Barrister Babu EDT|8th July 2020 - Page 12

Originally posted by: bhshre95

The way RCs are keeping their doors open for people, i wouldn't be surprised if their whole house becomes khali one fine day🤣

Waise chor ko bhi jhel lenge, much better than Mini, atleast uske saath apne hero ka romance nahi dekhna padega🤣

Originally posted by: Sujz

Exactly. Plus if Boni was like, fifteen-sixteen or close to Mini's age, he wouldn't dare to do all this. That's where they're clearly taking the innocence of Bondita granted. It breaks my heart.💔

I don't think Mini asks anyone to go to RC Baadi, I just hope SSP don't take they typical vamp-hero night-meet and then gulu gulu wala plans. I trust them, but then I trusted Aniruddh too.

If Bondita was 15-16, i don't think even Mini would have dared to come anywhere near him. I feel bad for her, she doesn't even know kya ho raha hai.

I am disappointed with him as I have really very high expectations from him😒 but then i feel he himself is struggling with his emotions. He may be finding Mini wrong but can't be rude to her as he feels he has wronged her. And only we know Mini's evil side, for him she is someone who he loved for his whole life, dreamed of marrying her and then broke her heart and despite this she is being kind to him. It has hardly been anytime and he hasn't forgotten her completely so its difficult for him. I am no way saying he is right but he is human too and we do make mistakes. I am very disappointed and angry but I can't help but feel sorry for him too. I feel he got lost for a few moments.

@ bold- its not about asking, kiske ghar mein ye sab allow hota hai?😕 don't her dida and dad observe anything at all? Shouldn't they try to keep her away from RCs

Besides all these drama, I believe Anirudh and his intentions.

I mean common, we know he is Bondita's husband, he come India to change the society but we can't forget he is also a human with feelings, emotions and flaws too.

He has to marry Bondita to save her life but what about his life, he is in love with Saudamini, his childhood friend, and his first love whom he wants to marry,which none can't deny and just because he married to Bondita, all of his feelings for Mini should suddenly got dismissed. This is definitely not a human trait. Everyone needs time to move on. And this become more difficult when your first love is always around you, and especially when tries to woo you.

So, in my opinion he is just behaving like a normal person. And,I really want this to happen in a gradual way, I want Ani to cry when Saudamini get married, as mini cried for him, showing the pain of losing someone you loved the most. I want makers to show us the process of how Ani deal with his feelings, how he forget his first love and how he slowly but started accepting his relation with Bondita.

And, I also believe that keeping all his feelings aside, he will carry his responsibility in a very good manner and soon Bondita will become his "TRUE LOVE". ❤️

And, sorry if my words would hurt anyone, but what I feel, I shared. 😊

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Thats where my main concern is Shre. Sab yeh kyun bhool jaate hai ki even he had his dreams shattered. Even his life was toppled. Bondita can atleast talk to her 'Pari' Di or Sampoo di or maybe Ani. But he? Uska kya Shre? Dad ko sirf London jaane se matlab hai. Mini ka he doesnt know but he cant talk to her too as he is the one who broke her heart. Kaka is a good person but orthodox mindset main woh sirf kahenge Bondita tumhari patni hai uski zimmedari lo. Yeh nahi kahenge kaise leni hai zimmedari. Som aur Batuk toh aur bhi chotte hai. Saurabh agar dost hota toh yeh sab cheeze nahi kehta

Why do we tend to forget this Shre. Kabhi uske point of view so socho.

Shaadi ke baad ek din bhi usse aisa nahi mila jidhar someone tells him ki Anirudh apna dard baatlo. Anirudh jo dil main hai bas kehdo. Kabhi kisne socha uske liye kitna dardanaak tha. Kabhi kisne uske baare main socha?

True Al😒I feel very bad for him on that front. Nobody not a single person understands him or even tries to understand him. Heck nobody even realises that he may be in pain, he may be struggling with his emotions too. They just accuse him that it is his fitoor and he brought it upon himself and mock him for it. It must be very hard being surrounded by people who see only wrong in his actions. It broke my heart yesterday when he said sabko mere pagalpan se gussa hi aata hai. He is very lonely.

Thats the very reason I wanted Ani saurabh friendship angle. When he woke Ani that day to save Bondita, i saw a potential in his character to stand by his friend. He knew he is in trouble for doing that but he still chose to inform Ani about it. I wish in future atleast they become the kind of friends who can confide their feelings with each other and even give an unbiased advice.

Maybe this public toilet issue may bring them closer

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Kabhi chor aayega na usska bhi bade achha se swagat karenge🤣🤪

Aao jo lena hai le jao, ham zamindaar hain🤪

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Thats where my main concern is Shre. Sab yeh kyun bhool jaate hai ki even he had his dreams shattered. Even his life was toppled. Bondita can atleast talk to her 'Pari' Di or Sampoo di or maybe Ani. But he? Uska kya Shre? Dad ko sirf London jaane se matlab hai. Mini ka he doesnt know but he cant talk to her too as he is the one who broke her heart. Kaka is a good person but orthodox mindset main woh sirf kahenge Bondita tumhari patni hai uski zimmedari lo. Yeh nahi kahenge kaise leni hai zimmedari. Som aur Batuk toh aur bhi chotte hai. Saurabh agar dost hota toh yeh sab cheeze nahi kehta

Why do we tend to forget this Shre. Kabhi uske point of view so socho.

Shaadi ke baad ek din bhi usse aisa nahi mila jidhar someone tells him ki Anirudh apna dard baatlo. Anirudh jo dil main hai bas kehdo. Kabhi kisne socha uske liye kitna dardanaak tha. Kabhi kisne uske baare main socha?

Couldn’t have worded it better

I was so surprised when I saw all these people commenting that Ani was in the wrong, he was cheating, he should move on... etc etc.

I personally felt that he was struggling with his emotions. He felt overwhelmed and on top of that his family and mini just keep on reminding him of things he just doesn’t wanna think about.

He is not in the wrong. Just because he is older than bondita, doesn’t make him any less of a victim than her.

Originally posted by: Sujz

She was wiping his stain? Seriously? We all, also Aniruddh knows her intentions aren't to wipe a stain. Here the question is not about his trance, he LET that happen to himself while he refused to be taken away by Mini during Mini-Boni first meet. Just switch it, if Boni was in place of Ani and her love interest did that to her while Ani is sleeping, we wouldn't be reacting the same. What's pricking everyone is he let that happen to himself and his face, it looked lost and in a trance to me. Cheating is a strong word but technically he was already emotionally cheating, but we can't do anything about it, but this is clearly taking advantage of Bondita's age and innocence. He may shrug it off in 9th July's episode but he did let that happen, he did let Mini to do that to him. I am not saying he should forget anything, but being consensual, he let that happen to him and it isn't something to be proud of. I am sorry this is my take, Ani should feel guilty and I'll be happy if he feels so. Makers have totally lost it with Aniruddh's character which just snaps once Mini enters.

@bold No one defined his character by that one scene. But when discussion woh ek scene ki ho rahi hai toh I can't help but be disappointed. I know what all he's done for Bondita, but this is disappointing.

I get his dreams were shattered, his life was ruined, everything and I didn't had much issues with him crying over it or anything. But this constant bickering that is happening needs to end once and for all. Why can't they just talk? Makers really trying irritate the viewers here.

That’s the problem. No one wants to the talk and actually listen to Ani. Everyone is just doing what they feel is right, they don’t care if it affects Ani badly.

Originally posted by: shadow18

Besides all these drama, I believe Anirudh and his intentions.

I mean common, we know he is Bondita's husband, he come India to change the society but we can't forget he is also a human with feelings, emotions and flaws too.

He has to marry Bondita to save her life but what about his life, he is in love with Saudamini, his childhood friend, and his first love whom he wants to marry,which none can't deny and just because he married to Bondita, all of his feelings for Mini should suddenly got dismissed. This is definitely not a human trait. Everyone needs time to move on. And this become more difficult when your first love is always around you, and especially when tries to woo you.

So, in my opinion he is just behaving like a normal person. And,I really want this to happen in a gradual way, I want Ani to cry when Saudamini get married, as mini cried for him, showing the pain of losing someone you loved the most. I want makers to show us the process of how Ani deal with his feelings, how he forget his first love and how he slowly but started accepting his relation with Bondita.

And, I also believe that keeping all his feelings aside, he will carry his responsibility in a very good manner and soon Bondita will become his "TRUE LOVE". ❤️

And, sorry if my words would hurt anyone, but what I feel, I shared. 😊

Even I want him to be a bit heartbroken. Woh uska pehle pyaar tha Mini ke saath. Haan shayad se saccha nahi tha par that na. And then when he got married Mini ke liye sabne socha par kisine Anirudh ka dard kyun nahi samjha?

Maana usne shaadi ki par yaar usse bhi yeh sab process karne ka waqt do. I understand such scenes disappoint us but how can you blame a person who is in love seeing his love infront of him but also knows that she can never be his again

Originally posted by: bhshre95

True Al😒I feel very bad for him on that front. Nobody not a single person understands him or even tries to understand him. Heck nobody even realises that he may be in pain, he may be struggling with his emotions too. They just accuse him that it is his fitoor and he brought it upon himself and mock him for it. It must be very hard being surrounded by people who see only wrong in his actions. It broke my heart yesterday when he said sabko mere pagalpan se gussa hi aata hai. He is very lonely.

Thats the very reason I wanted Ani saurabh friendship angle. When he woke Ani that day to save Bondita, i saw a potential in his character to stand by his friend. He knew he is in trouble for doing that but he still chose to inform Ani about it. I wish in future atleast they become the kind of friends who can confide their feelings with each other and even give an unbiased advice.

Maybe this public toilet issue may bring them closer

Par kaise karna hai? Yeh kisne bola? Kaise move on karna hai from the person you loved from so long but also hurt.

Rakho expectations galat nahi par yaar uske hisaab se bhi soch liya karo

Woh galat nahi hai bass usse galat aur sahi ki theek se pehchaan nahi ho rahi.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

Couldn’t have worded it better

I was so surprised when I saw all these people commenting that Ani was in the wrong, he was cheating, he should move on... etc etc.

I personally felt that he was struggling with his emotions. He felt overwhelmed and on top of that his family and mini just keep on reminding him of things he just doesn’t wanna think about.

He is not in the wrong. Just because he is older than bondita, doesn’t make him any less of a victim than her.

I was like agar main hoti toh itne maturely kabhi nahi leti sab kuch. Jitna strongly Anirudh ne sambhala hai apne aap ko main kabhi nahi kar pati.

Galti toh tab ho na jab usse galat aur sahi ka antar pata chale. Duniya nahi dekhi hai usne. Sahi aur galat ki pehchaan nahi hai usme

Samjho baat ko. Try being in his shoes and think. Bolna bohot asaan hai ki both of them should talk and finish it off and move on par karna utna hi mushqil

Socho ki Bondita aur Anirudh ke beech problem hua and dono alag hue toh kya tum sab yahi kehte ki dono ko move on karna chaiye?