Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 01 Sep 2020 - Page 44

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

Bold-😆Uss gane ke bharose hi toh zindagi chal rahi hai

Dekhein kab tak chalegi 😆

Originally posted by: Appu1981

you know the funny thing is the way varsha n jasmeet is treating mishti, they fear the same treatment Will be meted to kunal n kuhu

If mishti is muhboli in maheshwari house... then kunal is also muhbola and kuhu is muhboli dil of meenu

Will varsha be okay if BP-BM give property share to mishti??? If at all that happens, what will be jasmeet n varsha’s reaction??

While I don’t agree with meenu’s thought process as she should treat abir n kunal the same, but who are varsha n jasmeet to say anything to meenu if she wants to give her property to her son... double standard.. eh??

And they are behaving as if kunal is a nakara, even if he doesn’t get property he is well educated and has a successful career... plus maheshwaris are not gareeb that they cannot support kuhu n kunal if things go awry

I suppose, people don’t like the taste of their own medicine

Varsha main concern is partiality runs in RVs home and quite sure that she sees partially runs in mahs home regarding Kuhu too. Even though, she never raised her points infront of BM, BP regarding Kuhu's partiality. Its waste to share her points to BM and Bp as they live in dream land where everyone is perfect. Meenu swap the rista and made an predictions that mah will never come back with Rishta. But they come back with rishta even Meenu is shocked with their behavior. Meenu right away understood the partiality between Kuhu and Mishti. Meenu is smart and still using the partiality to create difference between Kuhu and Mishti. Jas always make unnecessary comments and called Kuhu too vamp lol. Meenu knows about BM and BP more than these two know about themselves and that is Meenu's success and other people failure. BM and BP spoiled both girls life by not treating their issues properly and still they are suffering.

uru. i forgot raey. your last friday amd saturdays episode highlight was hilarious!😆

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

uru. i forgot raey. your last friday amd saturdays episode highlight was hilarious!😆

Hey thanks 🤗😆

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

Varsha main concern is partiality runs in RVs home and quite sure that she sees partially runs in mahs home regarding Kuhu too. Even though, she never raised her points infront of BM, BP regarding Kuhu's partiality. Its waste to share her points to BM and Bp as they live in dream land where everyone is perfect. Meenu swap the rista and made an predictions that mah will never come back with Rishta. But they come back with rishta even Meenu is shocked with their behavior. Meenu right away understood the partiality between Kuhu and Mishti. Meenu is smart and still using the partiality to create difference between Kuhu and Mishti. Jas always make unnecessary comments and called Kuhu too vamp lol. Meenu knows about BM and BP more than these two know about themselves and that is Meenu's success and other people failure. BM and BP spoiled both girls life by not treating their issues properly and still they are suffering.

Partiality runs in maheshwari house with mishti also.. had varsha n jasmeet accepted mishti wholeheartedly, they wouldn’t ask mishti to adjust to kuhu’s tantrums.. they would’nt expect mishti to adjust and be the big sister..

I agree that BM-BP are very protective and concerned about mishti.. but you have to understand that they have defacto adopted her.. she is their daughter just like kuhu is varsha’s.... would varsha compare Naira n kuhu or Akshara n kuhu??

BM expects varsha to raise n make decisions for kuhu...sane way BM takes decisions for mishti .... the roles have been carved out..

Does varsha put mishti above kuhu?? Then why the expectation that BM will put kuhu above mishti... bcoz Mishti is adopted that’s why this expectation that for BM/BP kuhu should hold more importance ???

And by the above points I’m not absolving BM/BP from things they have been thoughtless about.. like the Rishta swap, etc.. but I’m saying that it takes 2 to tango..

Originally posted by: Appu1981

Partiality runs in maheshwari house with mishti also.. had varsha n jasmeet accepted mishti wholeheartedly, they wouldn’t find ask mishti to adjust to kuhu’s tantrums.. they would’nt expect mishti to adjust and be the big sister..

I agree that BM-BP are very protective and concerned about mishti.. but you have to understand that they have defacto adopted her.. she is their daughter just like kuhu is varsha’s.... would varsha compare Naira n kuhu or Akshara n kuhu??

BM gas allowed varsha to raise n make decisions for kuhu...sane way BM takes decisions for mishti .... the roles have been carved out..

Does varsha put mishti above kuhu?? Then why the expectation that BM will put kuhu above mishti... bcoz midhti is adopted that’s why this expectation that for BM/BP kuhu should hold more importance ???

And by the above points I’m not absolving BM/BP from things they have been thoughtless about.. like the Rishta swap, etc.. but I’m saying that it takes 2 to tango..

If BM and BP expect Kuhu and Mishti to behave like sisters then they should have held some common ground between them. The thing is BM and BP unknowingly give more importance to Mishti regardless of their own grand children such as Nannu, Kuhu and it is quite visible to everyone except BM and BP. Then they should accept it as we give more important to Mishti and you take care of your daughter but they lives in la la land that they treat their girls equally which makes Varsha and Jas concern about their partiality, But Varsha never claimed that she treat Kuhu and Mishti equally and she is very honest about her feelings till now and Jasmeet too. BP and BM should have more honest so people can understand it. Your actions says somethings and words says that we are treating everyone equal. Varsha asking Mishti to adjust is wrong and that make Kuhu never able to understand her mistakes till now and Kuhu is suffering due to this extra caring nature of Varsha to compensate for BM and BP partiality. Honesty is very much required in joint family system and Mahs doesn't have it also they just give band-aid solution not permanent ones. Like gifting Kuhu a jewel just because Mishti got jewel in RVs home but never try to understand that Kuhu feelings as she feel neglected and talk through her. They tried compensate by giving materialistic things, Kuhu needs equal treatment, love.

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

If BM and BP expect Kuhu and Mishti to behave like sisters then they should have held some common ground between them. The thing is BM and BP unknowingly give more importance to Mishti regardless of their own grand children such as Nannu, Kuhu and it is quite visible to everyone except BM and BP. Then they should accept it as we give more important to Mishti and you take care of your daughter but they lives in la la land that they treat their girls equally which makes Varsha and Jas concern about their partiality, But Varsha never claimed that she treat Kuhu and Mishti equally and she is very honest about her feelings till now and Jasmeet too. BP and BM should have more honest so people can understand it. Your actions says somethings and words says that we are treating everyone equal. Varsha asking Mishti to adjust is wrong and that make Kuhu never able to understand her mistakes till now and Kuhu is suffering due to this extra caring nature of Varsha to compensate for BM and BP partiality.

I agree that BP/BM live in a lala land and don’t realize that their priority lies with mishti and not with kuhu as kuhu ko priority dene uske parents hai.. as it should be bcoz mishti is their daughter and they are her parents ... every parent should keep their child as their priority....irrespective whether you adopt and raise a child or give birth and raise a child...

But I wouldn’t call their behavior as partiality ... it is what parents do..and it’s okay as long as one doesnt jaan bujhke hurt other kids or turn a blind eye to Your own kids bad behavior...

It’s not like they are snatching things from kuhu n giving to mishti... all they are doing is keeping mishti first in their thoughts or actions .. which can be many things but not partiality for sure

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

If BM and BP expect Kuhu and Mishti to behave like sisters then they should have held some common ground between them. The thing is BM and BP unknowingly give more importance to Mishti regardless of their own grand children such as Nannu, Kuhu and it is quite visible to everyone except BM and BP. Then they should accept it as we give more important to Mishti and you take care of your daughter but they lives in la la land that they treat their girls equally which makes Varsha and Jas concern about their partiality, But Varsha never claimed that she treat Kuhu and Mishti equally and she is very honest about her feelings till now and Jasmeet too. BP and BM should have more honest so people can understand it. Your actions says somethings and words says that we are treating everyone equal. Varsha asking Mishti to adjust is wrong and that make Kuhu never able to understand her mistakes till now and Kuhu is suffering due to this extra caring nature of Varsha to compensate for BM and BP partiality.

You are right , actually I never had problem with BP and BM being extra protective about mishti because hey they adopted her , somewhere she took akshara's place in their lives , it's a emotional connect they feel towards her plus someonen gave them this responsibility so it all the more becomes their duty to fulfill it

Having said that, they can't go away saying we did all good , we treated everyone equally, we are happy in a lala land and we expect others to be so. I have problem with this attitude, the fact is they can't let go off their duties as grand parents too , being elders of the family , this comes to them and by being grand parents doesn't mean your get your grand daughter married and thats all your duty is over , when was the last time we saw a scene where BP and kuhu had a emotional scene or BP trying to authoritatively say to kuhu to realise her mistakes just like he says to mishti ? Equality right, then why kuhu wasn't praised when she started her business ...why isn't she scolded with words like " aapne hamara guroor tod diya kuhu.?" ...why no one stops Jasmeet from bad mouthing mishti? Why the hell mishti still feels it's an act of favour done to her by BP and BM ..

Somewhere BM and BP couldn't control and maintain a balance in their family, that's the reason, one daughter feels it's a favour done to her and other one feels she is always neglected...come on you need to call the girls and discuss the issues not say haan humne sab equal hi kiya tha sab sahi hi tha , sahi tha toh phir itni problems kyun hai aapke family mein 😆

Mind you, no one knows that nishant still suffers from anxiety disorders And they say we know everything

Once upon a time I had high regards for BM and BP and I used to be their defender here but as show progressed I could see they aren't completely right and others aren't completely wrong too

We can't be living in a bubble sorry

Originally posted by: Appu1981

I agree that BP/BM live in a lala land and don’t realize that their priority lies with mishti and not with kuhu as kuhu ko priority dene uske parents hai.. as it should be bcoz mishti is their daughter and they are her parents ... every parent should keep their child as their priority....irrespective whether you adopt and raise a child or give birth and raise a child...

But I wouldn’t call their behavior as partiality ... it is what parents do..and it’s okay as long as one doesnt jaan bujhke hurt other kids or turn a blind eye to Your own kids bad behavior...

It’s not like they are snatching things from kuhu n giving to mishti... all they are doing is keeping mishti first in their thoughts or actions .. which can be many things but not partiality for sure

At bold, they are not snatching but ignoring Kuhu's feeling. Anyways I end the discussion here as they failed as parents as well as grandparents. Kuhu atleast learned to say sorry, all thanks to her husband and making her realize her own mistake. Hopefully, Kuhu can change for the best and be happy with herself without thinking much about other people feeling towards her. Hope Mishti gets the confidence back and don't think much about other people opinion and live her life happily. But these writers always make these girls fight, patch up and history repeats itself as drama makes TRP.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

You are right , actually I never had problem with BP and BM being extra protective about mishti because hey they adopted her , somewhere she took akshara's place in their lives , it's a emotional connect they feel towards her plus someonen gave them this responsibility so it all the more becomes their duty to fulfill it

Having said that, they can't go away saying we did all good , we treated everyone equally, we are happy in a lala land and we expect others to be so. I have problem with this attitude, the fact is they can't let go off their duties as grand parents too , being elders of the family , this comes to them and by being grand parents doesn't mean your get your grand daughter married and thats all your duty is over , when was the last time we saw a scene where BP and kuhu had a emotional scene or BP trying to authoritatively say to kuhu to realise her mistakes just like he says to mishti ? Equality right, then why kuhu wasn't praised when she started her business ...why isn't she scolded with words like " aapne hamara guroor tod diya kuhu.?" ...why no one stops Jasmeet from bad mouthing mishti? Why the hell mishti still feels it's an act of favour done to her by BP and BM ..

Somewhere BM and BP couldn't control and maintain a balance in their family, that's the reason, one daughter feels it's a favour done to her and other one feels she is always neglected...come on you need to call the girls and discuss the issues not say haan humne sab equal hi kiya tha sab sahi hi tha , sahi tha toh phir itni problems kyun hai aapke family mein 😆

Mind you, no one knows that nishant still suffers from anxiety disorders And they say we know everything

Once upon a time I had high regards for BM and BP and I used to be their defender here but as show progressed I could see they aren't completely right and others aren't completely wrong too

We can't be living in a bubble sorry

I don't have any problem with BP and BP extra caring to Mishti but don't be hypocrites and just tell Kuhu that Mishti is more important than her. She might take it in good way who knows! Kunal till now make sure that Kuhu learns that she is last priority in his life and she still keeps up with him after knowing his preference. She would have kept with Mishti too. Yesterday too, Kunal showed her place in his life and she said sorry! BM and BP never discuss anything with Kuhu and tells her that she is child. oh come on, She deal with her fake marriage, started her own business etc. I am sure that if they talk with her, she might understand their point of views.