Originally posted by: Arpita_De
See regarding Mini, Anirudh is obviously wrong I have never ever denied that in my posts. In fact I have said that we can't compare Ani n Bon's stands as they both are dealing with completely different matters n they are in different phases of life. Ani obviously needs a reality check. But bashing Ani just because he has locked her, calling it child abuse, he doesn't deserve Bondita and all yeh sab kya Anirudh deserve karta hai? Bash him regarding Mini, where he is wrong is completely fine. But at least appreciate him when he is doing something right.... WHY Bon is feeling guilty? That's because Anirudh continuously making an effort to show her HOW MUCH faith he has on Bon, how much he trusts her.
I didn't call it child abuse but its definitely wrong. I don't support anyone locking anyone up, its wrong. He may do it out of concern but that doesn't make it right.
As I said if he was that concerned why not himself watch over her than locking all doors and windows? Because he has to go to Mini for dancing
I am not justifying Bondita. I know what she is doing is wrong and is also feeling guilty for it. Not only today she felt guilty even when she was praised because it was not rightfully hers. She is a kid and despite that has that clear sense of right and wrong. Even she knows she is doing it for her sister but still is feeling guilty.
Regarding Ani, my biggest problem with him is he doesn't see any wrong in his actions, feeling guilty is a far away thing.
And him taking effort to show how much he trusts her, why lock her up then if he has so much trust? Or if so concerned stay with her, take time to know whats the matter, whats happening to her instead of just shouting