"Tum Fitur Ho Mera" : ARC

ARC aka Anirudh Roy Chowdhury.....

He is no God and thankfully he knows that BUT he has a huge amount of "Gurur" (Pride) on himself. His pride on himself is much more compared to the pride he 'Had' on Bondita. No it's not like he thinks, he can't do anything wrong it's more like even if he ends up committing any mistake he can 'Rectify' that. NO Anirudh, certain 'Mistakes' are 'Beyond rectification'. Throwing Bondita out was one such mistake.

"Log kehte the TUM FITUR HO MERA" she has always been a 'Gurur' of Anirudh, he wanted to change the typical customs related to one particular gender, for that he needed to 'Start' from somewhere, he got that 'Starting point' in BONDITA. Today Anirudh can only see what he has done for Bondita...... He is regreting those sacrifices which he has made for Bondita. He was investing his EVERYTHING on Bondita and today he regrets that because according to him Bondita is not willing to co-operate with him and obviously "Udhna tho ushe khud hoga" as he can only give her the platform, it's Bondita, who can give the performance. Today he is accepting that yes she has been a 'Fitur' of him because he is regreting the biggest sacrifice he has made for her that is "Saudamini".

I have repeatedly mentioned how Anirudh's expectations has always been that of a 'Husband' thus he is punishing 'His WIFE' by breaking the relationship. Do you guys know exactly when he subconsciously started considering her as his wife? Well it's after knowing about the 'letter written by Bondita' yes from that moment onwards he started dreaming of making a new world for Bondita.....his wife Bondita. Before that he was not in a mood to accept her as his wife and doing charity. He had subconsciously accepted Bondita as his wife when he got to know that it was Bondita's letter. The marriage was circumstantial but keeping Bondita as his wife was a 'Choice' made by Anirudh himself. Jo Insaan prathaoon ko hi nehi manta ushe koi bina ushke marzi k Kisi pratha mein bandhke rakh sakta hai bhala? Today as a husband he feels betrayed. Today when for the very 1st time he is thinking about 'What he has done' for this girl he has no choice other than accepting that yes she has been a 'Fitur' of him and thus he is all set to 'Let her GO' in other words ready to 'Let the fitur GO'

But the reality is we learn the value of something when it's no longer with us, all his misunderstandings will get cleared, the truth will eventually come out one day, it's just a matter of time but whatever Anirudh is uttering today he wouldn't be able to take those words back. It's going to be Anirudh only behind her success but with each success of Bondita he will remember these words.... This incident wouldn't let him sleep, na aaj, nahi Kal. No matter what he does in future, even if he himself reveals Saudamini and brings Bondita back or does something else it's not going to help him.

Anirudh is currently on his "Me zone" but that day is not too far when he is going to step into "Bondita zone" all he needs to know is, Bondita is willing to co-operate. He is thinking only he is walking on the road, circumstances is not proving him wrong either. Let him realise that Bondita too is behind him... He will take her hand and make her walk with him.... That time his hold on that hand is going to be too strong to break.

I have always said, right and wrong is a matter of perspective. For the viewers Anirudh is wrong as they knows everything and for Anirudh, Bondita is wrong as he knows absolutely nothing beyond what he is watching.

PS: This post is just my honest review after watching past two episodes, if any of you feel I am supporting/justifying Anirudh, plz give me a reason to do so.... Because I don't work with BB team 😆

Plz don't ask me how can Anirudh say "Daag hoo tum" to 8 saal ki bachchi because may be I will end up asking how come a 8 saal ki bachchi says "Yaadein leke ja rahi hnu" 🤣 Writers are to be blamed for such dialogues not Anirudh-Bondita ❤️ Yes they are behaving like husband and wife because they are husband-wife ❤️

That's all for today 😳

Well with Thursday's episode I am ok but witg Friday's ...Noo I am bit upset with his harsh words to my baccha❤️

For Ani,Bon was different. He used to feel that she will be always by her side and that's why he trusted her lot and unknowingly presumed

her to be a god figure who can't do something wrong. He has kept her high on pedestal , ignoring the fact that she is a kid🤣.Cute husband. He never expected her to break his trust, mostly trust breaking lead to breaking the bond they had. Since, bed wetting track and especially the education track they had started talking. The coconut phone was very special for Ani,after breaking it Ani silently sat and looked at it. He confessed that how through this communication device they shared some beautiful moments,how it used to bridge the gap between them but now with the broken trust it has also broken.

Yes,Ani was completely behaving like a husband yet not realizing. If you noticed carefully ,Ani while crying patiently said Bon that he explained her about the importance of trust in a relationship but still she chose to trust BW over him....he was angry due to BW.

This man planned her future kife,infact he wanted to create a new world for her..... Doesn't it speak how much she means to him.This girl was his guroor❤️!

IK he is angry but the stuffs he said haunted Bon too that she stopped saying Pati babu and used Biristara babu instead remembering *Ab koi Rishta Nahi hai humare beech*....which broke me....The daag stuff won't talk about it,it just add fuel to fire of anger Inside me.

One thing,I liked was his hands were shivering,he was unable to keep the pen after writing a letter to her mom. He was so restless today knowing that she is leaving.💔

Whatever it is these words will haunt Ani like hell but these is how their Rishta will grow and it will emerge stronger and stronger.

Trying to be positive!❤️

P.S Much needed post 😆

Originally posted by: rmahi25

Well with Thursday's episode I am ok but witg Friday's ...Noo I am bit upset with his harsh words to my baccha❤️

For Ani,Bon was different. He used to feel that she will be always by her side and that's why he trusted her lot and unknowingly presumed

her to be a god figure who can't do something wrong. He has kept her high on pedestal , ignoring the fact that she is a kid🤣.Cute husband. He never expected her to break his trust, mostly trust breaking lead to breaking the bond they had. Since, bed wetting track and especially the education track they had started talking. The coconut phone was very special for Ani,after breaking it Ani silently sat and looked at it. He confessed that how through this communication device they shared some beautiful moments,how it used to bridge the gap between them but now with the broken trust it has also broken.

Yes,Ani was completely behaving like a husband yet not realizing. If you noticed carefully ,Ani while crying patiently said Bon that he explained her about the importance of trust in a relationship but still she chose to trust BW over him....he was angry due to BW.

This man planned her future kife,infact he wanted to create a new world for her..... Doesn't it speak how much she means to him.This girl was his guroor❤️!

IK he is angry but the stuffs he said haunted Bon too that she stopped saying Pati babu and used Biristara babu instead remembering *Ab koi Rishta Nahi hai humare beech*....which broke me....The daag stuff won't talk about it,it just add fuel to fire of anger Inside me.

One thing,I liked was his hands were shivering,he was unable to keep the pen after writing a letter to her mom. He was so restless today knowing that she is leaving.💔

Whatever it is these words will haunt Ani like hell but these is how their Rishta will grow and it will emerge stronger and stronger.

Trying to be positive!❤️

P.S Much needed post 😆

I don't blame characters for writers fault (Dialogues thing) as I judge a character on how she/he reacts to a certain situation. Yes Anirudh was overall insensitive towards her and he will have to pay for it.

I do agree with Anirudh POV, He was too hurt by bondita and didn't mean his sayings.

But he was too harsh on bon today, some words are irrespective to use with kid, but he did today and I agree he doesn't see Bondita as kid anymore , he is seeing her as his wife and fitoor.

That daag word did made me lose my temper, even binoy never used that word infront of bon, I couldn't believe ani did 💔 ( I'm calmer now after ranting alot about it in EDT) He will surely repent his wordings which he uttered to bon, he will cry the hell Outta being in guilt for parting bon away from him with his stupidity.

I like the way you wrote about when he considered bon as his wife, yes after knowing that she is his letter girl ❤️ he got attached and subconsciously accepted her as wifey . He started to presume things from then, he was too sure that bon is padi likhi girl but when he comes to know about it he was upset and angry too, but he did listen to her. But this time he doesn't want to listen her , he did biggest mistake of his life by sending her away.! His light is going away to keep him in darkness 🥺

Hope his "Me zone" works wonder on him ,let him think and connect all the dots and prove bon is innocent and he was wrong.

Thanks for penning this down arpi 🤗 much needed positive dosage ❤️

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

I do agree with Anirudh POV, He was too hurt by bondita and didn't mean his sayings.

But he was too harsh on bon today, some words are irrespective to use with kid, but he did today and I agree he doesn't see Bondita as kid anymore , he is seeing her as his wife and fitoor.

That daag word did made me lose my temper, even binoy never used that word infront of bon, I couldn't believe ani did 💔 ( I'm calmer now after ranting alot about it in EDT) He will surely repent his wordings which he uttered to bon, he will cry the hell Outta being in guilt for parting bon away from him with his stupidity.

I like the way you wrote about when he considered bon as his wife, yes after knowing that she is his letter girl ❤️ he got attached and subconsciously accepted her as wifey . He started to presume things from then, he was too sure that bon is padi likhi girl but when he comes to know about it he was upset and angry too, but he did listen to her. But this time he doesn't want to listen her , he did biggest mistake of his life by sending her away.! His light is going away to keep him in darkness 🥺

Hope his "Me zone" works wonder on him ,let him think and connect all the dots and prove bon is innocent and he was wrong.

Thanks for penning this down arpi 🤗 much needed positive dosage ❤️

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

I can understand Lalz 🤗 Just like the daag dialogue was OTT as the other person is a kiddo only in the same way a kiddo using line like 'Yaadein leke ja rahi hnu' was also OTT. I completely blame the writers for that. God knows why all of a sudden they are so much into TRP 🤔 However the best thing is the positivite outcome towards which they are hinting. NO Lalz I am not going to be satisfied even after Ani taking her back or proving her right. I want him to remember his words with each n every success of hers. Right now Anirudh is someone whom Saudamini knows, I want Bondita to make him someone whose move Saudamini can't predict.

Bold - exactly.

Honestly even I am losing my hope on Ani. And I usually can understand him but today, just the characters seemed so different, like I wasn’t watching Ani and Bondi but some other couple.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

Bold - exactly.

Honestly even I am losing my hope on Ani. And I usually can understand him but today, just the characters seemed so different, like I wasn’t watching Ani and Bondi but some other couple.

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

@Red Those scenes gave me some sadistic pleasure 😈 It was hard to watch Ani n Bon like that but if we look from the story POV it was a beautiful episode Despite of being emotional one it had so much positivity.

I don't blame characters for writers fault (Dialogues thing) as I judge a character on how she/he reacts to a certain situation. Yes Anirudh was overall insensitive towards her and he will have to pay for it.

I hope writers get brain after this.

Originally posted by: rmahi25

+1

I hope writers get brain after this.

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

I can understand Lalz 🤗 Just like the daag dialogue was OTT as the other person is a kiddo only in the same way a kiddo using line like 'Yaadein leke ja rahi hnu' was also OTT. I completely blame the writers for that. God knows why all of a sudden they are so much into TRP 🤔 However the best thing is the positivite outcome towards which they are hinting. NO Lalz I am not going to be satisfied even after Ani taking her back or proving her right. I want him to remember his words with each n every success of hers. Right now Anirudh is someone whom Saudamini knows, I want Bondita to make him someone whose move Saudamini can't predict.

Agree some dialogues were OTT yesterday, they could have avoided it 🤔 Are the writer's losing their senses?

Yeah arpi , he should remember his each words and make her that success to question against the odd practice.

Ah! Yeah he is so predictable by sauda which has to be changed and bon will do that, infact we can already see that 😳