Originally posted by: sammy17
In what way are any of the other couple's fighting/ arguments, like arhana look realistic compared to pranbir? Every single one of the couples start arguing like children out of nowhere for no apparent reason but to apparently give some comic relief between the couples intended by the writers.
The conversation can start out completely civil and polite, then all of a sudden someone (usually the girls for some odd reason) initiates an argument by criticising the guy over nothing or scolding him. This is consistent with pretty much all the couples. I've watched the other previously mentioned couples since beginning apart from abhigya who I only saw on and off over the years, and their arguments are the exact same as pranbir unfortunately, where even if something happens that is the girl's fault she can find a way to start an argument about it by blaming the guy. So how any of their fighting can be deemed realistic is beyond my understanding.
And where prachi is concerned, her character's biggest flaw has been shown to be her temperament only, in contrast to ranbir who till date has been shown immature but not the typical angry-young-man of itv, but when needed he shows much required maturity and strength of character, like the moments when he could easily judge prachi like anybody else, but didn't and provided prachi with wisdom to motivate her.
Prachi's character isn't perfect, and where development goes in her character, I'm not expecting huge amounts of changes in her character, especially given having watched ITV for years, characters can be shown to have some form of development, then in the very next track are again back to their original character traits and committing the same mistakes they usually do, so character progress has never remained consistent in serials. I'm not sure what progression you are wanting out of prachi, as the only I am wanting or expecting is for her anger to be dialed down. Other than her temper and her not standing up for herself enough, I don't see any issues with prachi's character.
I've said this previously, neither of them are perfect whatsoever, both are immature in their own ways, even prachi as much as she claims ranbir is the immature one. And you are saying that pranbir are an immature couple, but their realisation of love has only just started, more specifically from prachi's side, they are college-aged students, and they aren't a couple who have been married for years with children or who are even yet in a committed relationship with each other, so what kind of maturity is actually required from them as of now, when right now they are merely on the journey of falling in love and understanding love? Apart from the nonsensical bickering between them there's nothing about them story that is immature. If you take out the trope of bickering over nothing in the name of comical relief, pranbir are a fine couple who are growing and progressing as characters and so is their bond. Pranbir already have shown so much progress and especially development in their attitudes towards each other over the past few months which I am pleased with.
I too don't want to start any arguments, but apart from a few valid points, some of your criticism doesn't make sense to me. Btw Aleya is your name right? ❤️
See Sam, you are looking at my point only through the eyes of a PRANBIR FAN which is why you are not getting the nook of what I have said.
Personally, I have no issues with Pranbir, they are a great couple together and I'm sure they will make it big in the show.
The thing with which I really have a problem with is their story and the character development, ESPECIALLY OF PRACHI. Maybe because I myself am a writer, I am going deep into the loopholes and flaws which are existing in Pranbir.
Of course, even tho I like Abhigya, I find it absolutely disgusting that once they meet each other, they forget all about their daughters and start this IDIOTIC RIDICULOUS ROMANCE as if they are newly-weds.
Same goes for Pranbir, you asked me with what is IMMATURE about them. It is very clear that fights are not at all realistic like the other Ekta couples Ishra, Abhigya, Rusha, Arma, Behir or even take Arhana. They fight on SIMPLE BASELESS ISSUES like I mentioned earlier over a chips packet. Okay fine, maybe even older people like us fight like they do, but not to an extent that we will take each other's life for a silly chips packet😅. And that is what is called PURE IMMATURITY! Other than that there are several incidents where they, especially Prachi has behaved in the same immature way.
Take for example, the diwali party. Ranbir was trying to protect and warn Prachi that Sanju's intentions are not good, but there that woman picked up a unnecessary fight with him, trying to prove that Ranbir is wrong. Next, right before her kidnap, again Ranbir constantly persuaded her to come along with him, but no, this Prachi Madam always finds unnecessary faults with Ranbir which is her IMMATURITY.
While on the othe hand Ranbir has always been a PILLAR OF SUPPORT for Prachi when she needed it the most. He took the blame of Prachi's drug scam over him, fought for her in the Diwali Party, fought for her when she got kidnapped and several other times, he had been really very understanding, which is MATURE BEHAVIOUR.
To validate my point, MATURITY in a bond especially of couples, starts with MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING and that lacks in case of Pranbir, not much in Ranbir but yes from Prachi's side. Only with mutual understanding, love blossoms between two individuals.
The creators are trying hard to make Prachi a minion of her mother Pragya and the fights of Pranbir a copy of Abhigya, but unfortunately IT IS NOT WORKING OUT! IT'S A FAILURE IN PRANBIR because Prachi's CHARACTER and SITUATIONS OF THE ARGUMENTS are NOT WELL-DEVELOPED.
Everyone knows Abhigya's nok-jhoks are SUPER-HIT, the creators are trying to bring the same in Pranbir but they are not developing it well, which is why the Pranbir fights are RATHER ANNOYING.
Yes, we can still call it a SORT OF COMIC RELIEF, however it will not HIDE THE REALITY that the fights are really really strange.
What I find realistic about Arhana, they do have fights but their fights are not as if if ONE WILL MURDER THE OTHER, which is the case with Pranbir where Prachi literally becomes a MURDERER WITH HER TONGUE. Nevertheless, Abhigya (the earlier ones not now), Ishra, Behir and Arhana's fights are over cute matters which any normal individual (mostly teenage wala fight which is a strong element in most itv shows) will fight for and that brings a smile to everyone's face.
I don't know if I have cleared my point and again I repeat, I have nothing against PRANBIR. Infact, I like Pranbir more than Abhigya, but yeah I like Arhana and Pranbir in the same way and that happened because of my readers. I too was a complete blind Pranbir fan like you, but my readers and some good critics from Tellyupdates like Serial Hater, Akituster and Lisa made realise WHAT'S ACTUALLY WRONG WITH PRANBIR.🤷♀️
Pranbir can SURELY MAKE A SUPER-HIT COUPLE, only problem exists with their PLOT AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT.
Finally, Sam, about what you have asked regarding my name. My full name is Aleyamma Abrahaam, but you can call me Aleya if you want to, or even Aloo as some friends call me, 😜
If you don't mind, I just wanted to ask, were you the one who asked me to start my FF here?
Edited by Aleyamma47 - 5 years ago
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