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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don't even want to comment on this

Posted: 4 years ago
#12

I will agree and disagree to this statement at the same time.

Anupamaa has made no mistakes in making sure her children learn good manners, get educated, are well fed and walk smoothly in life. They are excellent when in comes to the outside world.

However the mistake she has made is failing to stand up for herself when Vanraj and Leela have treated her awfully.

Children learn from their parents and they have watched Anupamaa treated like a loser and have grown up with an impression that she is good for nothing.


I don't doubt Samar's sincerity towards her, but I am also not sure if he would have been as sensitive to her if he would have been an overachiever like Paritosh or beautiful and pampered like Pakhi.

As Pakhi said in the first episode that Anupamaa and Samar are the loser gang because he dropped out of his education and only concentrates on his dance career which, according to Vanraj is a useless profession.


Everyone has blamed Anupamaa because she has owned up to the blames, which is her only fault here. Hence her husband and two of her children care about everyone except her.

Notice how Vanraj was also extremely well-behaved to Anupamaa's mother and brother, but not her...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

I will agree and disagree to this statement at the same time.

Anupamaa has made no mistakes in making sure her children learn good manners, get educated, are well fed and walk smoothly in life. They are excellent when in comes to the outside world.

However the mistake she has made is failing to stand up for herself when Vanraj and Leela have treated her awfully.

Children learn from their parents and they have watched Anupamaa treated like a loser and have grown up with an impression that she is good for nothing.


I don't doubt Samar's sincerity towards her, but I am also not sure if he would have been as sensitive to her if he would have been an overachiever like Paritosh or beautiful and pampered like Pakhi.

As Pakhi said in the first episode that Anupamaa and Samar are the loser gang because he dropped out of his education and only concentrates on his dance career which, according to Vanraj is a useless profession.


Everyone has blamed Anupamaa because she has owned up to the blames, which is her only fault here. Hence her husband and two of her children care about everyone except her.

Notice how Vanraj was also extremely well-behaved to Anupamaa's mother and brother, but not her...

This is exactly what I wanted to say!❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
#14

Father never respected mother ,neither as woman nor as wife/mother . Father and his family is treating mother like garbage whose worth is = 0 .


Kids learns things from father too. Here they learn from the father about how to use mother for selfish desires and how to keep her below the shoes. They think for the mother , the way their father thinks.


Jis age par baap ki responsibility hoti hai ki bacche ki career ko set kare, bacche ko financially independent banaye uss time par to baap secretary ke sath ayyashi karne mai busy hai. 50 saal ka baap bacche ko independent banane k badle secretary k saath dates par jane mai busy hai,secretary ke nakhre uthane mai busy hai so pehle uss baap koi ghuma kar thappad maro. main hoti to abhi tak 2-3 tamache laga diya hota😡


Father is having extra marital affair without any remorse. She is maid and caretaker of the house and only reward she got for this is Label name "Mrs. anupama" in the society.


In such women's cases, if kids are enough mature then they will correct father and will take stand for their mother but if kids are enough immature , they will follow great father's foot step and will treat the mother same way as the father does.


Please bash father too who is selfish to the core, who is having extra marital affair, who treats wife like pairo ki jutti , for whom wife is only to satisfy selfish desires and to pass bossy orders without giving any respect.


jab baap aisa hai to bacche to sir par chadh kar nachege he!!😡Baap ne maa ko respect nai diya to bacche kaha se sikhenge ki maa ki izzat karna kya hota hai!!!! 🤢

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Posted: 4 years ago
#15

Bachon ki soch ghatiya hai isme maa ki kya galti. anupama is not a bad mother. infact she treats her children equally and love them truly. Being a mother is not a job.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angiestarplus

Anupamaa has one job!! To raise respectful independent Children that are good human beings. She failed terribly at her job. So many hard working women manage housework while raising Children who are respectful Human beings. If she didn’t work and didn’t raise good children, is she considered a hero for managing the kitchen well?

well vanraj is equally responsible to raise good children. Both take the blame
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sorry I disagree with you TM. Every parents in the world try their level best to raise good kids. At the end of the day its destiny and luck.

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