No
Subhadra - Draupadi conversation is about Arjuna, You see Draupadi said good things about Arjuna’a future, someone who was raped wouldn’t like hearing “May Your rapist have no enemies”
Subhadra doesn’t show hatred towards Arjuna which would have been there if she was raped, I cannot see a rape victim thinking good about someone who raped her.
Abduction for marriage is a non bailable offense so it is definitely not correct for someone to follow Arjuna and Krishna’s footsteps todayI don’t know about Subhadra’a age and when did she deliver Abhimanyu? The time isn’t specified
Now he was her husband, even today majority women accept the marital r**e by husbands as their fate and hold no wrong feelings for them, do you really think they had other believes at that time?
I said the small age because immidiately after Arjuna's exile Rajsuya started, and supposedly Subhadra was pregnant at the start of it