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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: NoraSM


Exactly

Abir is a human, None can be sure that the step they took in a situation like that was the "right" step, If Mishti gets punishment because of lack of evidence to support her claim of self-defense, then he would think informing the police without getting evidence was wrong.


In this situation, Abir acted like any of us would have acted, that guy tried to molest Mishti, what was she supposed to do? Abir didn't think he would die, he didn't know that the guy had imbibed enough alcohol to be poisoned by it, Mishti was unconscious, she couldn't tell him anything, he acted in a stressful situation and he did go back to check on the guy but sadly, he died due to overdose of alcohol


This is definitely a moral grey area, but TBH I can't say what is wrong or right here convincingly, the only thing I can say is that the guy trying to molest Mishti was wrong and Mishti was right in protecting herself


The show has potential to bring about what nicest of people do in a situation such as this, what legalities are there? Does our law and justice system expects women to get raped silently and wait for justice to be served, if her rapist is "kind" enough to spare her life?

i cant say anything more than this...

we cant judge abir just based on one epi...

neither mishti nor abir is in right frame of mind, they need to talk, mishti needs to open up more of that incident nd after math of that incident...


even abir's feelings and mental ability to matters after seeing mishti like that, he is day and night with her more than her self he knows mishti's panic attcaks then how can we say by just seeing one epi...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Yaar in this tricky situation people need family support and guidance..even If abir could have informed BB she could try to eliminate mishti using this situation..that is the sad part mishbir has none to support them in their toughest situations..makers could have kept BP and BM to guide them..see abir went to police station they said that person died due to over consume of alcohol..so he might left it he dont have any evidance to prove abt mishti self defecne.but its difficult for mishti to come out from this guilty

Makers kept it very much real.👏

i appreciate ur take geeth... this is what exactly happening with abir...

men are not strong like women... this is the most realistic way to show how men will be vulunerable too...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

yaar nandu even an amateur wattpad writer can come up with more sensible story... its not about the story only nandu its about how low they are taking abirs character... so yourself say nandu is this how abir will behave if it was the sensible abir we know before or say if he will react the same if someone else did this...

let them hide until mish is stable but isnt abir that much educated to know that getting an autopsy can solve half of the problem... he went to the police station nandu he has high contacts... 3 months is a long time...

i thought he didnt have much idea of the incident so only he is not able to do anything legally so he is as of now trying to help mish but never expected this yaar...

Om shant shanti shanti Diyu dear!🤗

(not trying to put salt on your wounds, but Abir's advice will help here)...


calm ....

breathe...

relax....


I understand, you're upset. I kinda of am too, but I understand both perspectives and discussions happening here in the LU today. Both sides are right and wrong.

Sure I believe, mishbir hiding this for this long and now even further is not good and doing more damage when it finally comes out. But I'm not ready to blame Abir, Mishti or anyone right now.

Because I really feel there is more to it.

Yes, maybe Abir could've handled some things better, but I still don't think they've butchered his character.

It seems a little twisted for sure, but his core characteristics of protecting his loved ones through whatever it may be, taking the blame on himself and becoming too emotionally sensitive (turning blind eye to some rational thoughts) is ALL him. We've seen him do all this before. And given Mishti and Abir's situations and circumstances ever since they got together, I totally understand why they did what they did.


I didn't expect Abir to know this much about the story either...but that's why I still think, there is still much more that both Abir and Mishti don't know.


I love you diyu don't get me wrong. I'm still with you but I'm not denying what some of the other girls are saying. Viji and Ruhi do have same valid points, but you, daya, pali and uru also have valid points.

I'm sitting inbetween😆


All i'm gonna say is, it's complicated and not as easy as we think.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Why do ppl bash nannu for when he left abir to die , that was also an accident not caused by nannu , abir was driving harshly on his own, nannu just saw him slipping in the water and didn't save him , he also got scared n weak to see the incident , not to forget he didnt know how to swim and also started getting anxiety disorders, then he decided its okay its not his fault anyways and it's not his responsibility to save abir, better to hide it , vaise bhi abir hit him in the hospital, go back to life , marry mishti and have a good life in London....he is also justified na ? Also he thought he will be punished for the accident and had no faith to prove his innocence to the judicial system cuz of lack of proofs! 😆 Aisa nahi tha I know but think of it, why did we really criticise nannu for ?


I am not comparing situations or being sarcastic, I am just saying that hiding is wrong , no matter what are the reasons and who is at fault , , also I don't know what exactly happened because the entire flashback in not even shown , so its useless to form opinions right away and be judgemental about it , I am disappointed with the writers or rather impressed for being realistic here , people do get panic and hide stuff and in this situation in either ways , voh log phasne hi vale the , police ke pass jaate toh legal system se ladna padta aur nahi bata rahe toh trauma se , varun ki saazish se , aur family ki misunderstanding se , in either ways mishbir are in trouble and it pains my heart at the moment .....may be what abir did was right , because at the end he had nothing left to the world to say and so he was on the verge to lose mishti again, that's why he did what he left was right.....even if it sounds wrong...he thought let's pull mishti out of her guilt trip first and then be comfortable to share the truth to the world but it too late now

Its looks odd and immediate hypocrisy because just a day ago he called out his family for hiding stuff and kuhu for spiking his coffee !

Please understand I am not criticising abir or mishti, I know what they have gone through and what are they going through and the troubles are never going to end with absolutely no fault of them but are still suffering

I am still happy they are in this together, I know abir is a Phoenix and he will rise against all odds, we need a strongest of back story here and we very very neat presentation of his pov henceforth...there has to be some strong reason behind all this !


Mishti n abir be strong , you guys would come out of this eventually !! Your partner is with you !



Haha , mera cool jaisa ho gaya na after ranting I came back with some hope...today I had to convince myself but yes I am still on to see what happens next


Diyu tu shant ho ja re 🤗🤗🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Even i hope that there is more dear.... i'm so disappointed n angry today but still holding on to this hope that things will get more interesting in future... i cant nandu this is so saddening 😭

Chalega diyu...it's ok I understand you're upset.

Many of us are emotional today, but take your time.

I'm sure you'll bounce back.

I don't think it's as horrible as we think.


Just wait and watch patiently🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Very nicely said yaar👍🏼.

@Bold: I totally understand you. Infact @vidz di and I were discussing this exact same thing yesterday, but on the flip side of Varun/i.e the revenger. Many people end up taking cases and legal matters in their own hands, when they don't trust or can't depend on the quality of the juducial system. It is terribly sad, but that the reality.

And similar thing happening here, it's very common to be in mishbir's situation, where you don't have proof to show that you have been molested or attempted rape victim but you have done a mistake in terms of self defence. Yes she didn't kill him, but the act of hitting someone on the head (self-defense or not), still carries a huge factor in the overall life vs death result.


I frankly just don't like the added Mishti-bashing and back-stabbing happening in the house. This is already enough emotional drama, this psychological trauma is already killing Mishti mentally. I've had enough of hearing these unnecessary blames and attacks on her. She doesn't need this at all.

Mishbir need to get out of the hell-house.

@bold exactly nandu..they should leave and should not come back😭

This is not family yaar..see everyone is planning and plotting against them no one is there to make them feel they are here for them in this difficult situation.its only jugnu and parul but they cant help them😭

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5

well everyone celebrated when the hyderabad case rapists were planned encountered by police. That was also a planned killing without the judiciary taking its due course. we still wouldnt know if more people were involved or not because everyone involved is dead. The whole countries conscience dint think that law dint actually take its course tht time. That is because people have no sympathies for rapists and molesters

there is a difference between a potential rapist/molester and a person. i have no sympathies for potential rapists. We need to know what Abir knew when he left the person to die(did he know that he tried to molest mishti or he left a random person to die.). Another thing if was he already dead by the time Abir reached there.

Also there is a difference between spiking an innocents drink and getting him sick vs killing in self defense. if Abir thought what nanko did is a crime even then he did not report him or meenu to the police. here what mishti did is not a crime.

Yes there would have been better way of handling the situation. Maybe Abir should have just stayed n told that i found two people unconscious. The blame could have gone on 3rd person. How would anyone prove it was mishti who hit with brick, unless there as eyewitness or cctv there

any clever person will do a simple mistake which takes them to truth...im waiting for abir to find that out...


police tho achanak nahi aaya hoga..if they just came for patroling then they should report it death person family and if death person family found out about mishti is the person who did crime then why the hell that family never kept a police case ?

why to trap her sister in this wedding drama?

how varun found out mishti is involved when police said its an over dosage of alocohol?

so there is more mystery into it and we have to wait for it...

i still have hopes on makers...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Why do ppl bash nannu for when he left abir to die , that was also an accident not caused by nannu , abir was driving harshly on his own, nannu just saw him slipping in the water and didn't save him , he also got scared n weak to see the incident , not to forget he didnt know how to swim and also started getting anxiety disorders, then he decided its okay its not his fault anyways and it's not his responsibility to save abir, so let's hide it , go back to life , marry mishti and have a good life in London....he is also justified na ? Also he thought he will be punished for the accident and had no faith to prove his innocence to the judicial system cuz of lack of proofs!


I am not comparing situations or being sarcastic, I am just saying that hiding is wrong , no matter what are the reasons and who is at fault , , also I don't know what exactly happened because the entire flashback in not even shown , so its useless to form opinions right away and be judgemental about it , I am disappointed with the writers or rather impressed for being realistic here , people do get panic and hide stuff and in this situation in either ways , voh log phasne hi vale the , police ke pass jaate toh legal system se ladna padta aur nahi bata rahe toh trauma se , varun ki saazish se , aur family ki misunderstanding se , in either ways mishbir are in trouble and it pains my heart at the moment .....may be what abir did was right , because at the end he had nothing left to the world to say and so he was on the verge to lose mishti again, that's why he did what he left was right.....even if it sounds wrong...he thought let's pull mishti out of her guilt trip first and then be comfortable to share the truth to the world but it too late now

Its looks odd and immediate hypocrisy because just a day ago he called out his family for hiding stuff and kuhu for spiking his coffee !

Please understand I am not criticising abir or mishti, I know what they have gone through and what are they going through and the troubles are never going to end with absolutely no fault of them but are still suffering

I am still happy they are in this together, I know abir is a Phoenix and he will rise against all odds, we need a strongest of back story here and we very very neat presentation of his pov henceforth...there has to be some strong reason behind all this !


Mishti n abir be strong , you guys would come out of this eventually !! Your partner is with you !



Haha , mera cool jaisa ho gaya na after ranting I came back with some hope...today I had to convince myself but yes I am still on to see what happens next


Diyu tu shant ho ja re 🤗🤗🤗


There's a huge difference here, Abir didn't try to harm Nishant but Varun's brother tried to molest Mishti, What Mishti did was in self-defense and Abir taking her away was because she was unconscious, he did go back to check on the guy and police informed him about his death due to alcohol overdose, Abir didn't leave the guy to die as Mishti was unconscious and he didn't know that the guy had overdose of alcohol


The same thing is, Abir tried to hide what Nishant did from his family, it was Nishant who told everyone the truth, so Abir's reaction is same in both situations

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