Originally posted by: SheThought
More than forgiving, I feel like how are they able to trust people like Kuhu again and again?
Abir may forgive Meenu for the sake of family, but he doesn't trust her and is always careful when she is involved.
But what really bothers me is that after so many instances and experiences, Mishti and Abir both still trust Kuhu - like how?!
From my own experience I can say that it is impossible to trust a person once they break it.
I have a cousin of same age, who I was not ultra close to, but we got closer once we both got married and came to the US (different coasts). Our kids are of same age too and we used to regularly keep in touch, even took vacations at each other's houses a few times. But when a serious tragedy happened in my family, her reaction to it, or rather indifference to it completely broke my trust. It has been many years now but since then the only texts I have exchanged with her is when she inquires about earthquakes or fires in our area. I have forgiven her, but I can never trust her again, I just don't have that confidence in her anymore.
I completely agree with you that I can forgive ppl as life moves on but I can never trust them for big things such as surrogacy.
Also in this situation, I don't find identify anyone saint too as everyone agreed for their own selfish reasons. Kuhu does have major selfish reason and using the situation according to her benefits but she is also one suffering here with pregnancy stages as well as delivery time, any complications can happen which might even take her life. Kuhu was absolutely wrong, even I am ready for any kind of punishment to face in future as there is no redemption. Your life decision made your life complicated.
Abir is against Surrogacy and even taunted his mom for asliwaris. His mom spoke very badly about his brother, not a single word/emotion expressed for his brother treatment in that house. Just one emotional blackmail from Kuhu and Kunal, he said yes to them. He too agreed for selfish reasons according to me. Yesterday. i read here that everything will be okay after baby arrival. What is mean by that? Is women are baby making machine? One women is made for baby making machine. Other one is taking all kind of nonsense for baby to come to this world. Is this creativity.
Mishti said okay to Kuhu after witnessing years of her indifferent behavior from childhood. Kuhu never tried to hide her enmity from a very long time. One emotional blackmail, You trust her for baby making process. Also taking all of rubbish from her. Give her back or do something! Now even your husband supporting you. The sole reason is baby, again I am finding selfish reason.
Kunal apology to Kuhu after asking surrogacy is lame. He asked sorry as he thought that his family will be happy but its sad now. He never thought that he is affecting his wife's happiness by asking surrogacy never felt sorry for it. Waoh, what a creativity. Also supporting his brother, mothers now brothers child without even understanding whats is right or wrong. Same selfish reasons!
These ppl made all kinds of fun in surrogacy. No character deserves any kind of empathy. This series have no moral, ethics even a small precent of dignity. Let them all suffers, who cares! Only person winning here is Meenu as she is not suffereing anything and making everyone suffer in the process.
I totally admire Varsha as she is totally in character and keeping it real.
I am not talking as Kuhu fan, I am okay with her getting any kind of punishment as rightfully deserve it.
I don't want write a big review. After you quoted with real life example, I just wanted to point out the artificial things and ethicsless things in this series. I can't relate anyone with real life characters as these fictional ppl are not role models for younger generations too. Its just regressive. As you said, I am a women and watching this series for entertainment, we might know whats wrong or whats right. But teenage and younger generations gets spoiled for these things as this series definitely have no value according to me.
Edited by livepraylaugh - 5 years ago