Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 26 Sep 2020 - Page 54

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

I completely agree with you that I can forgive ppl as life moves on but I can never trust them for big things such as surrogacy.

Also in this situation, I don't find identify anyone saint too as everyone agreed for their own selfish reasons. Kuhu does have major selfish reason and using the situation according to her benefits but she is also one suffering here with pregnancy stages as well as delivery time, any complications can happen which might even take her life. Kuhu was absolutely wrong, even I am ready for any kind of punishment to face in future as there is no redemption. Your life decision made your life complicated.

Abir is against Surrogacy and even taunted his mom for asliwaris. His mom spoke very badly about his brother, not a single word/emotion expressed for his brother treatment in that house. Just one emotional blackmail from Kuhu and Kunal, he said yes to them. He too agreed for selfish reasons according to me. Yesterday. i read here that everything will be okay after baby arrival. What is mean by that? Is women are baby making machine? One women is made for baby making machine. Other one is taking all kind of nonsense for baby to come to this world. Is this creativity.

Mishti said okay to Kuhu after witnessing years of her indifferent behavior from childhood. Kuhu never tried to hide her enmity from a very long time. One emotional blackmail, You trust her for baby making process. Also taking all of rubbish from her. Give her back or do something! Now even your husband supporting you. The sole reason is baby, again I am finding selfish reason.

Kunal apology to Kuhu after asking surrogacy is lame. He asked sorry as he thought that his family will be happy but its sad now. He never thought that he is affecting his wife's happiness by asking surrogacy never felt sorry for it. Waoh, what a creativity. Also supporting his brother, mothers now brothers child without even understanding whats is right or wrong. Same selfish reasons!

These ppl made all kinds of fun in surrogacy. No character deserves any kind of empathy. This series have no moral, ethics even a small precent of dignity. Let them all suffers, who cares! Only person winning here is Meenu as she is not suffereing anything and making everyone suffer in the process.

I totally admire Varsha as she is totally in character and keeping it real.

I am not talking as Kuhu fan, I am okay with her getting any kind of punishment as rightfully deserve it.

I don't want write a big review. After you quoted with real life example, I just wanted to point out the artificial things and ethicsless things in this series. I can't relate anyone with real life characters as these fictional ppl are not role models for younger generations too. Its just regressive. As you said, I am a women and watching this series for entertainment, we might know whats wrong or whats right. But teenage and younger generations gets spoiled for these things as this series definitely have no value according to me.

You are right, ultimately it is Meenu who is the true winner in all this mess! She is suffering the least, at least now. If the brothers really fight, maybe her suffering can come then. Though I am not sure anymore if she even cares for the brothers bond, so can't say she will suffer then either.

Yes, Kuhu is suffering in a way, but then it's her own doing. Abir had clearly laid out all the compromises she will have to make as a surrogate, but she didn't really put much thought beyond money, property or whatever that she is after. She still had a chance to not go through with it, but again the idea of ruling over Mishti appealed to her more than her childhood dream of modelling or not putting her body through this... and here were are 5 months later she is still fighting with Meenu to keep her end of the deal and compensating her pregnancy discomfort with treating Mishti like a slave.

Hard to say who's selfishness is the greatest - Meenu's or Kuhu's.

As for MishBir, ultimately they gave in to Kuhu's blackmailing because they got carried away with the thought of having their own baby. So yeah, it is their selfishness in a way, but more than that I see their gullible nature at fault for their current state. Mishti has had 1st hand experience of Kuhu since childhood, she knows how Kuhu operates and still she agreed for the surrogacy!

That was the height of foolishness. But then again, we have seen several times by now how even a slight acceptance of Mishti by Kuhu and Mishti melts thinking they are sisters now. This very instinct is responsible for her acceptance thinking Kuhu really wants to help her out as a sister.

And if Mishti hadn't agreed, no way Abir would have. Abir gave in because of Mishti, otherwise he was fully convinced and content with adoption.

Kunal did tell Kuhu that even after opposing it at first he still brought his mom's proposal to her and since she felt so strongly against it, she need not go through with it and that Bhai-bhabhi are okay with adoption, so they should let them. I see Kunal's fault more for pressurizing AM over the surrogacy than how he dealt with the idea with respect to Kuhu. Because he realized his mistake the same day and apologized and asked her to not do it even after she agreed.

Varsha is the sanest character on the show right now. And the only one I am able to understand. How long will she remain sane, who knows.

But yeah, ethics and morals are long gone in this show. And like you said it's all artificial and no young generation should get inspired by this or try and learn anything from it. In fact, this should be a lesson in what NOT to do.

Btw, the dialogue about everything will be okay once the baby comes - it did not happen/meant the way it came out in the written updates. It is not always possible to get the intent or context through Written updates and so many times I have noticed it in fact has the opposite effect than what was intended in the episode.

That dialogue was said twice yesterday:

The episode starts with Abir telling Mishti that I know that you are hurt because of Kuhu's insults. Mishti replies that yes she is hurt, but she shouldn't because if she herself was pregnant, she wouldn't have had to bother Kuhu like this and Kuhu wouldn't have had to suffer. Abir then replies that whether Kuhu can see it or not, they all can see how much she is taking care of Kuhu and that Mishti will be an amazing mom one day. And after that he goes on to say that once the baby comes they will not even remember these problems.

2nd time it was said by Mishti. When Abir was upset with Kunal and Kuhu's treatment of Mishti over milkshake, Mishti reminds him of the dialogue he had said earlier and tells him that once the baby comes they all will forget the stress and fights and there will be only happiness around.

So it was never said with respect to Kuhu or her being a baccha making machine.

Just thought I will clarify.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Oh Okay, Thanks! So SP took over the show after lockdown and ordered the writers to introduce all the crappy tracks for the 9 pm audience? But why the Kuhu centric tracks? Was that DKP’s choice or SP’s?

Kuhu centric track? PTSD -Misti & Abhir track

Adoption & Surrogacy is also related to them

Garima's words All our tracks are related to Mishbir as they are USP😏

S2 is totally flop from beginning & all their efforts are going down to drains.

First 35 episodes of S2 was all of Mishbir & kuhu use to get only one or 2 min . They tried every trick to get ratings but failed.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Oh Okay, Thanks! So SP took over the show after lockdown and ordered the writers to introduce all the crappy tracks for the 9 pm audience? But why the Kuhu centric tracks? Was that DKP’s choice or SP’s?

Kya pata kya sach hai aur kya nahin aur kya politics chal raha hai between the channel and the makers.

But SP is known to interfere in tracks and want more drama, and since the show shifted from 10pm to primetime after the covid break, they must have demanded some shocking ITV drama.

And this is what writers came up with!

... or the makers always had this plan to intertwine the couples like this and they got a perfect opportunity to execute it.

Why Kuhu centric track... maybe just like Kuhu, DKP too is after Kuhu's limelight. So now the show is ending, saari limelight dedo bhai, negative toh negative hi sahi, phir mauka mile na mile?! 😳

Meri toh samajh ke bahar he 😆

Originally posted by: NamrataRa

Kuhu centric track? PTSD -Misti & Abhir track

Adoption & Surrogacy is also related to them

Garima's words All our tracks are related to Mishbir as they are USP😏

S2 is totally flop from beginning & all their efforts are going down to drains.

First 35 episodes of S2 was all of Mishbir & kuhu use to get only one or 2 min . They tried every trick to get ratings but failed.

😆Oh Really? Surrogacy track is Mishbir centric? When 18 minutes of screentime is focused on Kuhu’s face?
When half the dialogues are of Kuhu abusing and humiliating Mishti.
In PTSD track also Kuhu was leading the chorus of Sab Mishti ki vajeh Se 😵

Magazine track was all about Kuhu’s jealousy, insecurity and abuses directed at Mishti.
Season 2 is getting poor response because of constant negativity and focus on Kuhu’s ugly tantrums and outbursts.

People don’t like to watch constant negativity. At least not sane people.

I see many people saying Varsha is behaving sane! I don't think so! I believe she thinks everyone is taking advantage of her daughter's childishness and innocence! And her daughter did not think before her decision or may be she was pressurised for taking such decision or she was too innocent to take such decision thinking about others without considering her own future problems! I like it that she is still showing her disappointment over kuhu and her decision! I will still say it's kuhu's decision, yes under Meenu's influence, but still decision is decision!

Hence ultimately Varsha is still thinking only about her daughter and her future. If put in this way that Varsha is behaving sane, then she is! But I would always put Varsha too responsible for what kuhu is right now! There is something like 'enough' 'limit' 'acceptance' and 'content' if she had taught all these properly to kuhu, she would have taken wise decision long time back instead of craving for everybody's attention and pissed off when any other get attention!

One should be kind towards self and others, not show pity! BM Jaise bhi advise deti hai Mishti ko, ki be patient, tolerant and understanding! It sometimes make Mishti behave out of her angry chorni avatar! But she had taught the importance of love, kindness, acceptance and content! So Mishti shows kindness when helping others. Whereas Kuhu shows pity when helping others, that's the reason she always expects payback and Mishti and Abir don't expect it!

Kuhu doesn't know the difference between

love and attention

Kindness and pity

Criticism and bashing

Acceptance and compromise

Help and exploit

Disappointment and anger

Dislike and hatred

Different and unique

I can go on and on! When CVs gave an example of how a person's character should be , at the start of the show! Jaate jaate they are giving example of how it should not be ! Thanks, but no thanks

I am not including Meenu- coz I feel she can ignored totally if one sticks to what is right and wrong! She is just a catalyst, reaction toh doosron se hua! That doesn't mean, I agree to her and her ways... Not at all! Meenu's suggestion and plans could have been avoided had not Kuhu been selfish !

Originally posted by: SheThought

You are right, ultimately it is Meenu who is the true winner in all this mess! She is suffering the least, at least now. If the brothers really fight, maybe her suffering can come then. Though I am not sure anymore if she even cares for the brothers bond, so can't say she will suffer then either.

Yes, Kuhu is suffering in a way, but then it's her own doing. Abir had clearly laid out all the compromises she will have to make as a surrogate, but she didn't really put much thought beyond money, property or whatever that she is after. She still had a chance to not go through with it, but again the idea of ruling over Mishti appealed to her more than her childhood dream of modelling or not putting her body through this... and here were are 5 months later she is still fighting with Meenu to keep her end of the deal and compensating her pregnancy discomfort with treating Mishti like a slave.

Hard to say who's selfishness is the greatest - Meenu's or Kuhu's.

As for MishBir, ultimately they gave in to Kuhu's blackmailing because they got carried away with the thought of having their own baby. So yeah, it is their selfishness in a way, but more than that I see their gullible nature at fault for their current state. Mishti has had 1st hand experience of Kuhu since childhood, she knows how Kuhu operates and still she agreed for the surrogacy!

That was the height of foolishness. But then again, we have seen several times by now how even a slight acceptance of Mishti by Kuhu and Mishti melts thinking they are sisters now. This very instinct is responsible for her acceptance thinking Kuhu really wants to help her out as a sister.

And if Mishti hadn't agreed, no way Abir would have. Abir gave in because of Mishti, otherwise he was fully convinced and content with adoption.

Kunal did tell Kuhu that even after opposing it at first he still brought his mom's proposal to her and since she felt so strongly against it, she need not go through with it and that Bhai-bhabhi are okay with adoption, so they should let them. I see Kunal's fault more for pressurizing AM over the surrogacy than how he dealt with the idea with respect to Kuhu. Because he realized his mistake the same day and apologized and asked her to not do it even after she agreed.

Varsha is the sanest character on the show right now. And the only one I am able to understand. How long will she remain sane, who knows.

But yeah, ethics and morals are long gone in this show. And like you said it's all artificial and no young generation should get inspired by this or try and learn anything from it. In fact, this should be a lesson in what NOT to do.

Btw, the dialogue about everything will be okay once the baby comes - it did not happen/meant the way it came out in the written updates. It is not always possible to get the intent or context through Written updates and so many times I have noticed it in fact has the opposite effect than what was intended in the episode.

That dialogue was said twice yesterday:

The episode starts with Abir telling Mishti that I know that she is hurt because of Kuhu's insults. Mishti replies that yes she is hurt, but she shouldn't because if she herself was pregnant, she wouldn't have had to bother Kuhu like this and Kuhu wouldn't have had to suffer. Abir then replies that whether Kuhu can see it or not, they all can see how much she is taking care of Kuhu and that Mishti will be an amazing mom one day. And after that he goes on to say that once the baby comes they will not even remember these problems.

2nd time it was said by Mishti. When Abir was upset with Kunal and Kuhu's treatment of Mishti over milkshake, Mishti reminds him of the dialogue he had said earlier and tells him that once the baby comes they all will forget the stress and fights and there will be only happiness around.

So it was never said with respect to Kuhu or her being a baccha making machine.

Just thought I will clarify.

Thank you for clarifying the once baby comes out phase. I agree that both gullible nature and selfish thing played a role in Abir and Mishti decision. These series kind of destroyed by creatives. There is nothing left to explore. Varsha might also change in the end. Who knows! One thing noticed in surrogacy track is everyone is manipulated in some way or other way. So everyone foolishness is out in open.

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

I see many people saying Varsha is behaving sane! I don't think so! I believe she thinks everyone is taking advantage of her daughter's childishness and innocence! And her daughter did not think before her decision or may be she was pressurised for taking such decision or she was too innocent to take such decision thinking about others without considering her own future problems! I like it that she is still showing her disappointment over kuhu and her decision! I will still say it's kuhu's decision, yes under Meenu's influence, but still decision is decision!

Hence ultimately Varsha is still thinking only about her daughter and her future. If put in this way that Varsha is behaving sane, then she is! But I would always put Varsha too responsible for what kuhu is right now! There is something like 'enough' 'limit' 'acceptance' and 'content' if she had taught all these properly to kuhu, she would have taken wise decision long time back instead of craving for everybody's attention and pissed off when any other get attention!

One should be kind towards self and others, not show pity! BM Jaise bhi advise deti hai Mishti ko, ki be patient, tolerant and understanding! It sometimes make Mishti behave out of her angry chorni avatar! But she had taught the importance of love, kindness, acceptance and content! So Mishti shows kindness when helping others. Whereas Kuhu shows pity when helping others, that's the reason she always expects payback and Mishti and Abir don't expect it!

Kuhu doesn't know the difference between

love and attention

Kindness and pity

Criticism and bashing

Acceptance and compromise

Help and exploit

Disappointment and anger

Dislike and hatred

Different and unique

I can go on and on! When CVs gave an example of how a person's character should be , at the start of the show! Jaate jaate they are giving example of how it should not be ! Thanks, but no thanks

I am not including Meenu- coz I feel she can ignored totally if one sticks to what is right and wrong! She is just a catalyst, reaction toh doosron se hua! That doesn't mean, I agree to her and her ways... Not at all! Meenu's suggestion and plans could have been avoided had not Kuhu been selfish !

I think that her reaction very close to natural thinking based on the things she knows. She doesn't know about Meenu's manipulation or Kuhu insensitive decision making skills. She was against Surrogacy. Kuhu didn't listen to her due to her foolishness so she went straight to Mishti and Abir as surrogacy is not right. Even they promised her that they will not accept Kuhu as surrogate. She is angry with Kuhu till now as she didn't listen and her fear is true that Meenu doesn't care about Kuhu. Also Meenu's dream are succeeding so her perspective is humanly and sane. Is she seeing all people perspective or whole situation? Certainly not. Thats why I don't find her artificial but natural reaction.

Kuhu have this issue, the competition with Mishti from childhood but Varsha doesn't know Kuhu breaking the doll house as BM didn't tell her. If BM and BP told her about Kuhu zidd from early and doesn't think everything as childishness and give proper advice. I believe that Mah family spoiled both kids lives no one else. Kuhu has reached a level with no redemption so Kuhu fault lies above everyone whatever happen in the past. Manipulation can happen, Kuhu should use her brain, she failed that holds her responsible. Other ppl holds a small place in Kuhu's nature now.

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Today I felt so bad for mishti. The pain of not feeling d first of pregnancy n all. 🤧🤧🤧

Mishbir scene was cute 😍😍😍. It was so pleasant.

Rest I don't want to comment on quantum physics level character. It's beyond my understanding. Utna brain nahi hain mera pass

Originally posted by: SheThought

Episode 79 is where Abir tells Mishti that only fortunate people get to experience love and he will never sacrifice his love and will do everything in his power to convince people who oppose.

So all of MishBir confession and love episodes also are written by the same writers as now.

I think it is the channel's interference for 9pm drama that has ruined it.

And now they are making sure they ruin it so much that TRP goes further down and they can justify the shutdown.

Humne kya bigada hai unka?!

Waisey it’s so tragic that the same writers who wrote those beautiful love and confession scenes and those heartbreaking separation scenes, they are being forced to write such twisted, hateful episodes!

Whoever is responsible for this degradation of such a wonderful unique show, I hope they go to Hell!

https://twitter.com/Smitagopal/status/1310053014279839745?s=20

🌚🌚🌚 kand kare sab lekhin meri meenu hi badnaam hain 😏😏😏