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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: jey3ram


I agree... And I think it'll be heartbreaking for jugnu for sure. So, before truth comes out, she needs to find solace, friend and emotional support in her mom. Only pranati can make her understand that how much reyansh loves her today and yesterday's matter doesn't matter now. She can be the bridge between father and daughter and heal her pain slowly & completely.


Exactly. This is where the role of mother will take its place.

Jagnu will be able to cry in her mother's arms that her father didn't want her.

But Prani will tell him "your father was young, he was afraid".

Jagnu is a child, she still feels rejection after abandonment, but her mother's confidence will help her.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Exactly.

It's a mother who gives birth to you, so you'll always resent her for that.

We know that it takes two people to create a life, but only one person makes you see the light, so that person is the first to be blamed for it!

Jagnu knows this very well and that's why Pranati is the culprit in his eyes.

Originally posted by: jey3ram

Readlo, you explained jugnu's character in such a way that one can understand her reasons for emotional and carefree attitude.


I liked how they showed a proper transition in her characterization. Sometimes we fight with those who love the most unknowingly. Jugnu is doing that only. She was angry on her mom for all her misfortunes. Whom she can blame except her mom. If it wasn't her mom, she wouldn't be in orphanage. This very thought irked her to the core that she shows all her anger on her mom.


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Exactly.

It's a mother who gives birth to you, so you'll always resent her for that.

We know that it takes two people to create a life, but only one person makes you see the light, so that person is the first to be blamed for it!

Jagnu knows this very well and that's why Pranati is the culprit in his eyes.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolniki

I think Jungu know all the details of Rey and Pranati's relationship as she was present in the court when both of them character assassinated each other. Inspite of that she is close to Rey because she knows he is not matured enough to take care of himself forget her but she also knows that he will stand with her in her time of need. She has a problem with Pranati because if Pranati's mom decided what was good for Pranati and got rid of Jugnu then why wouldn't Pranati do it to Jugnu. The only mother Jugnu has seen is Pranati's mom and her actions are the reason why everyone is in this mess. Jugnu sees Rey as he is with everyone whether it be Pranati or Jugnu but in case of Pranati she behaves differently with Jugnu and Rey, which makes it difficult for her to trust either one as she does not know the real Pranati. Jugnu is young enough to not understand that people behave in different manner with different people not everyone is like Rey.

As of being a wedlock child she is going to suffer as our society still frowns upon unmarried mother. It's upto Rey and Pranati to make sure that she doesn't feel unwanted.


In the trial he had a lot of lies and truth.

She really needs to hear the story.

Pranati never showed that Jagnu was undesirable.

I know exactly what you mean.

But I still think mother and daughter should sit down and have a discussion that could save their future.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ReadLo


Exactly. This is where the role of mother will take its place.

Jagnu will be able to cry in her mother's arms that her father didn't want her.

But Prani will tell him "your father was young, he was afraid".

Jagnu is a child, she still feels rejection after abandonment, but her mother's confidence will help her.


But you know what , it happens slowly not overnight...


But all wants pranati to be such mom now itself.. she is slowing changing and adapting things.. her past makes her involved in navya's matter but she realized her mistake after that and concentrating on jugnu only...


People compare an emergency situation and her dream project to leave child with her father with cheating her...this is not done.


She helping jugnu in studies, teaching disciplines and feeding her favorite food made by her hand always though they don't show such scenes often but it's understandable. She is a good mom but with herself carrying a name tag, how can she help her daughter in this aspect...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: jey3ram


But you know what , it happens slowly not overnight...


But all wants pranati to be such mom now itself.. she is slowing changing and adapting things.. her past makes her involved in navya's matter but she realized her mistake after that and concentrating on jugnu only...


People compare an emergency situation and her dream project to leave child with her father with cheating her...this is not done.


She helping jugnu in studies, teaching disciplines and feeding her favorite food made by her hand always though they don't show such scenes often but it's understandable. She is a good mom but with herself carrying a name tag, how can she help her daughter in this aspect...


Jey, personally I don't expect Pranati to be a perfect mother now, but she needs to know how to let go when she needs to.

When she arrived at the Khurana house she said "I'm here for my daughter", yes Navya's case made her look back at her past, she wanted the lives of two girls not to be ruined, but that's not her role. I can see that she couldn't just stand by and watch things happen, but in the end she won? NO!

Jagnu was insulted and kidnapped!

Rey told him, "Pranati Mishra I ask you, where is your daughter? »

Taking care of Jagnu (feeding her, helping her in her studies, etc...) is her duty, we shouldn't even mention that as it's normal!

Yes she decided that if Jagnu chooses Rey, she won't say anything and I agree, we don't force things, but in the process of wanting your daughter to her father, you still have to stay focused on her, because your "full time" time is counted !

Her luggage is with Rey, as she told Rey not to insult her in front of their daughter, she must also know how to leave her problems behind when she has her daughter with her.

I'm sorry, I could never support Pranati when it comes to Jagnu.

It's simple.

1: She decided to keep Jagnu, she gave birth to him, but she was lied to that her child is dead, she finds out that Jagnu is alive.

2: She wants his custody, so she fights for it, but they won't let her, in the end she has to live 6 months in the family of the man who betrayed her.

3: She says she wants her daughter, that she will do everything for her. So she should have only kept her eyes on Jagnu. That Rey asks her for help for Riya is one thing, she should also have known that Armaan and Navya are grown up, that Armaan is running away as Rey is running away, it's not her job to make things better !

4: She has mixed everything up so much that she says anything and everything without taking into account the current situation!

It's all said that Pranati has to reconsider her priorities, it's not mean, it's just that we can see that she forgets Jagnu too often. As I said upstairs, feeding her, helping her with her homework, should not be counted, but rather when something could harm your child, count it!

Jagnu now could say I don't want to live with either of my parents. I have been well fed for 6 months, but I also saw my parents fighting, my family will fight, but nobody really took my feelings into account to know if their problems don't affect me .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ReadLo


Jey, personally I don't expect Pranati to be a perfect mother now, but she needs to know how to let go when she needs to.

When she arrived at the Khurana house she said "I'm here for my daughter", yes Navya's case made her look back at her past, she wanted the lives of two girls not to be ruined, but that's not her role. I can see that she couldn't just stand by and watch things happen, but in the end she won? NO!

Jagnu was insulted and kidnapped!

Rey told him, "Pranati Mishra I ask you, where is your daughter? »

Taking care of Jagnu (feeding her, helping her in her studies, etc...) is her duty, we shouldn't even mention that as it's normal!

Yes she decided that if Jagnu chooses Rey, she won't say anything and I agree, we don't force things, but in the process of wanting your daughter to her father, you still have to stay focused on her, because your "full time" time is counted !

Her luggage is with Rey, as she told Rey not to insult her in front of their daughter, she must also know how to leave her problems behind when she has her daughter with her.

I'm sorry, I could never support Pranati when it comes to Jagnu.

It's simple.

1: She decided to keep Jagnu, she gave birth to him, but she was lied to that her child is dead, she finds out that Jagnu is alive.

2: She wants his custody, so she fights for it, but they won't let her, in the end she has to live 6 months in the family of the man who betrayed her.

3: She says she wants her daughter, that she will do everything for her. So she should have only kept her eyes on Jagnu. That Rey asks her for help for Riya is one thing, she should also have known that Armaan and Navya are grown up, that Armaan is running away as Rey is running away, it's not her job to make things better !

4: She has mixed everything up so much that she says anything and everything without taking into account the current situation!

It's all said that Pranati has to reconsider her priorities, it's not mean, it's just that we can see that she forgets Jagnu too often. As I said upstairs, feeding her, helping her with her homework, should not be counted, but rather when something could harm your child, count it!

Jagnu now could say I don't want to live with either of my parents. I have been well fed for 6 months, but I also saw my parents fighting, my family will fight, but nobody really took my feelings into account to know if their problems don't affect me .


@bold... That's how it works... Harsh reality... Most of the parents are like that and prayansh are no different...mages used to tell they are not in toxic relationship but they made it as such before the world and pranati can say her child is her life but reality is she has other people in her life who supported her in need...


It's difficult to choose... First pranati had confidence that she'll change jugnu for good but now she left that thought itself.. today, she wants the family to be good after she left for jugnu...


Till the day , she dunno who loves her truly, she will be like this only...


For pranati... Jugnu needs her... No.. not at all... Only in studies, feeding ...apart from that, they never had alone time... Jugnu saved her from doctor and it looks like jugnu did it to save her...she didn't see jugnu also want her love like Reyansh's...


She created the balloon game but Reyansh and jugnu enjoyed it well... what pranati thinks is no one loves her and she stopped thinking who care for her itself like she said today..she indirectly following Rey's advice which he gave when she entered kurana house... Stop making jugnu yearn for her mom's love, it'll affect her badly. So, she is maintaining her distance for jugnu's happiness but still sometimes she forget herself in babying her kid as a mother...


So, it was needed for pranati... A confirmation from jugnu that she also loves her like she loves reyansh... Or say more than reyansh.... Both Reyansh and jugnu are not ready to confess how important pranati was in their life and instead they reminding her inferior each time that it was not her place to expect anything from them

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: jey3ram


@bold... That's how it works... Harsh reality... Most of the parents are like that and prayansh are no different...mages used to tell they are not in toxic relationship but they made it as such before the world and pranati can say her child is her life but reality is she has other people in her life who supported her in need...


It's difficult to choose... First pranati had confidence that she'll change jugnu for good but now she left that thought itself.. today, she wants the family to be good after she left for jugnu...


Till the day , she dunno who loves her truly, she will be like this only...


For pranati... Jugnu needs her... No.. not at all... Only in studies, feeding ...apart from that, they never had alone time... Jugnu saved her from doctor and it looks like jugnu did it to save her...she didn't see jugnu also want her love like Reyansh's...


She created the balloon game but Reyansh and jugnu enjoyed it well... what pranati thinks is no one loves her and she stopped thinking who care for her itself like she said today..she indirectly following Rey's advice which he gave when she entered kurana house... Stop making jugnu yearn for her mom's love, it'll affect her badly. So, she is maintaining her distance for jugnu's happiness but still sometimes she forget herself in babying her kid as a mother...


So, it was needed for pranati... A confirmation from jugnu that she also loves her like she loves reyansh... Or say more than reyansh.... Both Reyansh and jugnu are not ready to confess how important pranati was in their life and instead they reminding her inferior each time that it was not her place to expect anything from them


I go back to what I said upstairs lol

Jagnu can't tell Pranati that she loves her, because Jagnu has no attachment to her... And she blames him for all her suffering.

It's a series so it's hard to focus on that alone, but in real life it's up to the mother to sit down with her child and do the right thing. She has to gnaw at her daughter's defences without putting pressure on her.

The moment Pranati asked her opinion when she decided to open the school, it was a good thing, they have a conversation without "threat, without shouting", Jagnu has been playing the role of mother since Pranati's aggression, it's more than enough for Pranati to understand that her daughter wants her in her life.

Yesterday when she was preparing Jagnu, we could see that she even stroked his hair. Jagnu is worse than a cat who is afraid of water, she runs away very quickly. But yesterday she took the initiative, and even when she rescued him from the doctor, she was protective, she put him to bed and stayed with her.

What more does it take for Pranati to understand that her daughter doesn't reject her completely?

Jey we all have baggage, Jagnu's story speaks to me in the wrong way, I find myself in her (I wasn't abandoned at birth), but fighting very early in a world full of adults worse than sharks, that's what I experienced.

So when I see or hear Pranati not making Jagnu her top priority and preferring to go and save others, I just can't accept it.

His "i don't care" still rings in my ears!

Afterwards, as with Rey, I give Pranati the benefit of the doubt, but I tell everyone what's wrong and what's right.

Rey is easier to defend because he already has his baggage of good deeds, he has an experience that he's dragging along, Pranati had a happy childhood, she broke her teeth when she arrived at university, it's a big wound, but she had enough to make her strong.

Do you understand more or less what I'm trying to explain?

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ReadLo


I go back to what I said upstairs lol

Jagnu can't tell Pranati that she loves her, because Jagnu has no attachment to her... And she blames him for all her suffering.

It's a series so it's hard to focus on that alone, but in real life it's up to the mother to sit down with her child and do the right thing. She has to gnaw at her daughter's defences without putting pressure on her.

The moment Pranati asked her opinion when she decided to open the school, it was a good thing, they have a conversation without "threat, without shouting", Jagnu has been playing the role of mother since Pranati's aggression, it's more than enough for Pranati to understand that her daughter wants her in her life.

Yesterday when she was preparing Jagnu, we could see that she even stroked his hair. Jagnu is worse than a cat who is afraid of water, she runs away very quickly. But yesterday she took the initiative, and even when she rescued him from the doctor, she was protective, she put him to bed and stayed with him.

What more does it take for Pranati to understand that her daughter doesn't reject her completely?

Jey we all have baggage, Jagnu's story speaks to me in the wrong way, I find myself in her (I wasn't abandoned at birth), but fighting very early in a world full of adults worse than sharks, that's what I experienced.

So when I see or hear Pranati not making Jagnu her top priority and preferring to go and save others, I just can't accept it.

His "i don't care" still rings in my ears!

Afterwards, as with Rey, I give Pranati the benefit of the doubt, but I tell everyone what's wrong and what's right.

Rey is easier to defend because he already has his baggage of good deeds, he has an experience that he's dragging along, Pranati had a happy childhood, she broke her teeth when she arrived at university, it's a big wound, but she had enough to make her strong.

Do you understand more or less what I'm trying to explain?


I got it Readlo.. it hurts when mom abandon us when we needed her the most.. it happened to me.. my mom did it.. but my mom never accepted it till date... I proved time and again that I should be important to her more than her issues with others but my mom didn't listened even once...all she cares is what the society thinks and a confirmation from me that I love her the most..


Here atleast pranati helping someone but my mom didn't have such excuses also...


When I blamed her sometimes for this, she'll become aggressive that I lose words... Trust me I also had bad childhood... I understand reyansh and pranati more than anyone else here..I'm not good at words like you to explain everything.. but still I'm supporting pranati... You know why she is too young to understand and be matured like you expect her to do so..


I once decided to end my life but even at the last moment, I felt bad for them, so changed my decision... I don't care how they consider us but they're our parents by birth.. so I thank God for having them in life..

if it was gattu, jugnu's friend... He would have cherished the parents and would have tried to bond them with each other... But jugnu by birth adopted Rey's characteristic traits .. it's not easy for her to admit anything openly... So if someone to be blamed, blame all three and not pranati alone just because she is mom... Though my mom did that to me, I still trying to forget about that.. I don't want to hurt her... Because she's my mom.. one day or other, she'll understand me...

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Originally posted by: jey3ram


I got it Readlo.. it hurts when mom abandon us when we needed her the most.. it happened to me.. my mom did it.. but my mom never accepted it till date... I proved time and again that I should be important to her more than her issues with others but my mom didn't listened even once...all she cares is what the society thinks and a confirmation from me that I love her the most..


Here atleast pranati helping someone but my mom didn't have such excuses also...


When I blamed her sometimes for this, she'll become aggressive that I lose words... Trust me I also had bad childhood... I understand reyansh and pranati more than anyone else here..I'm not good at words like you to explain everything.. but still I'm supporting pranati... You know why she is too young to understand and be matured like you expect her to do so..


I once decided to end my life but even at the last moment, I felt bad for them, so changed my decision... I don't care how they consider us but they're our parents by birth.. so I thank God for having them in life..

if it was gattu, jugnu's friend... He would have cherished the parents and would have tried to bond them with each other... But jugnu by birth adopted Rey's characteristic traits .. it's not easy for her to admit anything openly... So if someone to be blamed, blame all three and not pranati alone just because she is mom... Though my mom did that to me, I still trying to forget about that.. I don't want to hurt her... Because she's my mom.. one day or other, she'll understand me...


Parents never admit their wrongdoing, Jey.

Mine is the same, my grandmother is the same.

It's a human trait I hate!


I don't blame Pranati for everything, I say that Jagnu blames her for all her misfortunes so it's up to Pranati to make her daughter accept it.

I have a sign that it is enough for Pranati to do the right thing.

I'm not going to say anything more. I am taking sides with Jagnu because she is a child, she is 8 years old, so she can't be asked to be an "adult" even though she is mature for her age.

When you want something, you have to fight for love.

Pranati doesn't want to take Jagnu away from her father, but she still wants her place as a mother in her life, doesn't she?

So she just has to do the right thing, point!

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Originally posted by: ReadLo

Jagnu you are a Khurana... Jugnu Khurana Mishra !


The first time you are discovered, you wonder who this child is. She has ways of doing and talking that don't reflect her age, but who would have thought that by the time you're 8 years old you've seen so many things that your childhood has been stolen from you?


@Bold 💔😔


You live in an orphanage, where you should have been protected after your abandonment, but instead the adults around you keep reminding you of what you are: an illegitimate child whose parents didn't want you. But that doesn't matter to you, you have a tough skin!


But Jagnu if you knew...


You are still a child despite your injuries, you would like a better environment, but you have a specialty: getting into trouble.

Then one day you will cross paths with two adults, one you are running away from and the other you feel a connection. You didn't know who he was yet, but you're still you. You can't get close and you don't let the adults tell you what to do.


You are worse than a cat, you have many lives, and more elusive than a fish, you slip through your fingers.


You discover who your parents are, one day you are an orphan, the next day you are the daughter of two people.


You don't know it, but your very existence makes their world tremble, one is going to break off his engagement, the other finds it too hard to accept you into his family, but in the end it's for your own good.


Here you are in the middle of a legal battle, but you've seen that your father is rich, which you've never had in your life, you're going to be able to have him and he's not so bad, you look alike on many levels so you feel comfortable with him.


You are going to hear things during this trial that will resonate in your ears.


@ Bold, this is going to have a very long term impact!


The adult world is complicated for a child your age. Don't you know that the game they play is fatal?


You will be given the choice in 6 months to choose who you want to live with.


He has a girlfriend, she says she wants to be your mother, but what is a mother? You don't know what it means, so you do what you do best, spoil his life.

Your real mother is coming, the one who gave birth to you. You're going to live on the same roof as your parents. One day you live alone with other children, now you have a family: mother, father, uncle, grandfather, great-grandmother...


As you have always had your freedom, now you are reminded that you are a child, you have to go to school, new rules are imposed, you don't like it, but in order for you to be able to understand your mother threatens you, so you give in.


You find yourself in your father, you're his mini him, you feel close to him, so you can interact with him perfectly well, but you still have a hard time with your mother... You blame her for giving birth to you and abandoning you, you're still a child, you don't understand what's really going on. But you only want to understand so that you can heal your wounds.


But the world is still as bad as you know it is, in front of a lot of people you are reminded that you are an illegitimate child, but what does that word mean? You haven't asked for anything, why do you have to wear a label that society has to create to classify what you are? A child born out of wedlock.


@Bold, accurate 👏 Only the people have changed, the environment is equally harsh, specially psychologically!


You wanted to help those you left behind so you do something an 8 year old child should not do, but in the family whose blood runs in your veins it is normal to know the value of money at that age. You get kidnapped.


Courage certainly, but you remember that you are powerless so you think about your parents, which means they are important in your life now.

You don't stay weak for long, you manage to escape and you see that your parents have come to rescue you.


Life goes on, you are not spared, you wonder why you cry so much, what you hate so much. Your father explains to you that tears don't mean that you are weak, on the contrary, you have to let them out, and if now hearing that you are illegitimate hurts you, it's because you are breaking down your barriers.


What is normal, your environment has to change so your feelings change too.

You find out that your mother is leaving, you ask your father why he doesn't stop her, he tells you he can't. You find out that your mother is leaving. You really don't understand their grown up story, you know he loves your mother, you're not blind, but you can't do anything.


There's a lot going on behind the scenes and you don't know it. You live your life as a young girl without any more worries.


You have a new aunt, Riya, she seems to like to bring the family together, she decides to have her first gathering, you are in the middle of your parents, your mother teaches you things you didn't do (take the blessing of your elders), you can't help but tell her that you are doing it because she told you to. An accident happens and you are turned into a girl.

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