Originally posted by: Dhanusg
Yes i agree about parenting part. Its a huge responsibility. Its hardest job on earth and everyone is capable but some either dont wanna do it or just very lazy.
I feel being born as a woman one should make use of that opportunity if you can conceive. Men just cant have that its fact though people talk abt equality. Instead of equality one should celebrate the uniqueness.
Though i feel our generation n forthcoming generations are very impatient , materialistic n lot of “ me ness “ n probably less willing to compromise.
Its whole lot of work to be a parent but each n everyone is capable its just that some are butt lazy.
you can hire help wt kids or daycare if its not possible to work part time . n let me tell u most Families dont hv parents or in laws to take care of kids.
You may spend a lot of money but its worth it. Nothing compares to a hug or having your child in your arms. Feeling is Beyond comparison n every individual deserves to have that Heavenly feeling.
I have so many frds who r so lost in their own vanity and me ness that they hv divorced opted not to hv kids , not cool at all. This is not modernness or being progressive.
I think it is completely the choice of a woman, whether she wants to have a child or not. Who are we to call her lazy for making a choice which doesn't match your expectation?
Woman isn't born to procreate. That's completely her prerogative. If we say that, what about so many women out there who cannot procreate? Does that mean their life has no purpose?
Tomorrow if the baby is born and after the initial period she realises she can't be a good mother , poor woman will have to live through it for life! Then again society judges her for being a bad mother. We all know men are excused from the judgement.
And how many people can afford help or a babysitter, even day care is a luxury.
And why to judge a woman for divorce? While traveling I've met women, read their blogs about how happy they are living single, traveling. And enjoying life. It's fine. Living life the way you want doesn't make you lazy or incapable. It just makes you, you. Everyone has different priorities.
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