Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 25 Aug 2020 - Page 10

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Watching again, and in a trolling mood this time 😊.

Meenu is super fast - in less than a minute she had 2 packed (?) suitcases ready? 😆 Kya dramatic effect tha woh!!

And with a straight face she says “patni ki jagah apne pati ke saath hoti hai aur tum dono ke pati iss ghar mein nahi hain”

Nidhi mami ko iss scene mein hona chahiye tha - then she says “par benba aapke pati bhi iss ghar mein nahi rehte”

Meenu glares, Patil shushes, and Koslu says “kya bol che mariwali”

🤣🤣

Sab apne apne chinta mein doobe hain. Meenu on one side wondering how to get her sons back home and BP wondering if he lost the ongoing competition he has with Meenu on how to raise children 😆. Looks like finally he is concerned that they are still pretending in front of them instead of sharing, but wait then he goes off on a tangent and wonders if too much love can spoil children. Need one of Pali’s gifs here 😆. Way to go for missing the point BP 🥳

Anyway, there he goes telling Abir his mom’s way is right and putting him in a dilemma 😛. Well, Meenu doesn’t need anyone else to tell her she’s right, and...what can I say, she is right! Kuhu can’t stop with the taana and Mish can’t stop talking - at least this time her talking bought them some time (and a place to stay for the night) 😆. Maa ambe ko pata nahi aur kitne saugand sunne padenge!

(I guess it doesn’t count though that they did work together just a little while ago to catch a murderer. Oh well!)

Yeh log jaante hain kya hum kya kya boots hain? They have Abir saying main chuppam chuppai ka champion hoon 🤣

Abir ko finally bulb moment hua ki kyun Mishti ne jhoot bola after BP told them about Meenu’s dhamki- probably why he went to RJV to talk to her. Kunal sahi hai yaar - Kuhu Mishti se jhagda karegi, tum jaake Abir ko sorry bol doge aur problem solved? And then what? Abir says sorry to Mishti to close the loop? Thoda equation mein gadbad nahi hua?

Then a little bit of mutual admiration going on, and Kunal somehow reads a plan on Abir’s face that audience has not been able to figure out (I have a doubt whether his plan was talking to Mishti. He has this idea fixed in his head that Mish has the answer to all his questions na 😆). Anyway...

Aaaaannnnddd just in case we had forgotten about babies, BM talks about what a good father Abir will make, and Varsha and Jas are there to make it the next competition 🥳🥳

I have to say Kuhu in this scene was awesome! Varsha wants to give her “kaam” of making babies as an alternative to fighting with Mishti. “Yehi sahi time hai” 🤣 “Yeh sahi time hai? Aise koi bhi discussion ke liye aur uske next step ke liye husband aur wife ko same ghar mein rehna padta hai” 🤣🤣 And Varsha says yeh mazak ki baat nahi hai. Kaisa mazak? Yeh toh sach hai!!

My question about next scene - Kunal ka dusra AirPod kahan gaya? Mish sneaking in as usual (unlike RJVs lagta hai Mahs house mein ek hi entrance open rakhte hain raat ko). Kunal soch raha hai yeh kya ghosts hain kya iss ghar mein? 😆 Aur wife se 2 lines keh diya Mishti ke saath effort karo! Phew! His work is done!!

Why was Abit trying to fool people with pillows? Kaun aake dekhne wala hai? Aur kahin chala gaya toh Kaun questions poochega? Anyway, nice role reversal for Mish 😆.

Kya Mishti kya? Kya kehna chahta tha Abir? Yahan fandom mein wars chal rahe hain aur koi saaf saaf kyun nahi batata Kaun kya chahta hai? OK phir se baccha. Isiliye fandom ko samajh nahi aa rahi thi - humein bacchon ke baare mein sochna hi nahi hai!

Yaar ek aur baar dekh liya, phir bhi final scene samajh nahi aa rahi. I can only imagine Abir want Mish to actually share her frustrations with Kuhu with Abir instead of going off on Kuhu, and then they can solve the problem together as a team. But Mish I don’t think understands it if that is the case aur yeh seedha baat karna nahi chahta.

Baaki kal dekhenge 😊

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Piya 🤗

Haha I get you yaar.. not everyone share such comfortable bond with their in law to talk all this openly even with parents they don't share such comfort.. 😆 even I have not seen such bonds so maybe it feels weird.. but I admire them like wish for something like this..

Arey it's not something that is being addressed now they have been pushing in under rug for many years at some point they should atleast start it naa but thr girls or family were not even ready to acknowledge it... They should atleast start taking this problem seriously n promise to work on this rather than putting up act repeatedly... They want the girls to take the initiative to start looking into this issue... But girls are adamant on not wanting to face it also... How many days will they keep pushing it for later.. but problem is no one is making kuhu understand all this she n her gang ie kunal, varsha n all are not taking it seriously, they again want to brush it off n wait till next fight

Anyway cvs themselves are bringing a band aid for this I don't get this whole drama if this is their awesome plan to patch up sisters...

Ohh tho har track pe hota hai leads will ask sorry even if others are at fault the track has to end with asking sorry..

BOLD RED: agree diyu👍🏼. I wanted them to handle this track logically.. this track wld hv done wonders, from day one i wanted to see sis bond..but chaaa.... me kiski baat ker rhi hu..makers ne aaj tak mind use nahi kiyaaa kisi bhi track me😔

Blue: bas yahi kami reh gayi is track me.. Most of the fans r not able to understand this track or abir (except few) and it somewhere means makers ne properly handle nahi kiya.. ya kuch kami reh gayi..😕

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

😆 saathiya hum sab.. show ka deewana hu.. abh full pagal hogaye re..

True pre lockdown was little fun now most of things are not understandable n if precap is what is their oh so amazing closure to sisters don't know what to say...

Arey yaar if the sisters keep lying then this is bound to happen.. There is a saying naa about this if you keep lying then even if you say truth no one will believe..

Or maybe it's what their plan is let sisters handle it on own to realise what so ever.. 😆

Arey aaj tak kuhu never recognised mishti's help maybe this will help her realise mish worth atleast a little..

BOLD; Exactly diyu..this is wat i think now.. in end kuhu will be like- mishti tune muje bachaya. Wo bhi apni jaan per khelker...😲 I Lobbb u my shistaaaar.. and Ja mene tujhe sab cheez ke liye Maaf kiya (for a time being). 🤣

and mish will say- Aww kuhu..aao behan gale lago.. Hum sath sath hai.. sorry kuhu.. and thank u kuhu.. tera dil kitna bada hai..

Sorry BP

Sorry BM

Sorry Abir

Sorry Maa

Sorry Parul maasi, Maamu and nidhi mamai, ketu 😭

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Sorry Chair, sorry table, sorry pillow, sorry room, sorry bed---tum sabko bhi sorry..tum logo ki feelings bhi "sab merei wajah" se hurt hui..😭

And then i will just faint hearing this😛🤣

Guys guys, I have a theory regarding next track. Using only ITV logic here.

Mishti isn't permanently infertile but no one knows this and since she is in a hurry to fulfil Abir's wish, surrogacy drama happens. Then, Kuhu suffers a miscarriage and the doctor says she won't be able to conceive again. It's actually Kuhu who had a problem from before and the same would have happened with her own child but now (excuse or no excuse as she never needs one) she'll blame Mishti. Next, one fine day Mishti gets pregnant and Kuhu demands that Mishti give her her first child as it is Mish's fault she can't have kids. So, Mish=Parul, Kuhu=Meenu. Devaki-Kanha-Yahoda repeats itself but reverse direction mein.

Originally posted by: Su94

Guys guys, I have a theory regarding next track. Using only ITV logic here.

Mishti isn't permanently infertile but no one knows this and since she is in a hurry to fulfil Abir's wish, surrogacy drama happens. Then, Kuhu suffers a miscarriage and the doctor says she won't be able to conceive again. It's actually Kuhu who had a problem from before and the same would have happened with her own child but now (excuse or no excuse as she never needs one) she'll blame Mishti. Next, one fine day Mishti gets pregnant and Kuhu demands that Mishti give her her first child as it is Mish's fault she can't have kids. So, Mish=Parul, Kuhu=Meenu. Devaki-Kanha-Yahoda repeats itself but reverse direction mein.

Actually I thought that infertile reports got swapped 😆🤪

I understood Abir's plan. He wanted to emotionally torture Mish by leaving her when she needed him the most-that failed. Then he wanted to emotionally blackmail Mish-and before this could fail as well-he reinforced it with an ultimatum. To prove that she cares about their friendship and their old rishta- ki kal hi pata chalega. Well there was a time when Mish apologised to Meenu thinking about Abir and though Abir was totally against it, he was deeply touched. And this time, he is saamne se demanding. What an about face.

The three pillars of Mishti's life:BP, BM, Abir will be the ones to break her one day. With their "love." Not Meenu or Kuhu. Only the trio:Mishti's dhals.

The episodes are making no sense. Kunal trusts Abir so much. BP/BM too. And reality ye hai ki Abir wants Mishti to do some magic. Mishti should leave him (just to Mah house) when he's going through a difficult phase in the future and then point this out to him. But we know her, she won't. Tab bhi she'll only suffer.

Kunal is making the most sense these days. I think the way he broke out of Meenu's clutches, he'll realise his brother isn't exactly a role model and will learn to call Abir out one day(in a positive light).

I am all for supporting differences in opinion and "agree to disagree" policy between couples and I would also like to consider giving a little credit to Abir's take on this issue but the way he is handling it is highly disappointing. I disapprove. He could've proved his point another way like by staying with Mishti for starters. And by not resorting to such underhand methods like playing with her emotions and insecurities.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Morning everyone

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Was thinking the same after watching the precapc🤣 Lies don't take you anywhere 😆 especially series of lies thrown over the years 😆

Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope

Absolutely agree with you Nandu..I really feel sad for them yaar Mishbir always stuck between family problems..makers not even leaving them to breathe.😭

I think abir wants mishti to find a permanent solution becoz now he is sure kuhu wont change she will remain the same..he has faith in his angry chorni and wants her to learn to ignore kuhu for the sake of family

And his dialogue abt before marriage they were friends and they are one unit..he wants to tell her that if she wont find a solution then they have to struggle becoz of kuhu..its true na becoz of kuhu they had fight in resort and now too..its not possible to avoid kuhu in their lives..the only solution is mishti should learn to ignore kuhu..I think abir expects this from mishti he is not asking her to apologize or be friends with her

Haan geetu, it breaks my heart💔. Why does Mishti and Abir always have to be the leader in problem solving. Both the families have only looked at them, as the solver - BM/BP have always put that pressure on Mishti to be the sane/mature one and find a solution, and at RV house; Nanu Parul and even Kunal have always reiterated how much the house needs Abir because only then is the place happy - because he is the solution finder, otherwise no one knows or wants to do anything to fix the problem.

It's even worse now because the issue between the sisters needs to be sorted within the mah family. But yet again BM/BP, Varsha and everyone are ignoring their responsibility of sitting down the with girls practically to ask what each of their problems are. Instead they are emotionally cornering them with family reputation, sasural and bahu duties and what not.

I don't understand why everyone (fandom) is expecting Abir to have complete control and understanding of what is going and how to fix it. How is he supposed to know, understand or figure out a solution to the sister's problem, if Mishti nor Kuhu nor BM/BP talk openly about it, none of them trying to dig to real issues. Bas upar upar se gol gol baat kar rahe hain. I reckon that's what Abir is trying to explain to Mishti, but unfortunately he isn't using the right words or approach.

The writers and makers as usual are purposely twisting situations and dialogues out of proportion just for drama effect, and also to create loopholes for future tracks. That's the issue with infinite long-running shows - you never get proper closure for things, because once it closes, then the show could end. It's frustrating to say the least.

Abi ke liye, my mind and heart is overwhelmed, confused and little lost. It's better for our sanity not to break our heads open, arguing or trying to make each other understand who is right vs who is wrong (but rather look at the bigger picture), because the writing just isn't that clear anymore.

@bold(above): when typing that line - I just realised, I'm saying the same thing that Abir trying to say😲😆👏 Abir is trying to tell Mishti, there is no point focusing on the negativity (Kuhu) around us, when we know she is not going to change OR it's about time we dig deep to root cause because these superficial fights, blaming, acting & pretending to be nice is not going to give any stability to our future. If we are really going to think about being parents, then it's time we start discussing the way want to lead our lives for our future children - do we want to be showing/exposing them to these kinds of environments, where we are all stepping on hot coals uncertain when something is going to burst out of proportion.

*note: the fact that no one is talking to Kuhu about this is the real issue. But that's not Abir's job. He is using the comfort, ease and haq he has with his wife, to try and guide her. He wants his mishtee, to move past these childhood issues (kuhu's blame game and abandonment fears). But it's true he is taking a very twisted route, not ideal at all.

Moral: It's complicated #phew

hola lovely people

hope you all are doing good

(despite the recent developments in our show )

well..i also hope u ppl remember me ..

for it has been real long i have been here

no...pls..dont blame me... blame my schedules which r being changed according to everyother's convinience except poor me & my fellow poor ppl

par haan..i really miss being here ..

but as said already nor my schedules r helping neither the upcoming track...so i have decided to take a much needed break from show for my own sanity

love u all & miss u loads yaaron ...hopefully we will meet soon

Stay happy & healthy all u lovely people

till then a token of love from my side -- ofcourse in the form of humaare cute munchkins 😳

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Yes they are coming at the issue from different directions. The more I think about it, the more I’m wondering if Abir just wants Mishti not to pay lip service to getting along with Kuhu and actually share everything with him, but it’s also clear that Mish doesn’t seem to understand it like that. Each phase is different and to move forward a relationship has to change. As you say, when other people get involved your relationship has to evolve and change with it.

Yes exactly. They are approaching the situation differently. So they are not understanding one another. Mishti is clearly stating her pov that she is finding difficult to remain silent anymore against Kuhu, which Abir completely understands. But what I guess he wants her to realise is that, now if they are thinking about starting a family, they cannot allow external factors (negativity) like Kuhu influence our relationship, and the relationship.

See there are a few things that I feel Abir is aiming for and trying explain, but he isn't doing a good job of making it clear to Mishti.

-He doesn't want her to apologise to Kuhu, but rather (for lack of better words) stop reacting to her, stop allowing Kuhu to get on your nerves, don't allow her to get into your skin Agreed that Mishti has been trying to ignore Kuhu for ages, and been trying to make Kuhu see the truth. But she isn't changing. Abir himself has tried his share at scolding some sense into Abir, but I think now after learning about the childhood story Abir has understood that Kuhu's behaviour hasn't been rectified by anyone for too long, and now it's almost too late. Maybe he feels that instead of trying to constantly reacting to Kuhu's tantrums it's better to get to the bottom of it, by getting her to speak up about it - which must happen between the sisters and the mah family. Similarly with Mishti, she needs to open up to BM/BP (and Abir) about what all she has faced as a result of Kuhu - because we are not going to find a way out of this problem if we keep brushing it away, or cover up with fake acts - (i.e it's time to get over that childhood guilt and ehsaan - and the only way to do that is to have the sisters get everything out of their system, from each problem they faced as kids, dig deep to their issues and let the whole family hear it (especially maheshwaris).

Abir just isn't explaining himself properly or the writers themselves are confused, because this is a very very intriguing yet complicated topic that needs a whole track of it's own - but haan neither RS, nor ITV have the brains, or sensibility to handle such a family therapy-type topic.

Hope I made some sense...because I tend to find myself oscillating between my opinions😆😆

xxx