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Watched the episode 2 times, still don't understand what's Abir's plan 🤔

I only can say one thing that Abir has closed all doors of belonging for Mishti, her Bade Papa is against her, same goes for BM

At least Kunal is talking to Kuhu nicely, Jas and Varsha are showing their support for her, the only burden on Kuhu is Meenu

I don't understand why is Abir putting his relationship with Mishti on the line for Kuhu?

Is he thinking that this Mishti is not the one he loves? (New sathiya lyrics are confusing me even more)

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Nandu 🤗

Haha so you watch in bulk only not daily??? Wow tum bachgaye 🤣

So so true words nandu.. 👏 except Meenu everyone are overridden by emotions either this or that extreme.. 😆 par one thing mishbir side the koshish is 100% but they don't have idea that other side is all kids 😆 no one is serious about this...

Haha true that throwing luggage was scary I thought where will the girls go now but seeing them back on room I was like ohh god what's this... Now I understand ye Meenu ki infamous grand dhamki hai like the naman poster, mish rajgarh poster n kunal birth invitation🤣

🤗haan Diya. For a long while now, ever since the resort episodes and especially post-lockdown episodes, I've only watch episodes in bulks of 4-5 days together. It makes much more sense, better flow, and takes off the unnecessary stress of what will happen next😆 Par haan, joining the LU discussions here still affect my BP levels😛Without you, uru, daya and riya I don't think I could survive one episode at a time🤗

Exactly! Mishbir are always doing all the effort (even during kuku marriage, post-mishbir marriage) and even now they are the only ones thinking, and over-thinking so much. Whereas the others are just sitting and reacting to them. On one hand, dkp deliberately inserts kuku as 'parallel leads' and then when it is most required to see KUKU actually talking like a couple, they don't have any scenes at all

Writing ki tho baat karne nahi chaiye🤓

🤣typical ITV masala and drama😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Diyu, Viji, Daya...😊

try reading this: kuch madat kar payi maybe? Click for the whole thread👍🏼

https://twitter.com/I_dont_slay/status/1298098129363972097

Haven't watched the episodes properly; but I totally understand how marriage has completely altered mishbir's fundamental relationship of simple friendship. But that's exactly what happens when you move on to different levels and phases of relationships, each of them become so involved with each other's lives that you tend to get so entangled and caught up with everything around you, you start to lose yourselves and forgot to focus on your own relationship first. I guess that's the tug of war between mishbir right now - mind vs heart, right vs wrong, it's all getting merged, mixed and confusing.

Very intriguing human behaviours and relationship dynamics indeed

Yes they are coming at the issue from different directions. The more I think about it, the more I’m wondering if Abir just wants Mishti not to pay lip service to getting along with Kuhu and actually share everything with him, but it’s also clear that Mish doesn’t seem to understand it like that. Each phase is different and to move forward a relationship has to change. As you say, when other people get involved your relationship has to evolve and change with it.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Watched the episode 2 times, still don't understand what's Abir's plan 🤔

I only can say one thing that Abir has closed all doors of belonging for Mishti, her Bade Papa is against her, same goes for BM

At least Kunal is talking to Kuhu nicely, Jas and Varsha are showing their support for her, the only burden on Kuhu is Meenu

I don't understand why is Abir putting his relationship with Mishti on the line for Kuhu?

Is he thinking that this Mishti is not the one he loves? (New sathiya lyrics are confusing me even more)

Abir’s plan koi hai hi nahin, nobody knows what’s his plan, I doubt if he’s planned anything, he cannot handle Kuhu either but expects Mishti to do it!

As for changed Saathiya lyrics, Abir loves his Chashmish Mishti, wife se tang aa Gaya hai lagta hai 😆

In the end, Mishti says so emotionally with tears in her eyes that she will make sure their marriage doesn’t come in the way of their friendship....What the heck! Friendship, understanding these are basic foundations of marriage! Shows the writers have no idea about marriage 😆

Abir coldly says Wo toh kal dekha jayega

Don’t like this at all, Abir is putting too much pressure on Mishti to solve Kuhu problem, it’s completely unrealistic expectation to solve it overnight!

And on the other hand nobody is talking to Kuhu seriously about stopping her attacks on Mishti

They should all sit with the girls (minus Varsha and Jasmeet) and ask Kuhu what is the basis of her intense resentment against Mishti......that is Family Group Therapy!
Instead of that they are all dumping the responsibility on Mishti as if she’s the Superwoman with a magical wand! 🤪

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Wow nandu dear 👏👏🤗🤗

The post n your words perfectly completing it makes so much sense... This is awesome...

Totally agreed after shaadi things change infact at every phase people change they don't remain same in friendship, love phase or shaadi or as parents changes do happen but the core of their relationship should be intact which will help them overcome any hurdle... This is so beautiful nandu... Can get some idea on what's happening n what he tried to convey n what she understood... 👍🏼

You watch episode n bring your amazing post 🤗

🤗🤗

Yes absolutely dear. This is not an easy nor straightforward situation to be in; not from Mishti's side, nor from Abir's pov. It's just all very complex, why? Because relationships such as marriage are not just like that. Rishta is not only between the two people but the two families (just like Mishti 1.0 has said), but at the same time you cannot forget the importance of building your own relationship first (i guess Abir is trying to say now, but not saying it clearly or properly).

Both of them are opening up better than pre-lockdown, but still there is room for improvement. That's ok👍🏼. You cannot expect the writers/makers to do everything in a few episodes, because like we all now, if Kuhu's anger/hatred against Mishti is solved, and if Meenu's anger against Mishti is solved, then the show will be over, relationships will be dead n boring. So they need to keep something alive, especially within Mishbir's relationship -hence they are leaving little small open-ended things between them. It's a show, they have to run it someway or the other.

😊Will watch the episodes soon. And try to voice my thoughts, par tbh you and uru are doing it already, often you both just say everything I want to say, and then that's it. You girls nail it, and I'm just left happily stunned👏🤗

Love you xxx

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Awwww I can keep looking at this...

These two should be jailed for being so adorable n making our heart go crazy... Aww I seriously love this pic so much the background the lighting, their height difference the mirror behind, the longing look of both

I know right! ❤️ hayeee

I love this pic too; he looks like a big teddy and she looks like a little doll😳 both of whom need a big big consoling tight hug🤗💔❤️

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Watched the episode 2 times, still don't understand what's Abir's plan 🤔

I only can say one thing that Abir has closed all doors of belonging for Mishti, her Bade Papa is against her, same goes for BM

At least Kunal is talking to Kuhu nicely, Jas and Varsha are showing their support for her, the only burden on Kuhu is Meenu

I don't understand why is Abir putting his relationship with Mishti on the line for Kuhu?

Is he thinking that this Mishti is not the one he loves? (New sathiya lyrics are confusing me even more)

Abir is doing all this for their babies 🤪. He doesn't want their future generation to fight with each other that's why he wants mishti to patch up with kuhu by hook or crook n by throwing away her self respect in the dustbin n fall at her feet for forgiveness.. He didn't give a damn about their relationship before n now jabse uske sar pe bachhe ka bhoot sawar hua hai na he is forcing mishti to mend her relationship with kuhu.. He just wants to a baby from mishti that's it.. Abhi nanko bada ho gya hai na toh now he wants to change his n his nanko ke babies ke diapers🤡

Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope

Thanks Nandu it makes sense.🤗.before marriage when there was no one involved in their relationship they were in a very happy phase they were in their own self but after marriage they completely lost themself for the sake of family unity..feeling sad for them makers trying to keep mishbir as much as real💔indeed in every marriage(either love or arranged) the relationship dynamics will change after marriage

👍🏼Yes geetu.

They have always been very family orientated and family attached people. But when they were just friends or a new couple (bf & gf), they were still learning about each other through their interactions with the rest of family members. Being married, is a whole new ball-game, because like mishti and abir have both said (pre-leap); marriage is not just about 2 families, but also the 2 individuals and vice versa - that's why I still don't think Mishti and Abir were ready for marriage at all, when Baba suddenly pulled the gun and then again later on after mish-nish marriage break-up; they didn't have to rush into marriage all of a sudden. They needed to get over their herat-break and pain (during the 3 months) together. That's why they are both still suffering from those fears, insecurity and pain now! They only starting to open up about them.

Neither of them a completely right nor completely wrong in this situation. I just feel horrible for Mishti, as no one is talking to Kuhu about this at all (and it is not Abir's job). I feel bad for both Mishti and Abir💔😭 THey both think and do so much effort for their families, for each other, that they tend to get lost in at all😔

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Haina corona ki nazar mishbir par zyada pad gayi iski tho 😈

Love you jaan jaldi epi dekho aur kuch bada sa amazing post lao... 🥳

Exactly this yaar... If precap is again a band aid why to bring so much drama n roast our brain too they are not even making sense as everyone are talking to mish only kuhu n her people are only playing around...

True kuch bhi ho but show is still enjoyable only bcoz of the performance 🥳

Sach mein, if not for the break and lockdown - we could've seen mishbir patch-up at the resort (intense and hot beside the poolside), and then maybe even SR😳

Par dheko kya nikla....more problems, more stress and more drama for mishbir.

They just can never catch a single break💔😭

Uff seriously, dkp fried the fd brains with that infamous promo, and then threw everyone off with this cat-fight over magazine....what are they trying to do?🤪

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

👍🏼Yes geetu.

They have always been very family orientated and family attached people. But when they were just friends or a new couple (bf & gf), they were still learning about each other through their interactions with the rest of family members. Being married, is a whole new ball-game, because like mishti and abir have both said (pre-leap); marriage is not just about 2 families, but also the 2 individuals and vice versa - that's why I still don't think Mishti and Abir were ready for marriage at all, when Baba suddenly pulled the gun and then again later on after mish-nish marriage break-up; they didn't have to rush into marriage all of a sudden. They needed to get over their herat-break and pain (during the 3 months) together. That's why they are both still suffering from those fears, insecurity and pain now! They only starting to open up about them.

Neither of them a completely right nor completely wrong in this situation. I just feel horrible for Mishti, as no one is talking to Kuhu about this at all (and it is not Abir's job). I feel bad for both Mishti and Abir💔😭 THey both think and do so much effort for their families, for each other, that they tend to get lost in at all😔

Absolutely agree with you Nandu..I really feel sad for them yaar Mishbir always stuck between family problems..makers not even leaving them to breathe.😭

I think abir wants mishti to find a permanent solution becoz now he is sure kuhu wont change she will remain the same..he has faith in his angry chorni and wants her to learn to ignore kuhu for the sake of family

And his dialogue abt before marriage they were friends and they are one unit..he wants to tell her that if she wont find a solution then they have to struggle becoz of kuhu..its true na becoz of kuhu they had fight in resort and now too..its not possible to avoid kuhu in their lives..the only solution is mishti should learn to ignore kuhu..I think abir expects this from mishti he is not asking her to apologize or be friends with her