrong with Suman nor Shravan , it’s just circumstances. I’m actually liking both the characteristics.

It’s so nice to have different ITV FL 🙂 and I guess I’m in minority who is loving her chewing gum habit with that damn care attitude 😀

Count me in... Its savage...

Originally posted by: annjose1998

Honestly, i blame Suman for everything that has happened. I get her parents died and Shravan's dad was to be blamed for it, but why is she hating on Shravan as if he took a gun and shot her dad. The case is still going on, so Devraj hasn't been proven guilty, yet Suman goes on and declares him responsible.

She honestly doesn't deserve Shravan. He hasn't done anything wrong in this whole situation but still people are hating him for it. Even Chahiji has more sympathy for Shravan than Suman.

The place where Suman broke the rule and her colleague/junior was going to face the consequences was where she was unprofessional and rude....

After seeing chachi's avatar I am glad she speaks on her face...

And her bitterness somewhat is inevitable ...it can't be justified completely like 100% but most of it can be... she literally as well as figuratively lost everyone in her life....her father, her mother, her best friend cum lover as well as her sisiter....these 4 people were her pillars and she lost them all at a very young age...

Moreover the world must have been harsh on her starting from her family itself.... it explains her bitterness

But her saying Shravan is doing everything for attention etc was wrong...and that's what makes her human....she can't be correct all the time and I am glad ITV has a FL who makes mistakes without being mahan!

BTW haven't seen you in the forum earlier so welcome to the forum🤗

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