Just because you don't have better standards and are okay with mediocrity doesn't mean others have to do that too and shouldn't raise their voices against it.
If we pay for these films, we expect quality cinema and quality performances.
If we find the industry culture or system to be unfair and toxic, we have every right to speak against it. So, no you can't tell anyone what he should do and what he should not.
Yes, pathetically untalented starkids eventually get rejected by audience like Abhishek Bachan. But how many easy opportunities do these people get before finally being rejected. Do outsiders have that kind of privilege? If we don't like this system then we'll point it out.
Half of these industry kids don't even bother to work on their craft. They take it for granted.
Rhea Kapoor revealed on kwk rather proudly, that Kareena couldn't even bother to show up for rehearsals for Tareefa song, couldn't be bothered to learn the lyrics. When these people have this level of respect for their profession, then we have every right to call out their mediocrity.
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