Originally posted by: angelfire78
Actually I was (and am) only terribly mad at Kuhu about the baby. Rest I feel MishBir need this lesson. She as much as told them they have to be thanking her everyday and they still went ahead with this? Ab rone ya taane dene se kya faida? Why didn't they think of this earlier? They should have just kept saying no, and like Varsha said, what would be the problem if they moved to Dubai? I really can't excuse anyone for falling for this.
I can't accept that Kuhu was all alone and manipulated into this by Meenu, and similarly can't accept that MishBir somehow felt after a couple of minutes that accepting Kuhu doing the surrogacy is OK. It's not even as if no one saw this coming. Dhritarashtra ki tarah blind nahi the, Gandhari ki tarah khud aankhon mein patti dalke khud ko blind bana rahe hain.
Definitely ye sab sach tha jab MishBir surrogacy ke liye khud maan gaye aur Kuhu khud phasi hui thi Meenu ke chaal mein par sach mein Mishti ko hospital mein gale lagayi aur solitaires accept kiye (because at this point she truly had no enmity towards Mishti, she accepted Mishti's situation to be as helpless as hers). Till this point and even till she got the modelling contract, she couldn't be blamed entirely for what happened. It is true that she was indirectly coerced and it is also true that MishBir inspite of the very moving, emotional argument she made that day should have stood their ground. They did have a convo at the NGO later that they couldn't refuse at the time but they will not go ahead with it. Don't know if that was some imaginary convo because next thing we know we get a 2 week leap where everyone's onboard. When all this was happening, I didn't see only Kuhu at fault either even though she hid the real reason from everyone and her desperate speech near the mandir was infact insincere (which means that she had deceived MishBir and had taken advantage of their weakness of forgiving and giving second chances to family easily). This may be a flaw in the idols that MishBir became to us initially but it's a very tricky and sticky situation they got stuck in and family always blurs the line between right and wrong. Sabke hisse ka dosh barabar tha till then. Adoption dhoke se cancel karva di to achieve her agenda, phir bhi since she had no ill will towards the hopeful parents to be, I was like that's unforgivable but she couldn't afford to let MishBir find an excuse to backout so chalo, let's blame this also on Meenu.
Par uske baad, Kuhu ke jo tevar badalte hue dikhaye, in a matter of episodes, where she didn't even think of the life she is carrying inside her, became reckless, made up her mind to abort it (even if still an embryo) at the drop of a hat for reasons entirely suited to her own needs, could so easily forget her family (bro and bro's wife whom she promised) and break their hearts and their expectations, especially after sabotaging their golden chance of getting a baby at the end of the month (maybe even blacklisting them for future chances of adoption). Toh iska matlab usne achanak se palti mara hai. Meenu ne phirse use Mishti ke khilaaf bhadkaya aur woh bhadak bhi gayi. Woh Mishti ka jeena haraam kar rahi hai. Abir ne jo kabool kiya ki Mish was right about Kuhu wanting all the attention and glory all the time doesn't even cover half of it. It's not just the limelight that she covets right now, it's the utter ruin of Mishti. She can be the centre of attention without harassing Mishti as well. Mishti is giving her all the attention too and instead of just lapping it up, she is inturn taking advantage of it by insulting her and treating her like a lowly servant. Her unwitting remark to have them be grateful to her for eternity back then wasn't alarming at the time, if you ask me, because she has always been accepted like that and it's nothing new. But this behaviour is a new high, or low depending on how you see it. Pehle, Kuhu had genuinely felt sorry for Mishti not being able to conceive and now she is using the same reason to put her down and make her cry every chance she gets.
PS:Varsha thinks the problem is so simple that the brothers can just start living separately. Ki isme kya hai. Arey, sirf unki beti problems create kar rahi hai, instead of urging her to change she wants to find an easy way out. How can she take the decisions of how another family should live-joint or nuclear. AbiNal never saw this day but ever since MishKu married them, Abir especially was forced to consider separation. It's difficult for them also. Who came first: brother or wife? I know that Kuhu getting trapped because Abir's wife can't bear children leaves no other alternative than to want her daughter and damaad to escape to Dubai, but to so logically suggest the brothers to split up where one lives in Dubai and the other in India, is callous. (Many logical decisions turn out to be callous anyway and that's why they are so difficult to make when it concerns family.) Even Abir was going to shift somewhere in Rajkot only so he doesn't have to go far from his brother.
Edited by Su94 - 5 years ago
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