YRHPK Live Updates/Episode Discussions 17 Jul 2020 - Page 23

Itna serious discussion?? Kaisa tha episode aajka

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Om shant shanti shanti Diyu dear!🤗

(not trying to put salt on your wounds, but Abir's advice will help here)...

calm ....

breathe...

relax....

I understand, you're upset. I kinda of am too, but I understand both perspectives and discussions happening here in the LU today. Both sides are right and wrong.

Sure I believe, mishbir hiding this for this long and now even further is not good and doing more damage when it finally comes out. But I'm not ready to blame Abir, Mishti or anyone right now.

Because I really feel there is more to it.

Yes, maybe Abir could've handled some things better, but I still don't think they've butchered his character.

It seems a little twisted for sure, but his core characteristics of protecting his loved ones through whatever it may be, taking the blame on himself and becoming too emotionally sensitive (turning blind eye to some rational thoughts) is ALL him. We've seen him do all this before. And given Mishti and Abir's situations and circumstances ever since they got together, I totally understand why they did what they did.

I didn't expect Abir to know this much about the story either...but that's why I still think, there is still much more that both Abir and Mishti don't know.

I love you diyu don't get me wrong. I'm still with you but I'm not denying what some of the other girls are saying. Viji and Ruhi do have same valid points, but you, daya, pali and uru also have valid points.

I'm sitting inbetween😆

All i'm gonna say is, it's complicated and not as easy as we think.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Chalega diyu...it's ok I understand you're upset.

Many of us are emotional today, but take your time.

I'm sure you'll bounce back.

I don't think it's as horrible as we think.

Just wait and watch patiently

Nandu pehle sorry yaar morning i was so emotional n angry 😳

now i'm a little calm dear... thank you for being so understanding 🤗

uff i get what you guyz are saying infact i was the one who said yesterday that hiding this was ok until they are prepared but the flashback came as a jhatka that made me loose control, it was seriously shocking to see abir like this...

actually what me, uru, pali, daya even you see is that abir who is a character, human first not the lover or partner so only we couldnt handle to see abir like this the most empathetic person doing such a crime was not digestible...

like uru stated it feels a little hypocritical that just before he confronted n kuhu for their mistake n now he himself planning to do which is not how he is usually is little saddening.. he does protect his loved ones but he never hesitated to see into the issue and help them out and i have supported him then only bcoz of that even if he failed as a lover/son/brother he did justice to the other one, here its clear he is pushing mishti more into stress and he is not doing justice to anyone so definitely i cant relate to him as a character itself...

now let me point some positivity uff mai bilkul pagal hu arggg bipolar ki tara behave kar raha hu dont mind me 😆

1. I feel there is more legal ground n analysis which abir might have done or planning to do along with keeping mish away so that she doesnt do anything before he clears that part... knowing how anyone can take advantage of this...

2. Our abir's brain is little slow that he takes time to realize where he went wrong n what to do like how he was ready to say kunal truth after leap even though he wanted to hide it forever... so a little trigger from any side will glow his bulb..

3. like kuhu case that he hid it for the time being bcoz there is fear of meenu who is ready to take advantage, here too he has to have a reason to doing this, there is more to the mystery n what they did in this 3 months...

still i dont approve of abir hiding it in name of protecting, before he was called out for the same now too i'm doing it for the same, this time its of no advantage to anyone so hopefully we get a flashback which actually gives some light to abirs this resolution...

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Well I can't even imagine myself in this type of situation. I am too weak emotionally and thats why I am so proud of MishBir that they're holding themself together in such horrible situation.

I don't want to talk about Rjv after seeing the way they handled Kuhu's situation, I mean she spiked drink and all were almost begging meenu to forgive her, like really. Jab parul pe Blame laga tha to maami ne kaise baat ki thi unse and now when it's revealed that kuhu spiked it, all gone kuhi teacher is best, like really

Kuhu is not even guilty of going in front of family member, I understand it's chaan lo maati of ketu function in house but Uske liye they forgot the mistake

And abir 3 months apna kaam Kar raha tha apni wife ke saath tha to sabko bura lag gaya, but kunal akela tha and uski wife ghar sambhaal rahi thi to they became everyithing of the house

coming to mishbir... in this type of situations person will collapse and they cant compose and yeha pe koyi crime nahi hua to go to police station and report it...

yehe pe sexual assault hua hain... mishti is in semi conscious state, she hit him not killed him and he dint even die with that hit tho crime mishti ke saat hua , death person ke saat nahi..

we dont even seen mishti's intial panic attacks and we cant even judge person agar sab sach batayenge tho she will move from it, it will never happen, when ever they see the situation or any small glimpse of that , the attack will re occur again...

when dont even know any thing mental health then why to judge and show ur anger with base less words...

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Yeah but Abhi tak kunal ne bhi shoot nahi start ki hai I think 🤔

😆😆true

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Very valid questions ruhi!👏

I was trying to ask the same about Varun yesterday. How does Varun know it was Mishti? Where has he been all this time, what has he been doing? Did he purposely choose Ketki's rishta or did BB choose him?

Lots of answers still to be revealed.

Let's see if the makers really do close the case properly. No expectations frankly, lost trust on them.

Originally posted by: SheThought

I wish they had shown that by the time Abir reached there, body was gone. He only got to know the details from Mishti about how Mishti hit him in self defense and then he tried to find what happened to the body but couldn't find it anywhere and so he gave up and then decided to keep mum about the whole thing afterwards...

That would still have been a little more acceptable than what they have shown now.

This is no different than a hit and run crime. How can they expect viewers to enjoy with this?!

Even if the guy didn't die, the fact that Abir thought he did and still ran away and hide the crime is enough to tarnish his character.

They played with Abir's character yet again - no integrity at all!?

Exactly pali.. Have said so much in my post..

https://twitter.com/PinkvillaTelly/status/1283999468279521282?s=20

Rhesha deserve all the appreciation n hype❤️

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I was wondering if Meenu can stand with Abir and Mishti in this track instead of playing villian in their lives? She is influential figure

This would be a miracle - but indeed a very interesting twist.

If Meenu does stand up for Abir and Mishti it will definitely be helpful with her powerful position...

but it inevitable that Meenu will only do this for sake of saving her name and reputation from getting tainted, so she will leave no stone unturned to get rid of Mishti🥺.

Like she said, she doesn't care where Mishti goes, but Abir has to be with her in this pagal ghar😭

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

ammu!!🤗

Yes absolutely right.

Mishbir are sure they didn't do the crime, but they both feel utterly guilty for what has happened and know they don't have enough proof (as of now).

Let's hope something does turn up positive for them.

Yup just going to wait for the full mystery to unfold. It's too early to start jumping, attacking and accusing of who did what and who was right vs wrong. Not that easy nor that simple.

Hey Nandu ,

Few points which I wanted to highlight on this tricky situation as why I agree with abir's reaction

1. When abir reached , mishti did tell him that she was attacked and he tried to check on that random person too

2. He took mishti since she was unconscious and he didn't know exactly what happened except mishti was molested but not to what extent and seeing her unconscious he took her and left that guy as he heard a police vehicle coming there - he might have left for few reasons

a) Mishti needs attention immediately and he was clueless

b) if police comes , either they might get caught and he will not be in position to explain what happened or to handover mishti and think to save her later which might not be of any use considering the lack of proof ( He did mention that mishti was OK and he's happy about it but also there was no proof on her getting molested )

c) He might have assumed that police will take care of that guy and left tending to the victim

d) He did went back to check on him as his statement indicates as he came to know that the guy was dead and reason hinting excessive alcohol which again paved way for him to assume that the guy was not murdered but merely attacked by mishti for self defence and confessing at that point to police is not going to help in anyways as there's absolutely no support for Mishti from his family

Neither they will support her nor they will leave her to her peace of mind , few people will leave no chance to make her life HELL and call her characterless or there's 100 % possibility to blame her as its her decision to stay back

Apart from all this , 99% humans tend to act instinctively to save their loved ones not thinking rationally...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Why do ppl bash nannu for when he left abir to die , that was also an accident not caused by nannu , abir was driving harshly on his own, nannu just saw him slipping in the water and didn't save him , he also got scared n weak to see the incident , not to forget he didnt know how to swim and also started getting anxiety disorders, then he decided its okay its not his fault anyways and it's not his responsibility to save abir, better to hide it , vaise bhi abir hit him in the hospital, go back to life , marry mishti and have a good life in London....he is also justified na ? Also he thought he will be punished for the accident and had no faith to prove his innocence to the judicial system cuz of lack of proofs! 😆 Aisa nahi tha I know but think of it, why did we really criticise nannu for ?

I am not comparing situations or being sarcastic, I am just saying that hiding is wrong , no matter what are the reasons and who is at fault , , also I don't know what exactly happened because the entire flashback in not even shown , so its useless to form opinions right away and be judgemental about it , I am disappointed with the writers or rather impressed for being realistic here , people do get panic and hide stuff and in this situation in either ways , voh log phasne hi vale the , police ke pass jaate toh legal system se ladna padta aur nahi bata rahe toh trauma se , varun ki saazish se , aur family ki misunderstanding se , in either ways mishbir are in trouble and it pains my heart at the moment .....may be what abir did was right , because at the end he had nothing left to the world to say and so he was on the verge to lose mishti again, that's why he did what he left was right.....even if it sounds wrong...he thought let's pull mishti out of her guilt trip first and then be comfortable to share the truth to the world but it too late now

Its looks odd and immediate hypocrisy because just a day ago he called out his family for hiding stuff and kuhu for spiking his coffee !

Please understand I am not criticising abir or mishti, I know what they have gone through and what are they going through and the troubles are never going to end with absolutely no fault of them but are still suffering

I am still happy they are in this together, I know abir is a Phoenix and he will rise against all odds, we need a strongest of back story here and we very very neat presentation of his pov henceforth...there has to be some strong reason behind all this !

Mishti n abir be strong , you guys would come out of this eventually !! Your partner is with you !

Haha , mera cool jaisa ho gaya na after ranting I came back with some hope...today I had to convince myself but yes I am still on to see what happens next

Diyu tu shant ho ja re 🤗🤗🤗

guruji i'm a little calm now 🤗

i can understand why we are disappointed n others are somewhat ok... see we are seeing him as a person who empathizes with others n also as a character n others are mostly looking it as an angle of mishbir n the couple... which is also right as we do things blinded by love so if abir is justified then kunal, kuhu, meenu are too but definitely, they are not so abir too is not and i hope like you said there is more to the mystery...

and my extreme hope is abirs slow n steady habit, his bulb glows a little late like kunals truth he gets some trigger here n try to get the right way to solve this n also i hope he did some more research n doing some legal process in this 3 months n he is protecting mishti from doing anything before he can get clear those legal issues... but i know i have high hopes... still lets see whats in store...