Ani's reaction to when Bon said ab aap Pari didi ke saath khel sakte hai...
And Ani's reaction to Patni hu main Aapki...toh mujhe kaise nhi pta hogaa .
Clearly we can see difference ....On mini's topic he felt akward and recoiled in horror of his past but it's impact was not that much as of the pain he felt for Bon who is giving 100% to this marriage which happened in extreme painful situation.
Second one looks more like a realization.