Yeh Dil Mera : *ing Ahad, Sajal, Adnan S and Zarnish - Page 78

Originally posted by: sami011

me too feel same.I feel she showed zero empathy while he did suffer 10 times more,his childhood was ruined,his uncle abused him and all she cared about was herself.She said she loved him but I am not sure .....i feel he deserved a proper emotional apology. She made a school and hospital for people who suffered on her family's hand but nothing ,not even a word for a child who witnessed his whole family dying and burning .

I feel with such good cast not having such scene left a bad taste in my mouth.She felt only for herself..pain for her love,her agha jaan ....

Exactly Aina was very cold and insensitive and it was out of character completely. She never tried to console him for his loss. I mean she lost her mom but he lost his entire family to her so cold agha jaan lust. It was not fair. Aina as a character lost respect in the end. Aman was treated like garbage by her. She had tears for her father death but not a single tear for aman suffering. Poor guy was scarred for life.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Absolutely. Didnt he deserve an apology from aina ? Ainas mother was killed by mir but amaans whole family was shot and burnt ..he suffered so much while aina had a sheltered childhood. Idc they were bk together or not but there should have been an emotional scene between the two.

Yeah that was definitely missing. Instead of making all the decisions for herself and treating Amaan like trash, she couldve at least apologised to him and requested for him to give her more time. That wouldve made more sense.

What did you think of Mir Farooqs end? I felt he escaped all his crimes too easily by ending his life. I know people would say that his punishment starts now in the next life but tbh i wouldve found it better if he suffered in jail yearning to see his daughter while she never showed him her face.

After his death, suddenly all Aynas anger towards him was gone and she was crying for her father again and showing love for him even after knowing he had killed her mother. Why did she attend his funeral yet refuse to meet Amaan who was yearning for her love?

Originally posted by: Ruby7

Exactly Aina was very cold and insensitive and it was out of character completely. She never tried to console him for his loss. I mean she lost her mom but he lost his entire family to her so cold agha jaan lust. It was not fair. Aina as a character lost respect in the end. Aman was treated like garbage by her. She had tears for her father death but not a single tear for aman suffering. Poor guy was scarred for life.

Originally posted by: ItsNoorfatima

There is something about the end that was changed at the very last moment... Last Wednesday, in promo for ep 33, the whole Aman Aina conversation that started with Aman saying" daryabagh se daryabagh ka safar khatam" was edited out

The last conversation of Aman and Aina was mostly dubbed... When Aman was speaking his back was shown and when Aina was speaking her back was shown.. Also the voice of both actors during dialogues looked dubbed.. That could not be Aman and Aina's last conversation

In osts and also in a video by a fan I've seen on insta, the horses Aman and Aina are ridding met at the end..

What I'm feeling now is that ending was changed at the last moment... Even if it was not a happy ending, it wasn't supposed to be this abrupt and flawed ending too!

Allah!!!

That's a whole new angle.

If this has happened,I really wish nothing could change.

They coudnt reunite,I understand.But it could be due to Aina's guilt of her father doing injustice to him.Not because,she being angry with him unnecessarily when Aman has suffered the most.

Forgiveness is great-It is easier to say.But if I were in Aman's place,maybe I would do the same or maybe worse.

Originally posted by: tasnimrayian

Allah!!!

That's a whole new angle.

If this has happened,I really wish nothing could change.

They coudnt reunite,I understand.But it could be due to Aina's guilt of her father doing injustice to him.Not because,she being angry with him unnecessarily when Aman has suffered the most.

Forgiveness is great-It is easier to say.But if I were in Aman's place,maybe I would do the same or maybe worse.

If they were not to unite, even then end could have been better.. Aman and Aina deserved a better final conversation... Aman deserved few words from Aina, possibly an apology too for all her father had done to him...

Also in first half of episode, we see Aina has a soft corner for Aman.. She turned her head only when he called her.. She talked normally with him at hospital... When he was visiting her on regular basis, she knew his love wasn't fake..

Yet the tables were turned at last scene and she went back to her old chant of Jhooti mohabbat.. That was not fair... Their last scene shouldn't have been like this...

I seem to the minority here. 😀

No matter what her dad did, she has spent her entire lifetime loving her Aghajaan. Her anger, her disappointment towards him is not going to cut all ties with him. Her hatred towards him would not have erased the love she had.. Hatred may overshadow the love, but at least part of the love would definitely stay. News of his death would surely have (and rightfully so) hurt her. She would have despised him, not forgiven him but she wouldn't be able to unlove him.

On the very similar and consistent line, she might not be able to forgive Amaan for his betrayal but couldn't unlove him either. Amaan has faced great tragedy but none of it was because of Aina. Aina isn't obliged to apologize to him for any of her father's crime. The feud was between Amaan and Mir Farooq.. It was Amaan who dragged Aina into the picture. So if she chooses to not forgive him, she is not wrong. Betrayal of trust is hard to overcome. Especially when you have major betrayals dropped you from all directions simultaneously, it is only natural for her to close into a shell. When a spouse cheats in marriage, how difficult is it to trust them again and almost never can it be as strong as before...similar was Amaan's betrayal here. Betrayal of trust doesn't always have to be infidelity.

The logic that because Amaan went through so much in his life, more than Aina, he deserves forgiveness and Aina needs to take him back is plain wrong. It is like saying if a husband had a difficult childhood, saw poor husband-wife relationship between his father & mother and thus never having seen a normal childhood, he ill treats his wife and abuses her - should she forgive him because of his backstory? There could have been many other ways to take revenge and even expose the truth to Aina without having to "make her fall" in love him. Amaan chose to bring Aina into this saga in this manner and now that ball is in her court, she gets to decide if and when she gives him another chance. Im glad Amaan understood this and although he kept trying he never imposed himself on Aina.

Coming to Mir Farooq's death - i wish they had shown him desperate to talk or seek forgiveness from Aina and she refuses him that chance flatly. I would have loved to see him repent, not his killings, but definitely Aina's disdain. I always wonder which of the choice would be better: Mir Farooq seems to fall in first category.

1. Live your life like a king, all happiness and comfort but towards the end you find out everything was a lie or illusion. Basically you regret your whole life. 60 yrs of content life and last 5 yrs in regret.

2. Live your life barely able to make ends meet, struggling, worried but the last years are spent comfortably with no regrets. 60 yrs of struggle but last 5 yrs of content.

Originally posted by: stardust2011

I seem to the minority here. 😀

No matter what her dad did, she has spent her entire lifetime loving her Aghajaan. Her anger, her disappointment towards him is not going to cut all ties with him. Her hatred towards him would not have erased the love she had.. Hatred may overshadow the love, but at least part of the love would definitely stay. News of his death would surely have (and rightfully so) hurt her. She would have despised him, not forgiven him but she wouldn't be able to unlove him.

On the very similar and consistent line, she might not be able to forgive Amaan for his betrayal but couldn't unlove him either. Amaan has faced great tragedy but none of it was because of Aina. Aina isn't obliged to apologize to him for any of her father's crime. The feud was between Amaan and Mir Farooq.. It was Amaan who dragged Aina into the picture. So if she chooses to not forgive him, she is not wrong. Betrayal of trust is hard to overcome. Especially when you have major betrayals dropped you from all directions simultaneously, it is only natural for her to close into a shell. When a spouse cheats in marriage, how difficult is it to trust them again and almost never can it be as strong as before...similar was Amaan's betrayal here. Betrayal of trust doesn't always have to be infidelity.

The logic that because Amaan went through so much in his life, more than Aina, he deserves forgiveness and Aina needs to take him back is plain wrong. It is like saying if a husband had a difficult childhood, saw poor husband-wife relationship between his father & mother and thus never having seen a normal childhood, he ill treats his wife and abuses her - should she forgive him because of his backstory? There could have been many other ways to take revenge and even expose the truth to Aina without having to "make her fall" in love him. Amaan chose to bring Aina into this saga in this manner and now that ball is in her court, she gets to decide if and when she gives him another chance. Im glad Amaan understood this and although he kept trying he never imposed himself on Aina.

Coming to Mir Farooq's death - i wish they had shown him desperate to talk or seek forgiveness from Aina and she refuses him that chance flatly. I would have loved to see him repent, not his killings, but definitely Aina's disdain. I always wonder which of the choice would be better: Mir Farooq seems to fall in first category.

1. Live your life like a king, all happiness and comfort but towards the end you find out everything was a lie or illusion. Basically you regret your whole life. 60 yrs of content life and last 5 yrs in regret.

2. Live your life barely able to make ends meet, struggling, worried but the last years are spent comfortably with no regrets. 60 yrs of struggle but last 5 yrs of content.

The first para explains , to the point, why amaan deserved an apology and empathy from aina. NOT forgiveness. Forgive or not to forgive is her decision ...she always trusted the wrong people like bhua aga jaan and ali baksh but never tried to see things from amaans perspective. What about her love for amaan ? Was it shallow ?

I didnt like the end bec there wasnt any conversation between them where aina felt apologetic for saying all those hurtful things to him..she believed he cheated her bec of the fake ideas against her dear aga jaan. She was so confident of her aga jaan being innocent , she challenged amaan ..amaan told her let's see who has to apologize in the end..n it ended as if amaan did the biggest mistake of his life by going against aga jaan.

Yes he used aina but neither did he ill treat her nor intend to hurt her in any way . He only wanted her to know the truth so that she sees for herself what kind of a man her father is. Was it SO wrong ? He refused to marry her but she insisted on it..he was confused , he didnt want her to go through betrayal . I dont belittle ainas pain . She went through a lot..that's why I believed that in the end both will find solace in each other bec both are broken.

[Sorry double post

Originally posted by: _charu_

The first para explains , to the point, why amaan deserved an apology and empathy from aina. NOT forgiveness. Forgive or not to forgive is her decision ...she always trusted the wrong people like bhua aga jaan and ali baksh but never tried to see things from amaans perspective. What about her love for amaan ? Was it shallow ?

I didnt like the end bec there wasnt any conversation between them where aina felt apologetic for saying all those hurtful things to him..she believed he cheated her bec of the fake ideas against her dear aga jaan. She was so confident of her aga jaan being innocent , she challenged amaan ..amaan told her let's see who has to apologize in the end..n it ended as if amaan did the biggest mistake of his life by going against aga jaan.

Yes he used aina but neither did he ill treat her nor intend to hurt her in any way . He only wanted her to know the truth so that she sees for herself what kind of a man her father is. Was it SO wrong ? He refused to marry her but she insisted on it..he was confused , he didnt want her to go through betrayal . I dont belittle ainas pain . She went through a lot..that's why I believed that in the end both will find solace in each other bec both are broken.

Well said, Aman never wanted to hurt Aina. Can we not give him a benefit of doubt because his complete childhood was scarred? Was he ever in the right state of mind to make the correct decisions. I felt bad for Aman and didn't feel for Aina much in the end, all thanks to the bad writing for Aina

Originally posted by: stardust2011

I seem to the minority here. 😀

No matter what her dad did, she has spent her entire lifetime loving her Aghajaan. Her anger, her disappointment towards him is not going to cut all ties with him. Her hatred towards him would not have erased the love she had.. Hatred may overshadow the love, but at least part of the love would definitely stay. News of his death would surely have (and rightfully so) hurt her. She would have despised him, not forgiven him but she wouldn't be able to unlove him.

On the very similar and consistent line, she might not be able to forgive Amaan for his betrayal but couldn't unlove him either. Amaan has faced great tragedy but none of it was because of Aina. Aina isn't obliged to apologize to him for any of her father's crime. The feud was between Amaan and Mir Farooq.. It was Amaan who dragged Aina into the picture. So if she chooses to not forgive him, she is not wrong. Betrayal of trust is hard to overcome. Especially when you have major betrayals dropped you from all directions simultaneously, it is only natural for her to close into a shell. When a spouse cheats in marriage, how difficult is it to trust them again and almost never can it be as strong as before...similar was Amaan's betrayal here. Betrayal of trust doesn't always have to be infidelity.

The logic that because Amaan went through so much in his life, more than Aina, he deserves forgiveness and Aina needs to take him back is plain wrong. It is like saying if a husband had a difficult childhood, saw poor husband-wife relationship between his father & mother and thus never having seen a normal childhood, he ill treats his wife and abuses her - should she forgive him because of his backstory? There could have been many other ways to take revenge and even expose the truth to Aina without having to "make her fall" in love him. Amaan chose to bring Aina into this saga in this manner and now that ball is in her court, she gets to decide if and when she gives him another chance. Im glad Amaan understood this and although he kept trying he never imposed himself on Aina.

Coming to Mir Farooq's death - i wish they had shown him desperate to talk or seek forgiveness from Aina and she refuses him that chance flatly. I would have loved to see him repent, not his killings, but definitely Aina's disdain. I always wonder which of the choice would be better: Mir Farooq seems to fall in first category.

1. Live your life like a king, all happiness and comfort but towards the end you find out everything was a lie or illusion. Basically you regret your whole life. 60 yrs of content life and last 5 yrs in regret.

2. Live your life barely able to make ends meet, struggling, worried but the last years are spent comfortably with no regrets. 60 yrs of struggle but last 5 yrs of content.

I understand Aina always loved Agha Jaan and she will continue to do so but she showed no sadness for what Aman went through. That's what was a turn off for me. Aman never forced Aina in.the end to come back to him.because he learnt to put some one else's pain above his. Wish Aina did the same. No reunion but atleast show some empathy and convey her condolences for his loss.

The writer in the desperation of showing the fl strong ended up making her cold and unlikeable. I will always be in team Aman. Thankfully they didnt kill him off..

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