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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

That's very thoughtful of you darling🤗


If I have not said it enough before sorry.....you guys helped me go through one of the toughest times in my life so far with as much as easiness it can be offered..........I'm glad that I connected with you folks.......I'm not at all social...........and with no social media account.......never talk to a stranger even..... So Thank you.. so much...Shukriya.Dhanyabad...Merci beaucoup (Thank you very much in French)...gracias.....dil se to all of you....................

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Posted: 5 years ago

Ok....something really scary just happened....my neighbors just threw something on fire onto my balcony....it think it was a paper on fire? good thing I was sitting by the balcony and splashed lots of water on it and smothered the fire out....my balcony is wooden...my apartment could have caught on fire


Then someone kept knocking on my door and tried to open my door....I didn't answer but I'm literally shaking right now...that was so scary

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: alina.b

Ok....something really scary just happened....my neighbors just threw something on fire onto my balcony....it think it was a paper on fire? good thing I was sitting by the balcony and splashed lots of water on it and smothered the fire out....my balcony is wooden...my apartment could have caught on fire


Then someone kept knocking on my door and tried to open my door....I didn't answer but I'm literally shaking right now...that was so scary


Please check your PM..........

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Isabel


Sorry...I had to focus on something for work..........


@ 1st bold.........Every generation will have a gap with the next one...we need to learn how to deal with it.........you need to learn how to grow up.........have a couple of nice convo with your parents and tell them....you're an adult......you need some personal space........you should have done that by now........initially they'll be traumatized I guess.....but later on, they will get used to......you don't need the approval to do something you like..........

2nd bold.........as said that before I needed a mentor like your dad to size me up.......... I find it utterly hilarious...... will explain later.......someone needs me to explain her more complicated stuff now.🤣


So your family has a dating app?...........Please don't link your experiences with your parents' ones......every relationship is very different............from your writing I can see.... you're getting contradictory signals.......from them.....to get married to someone you need to get in touch...to know someone........long process...if your parents are concerned you're writing a romantic story even still now........I'm confused......at a certain point...you need to take charge of your life..........your parents won't be there always.......


It's hard to explain...asking for personal space translates to "I don't want anything to do with you" to them...I really don't want to make my parents upset and make them feel like that I'm ungrateful after all the sacrifices they have made for me. Another thing is that my younger sister is very obedient so when I do rebel...they always ask why are you like this?


Would love to hear your funny story 😆


No, my family doesn't have a dating app 😆 in arranged marriages, you find people through your network of friends and family and people get "recommended" for each other. I guess my parents are confused therefore I am confused. I am their first kid aka "test kid" and no matter how many years they live here, it will always be a foreign land to them. They are afraid of me losing my culture and leaving behind my identity so even they don't know what they expect from me when it comes to dating/marriage


I do things I like that my parents might not approve of but I never tell them. Tbh it doesn't matter too much since I barely ever live at home. But, since they call me a lot, they usually know what I'm doing. TBH I don't do anything crazy or illegal 😆 It's simple things like writing stories, going on late night drives, drinking wine sometimes

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Isabel


Please check your PM..........


Just replied. Don't worry...everything is fine now...I think they were grilling on their balcony and a wind blew something on fire onto my balcony. I just got really scared and panicked a bit

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

Why do you need someone when you have jiju?😆


Jokes apart, you'll meet the one eventually! Don't worry about it now, enjoy life and it's happenings😳


That's true 😆 also I'm only 23...I have more important things to worry about

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

I'll go to sleep now guys!


Good night/day!


Good night, Lavy. See you tommorow

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Isabel


If I have not said it enough before sorry.....you guys helped me go through one of the toughest times in my life so far with as much as easiness it can be offered..........I'm glad that I connected with you folks.......I'm not at all social...........and with no social media account.......never talk to a stranger even..... So Thank you.. so much...Shukriya.Dhanyabad...Merci beaucoup (Thank you very much in French)...gracias.....dil se to all of you....................


Awww Isa...this is so sweet. I'm glad that I met you too...you've given me a new perspective on issues professionally and personally. I really hope we continue to stay in touch! Btw, this question came to mind today....how did you find this show and forum? You don't seem like the person who would like Indian tv shows then you did you stumble upon it and come to like it?

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: alina.b


Just replied. Don't worry...everything is fine now...I think they were grilling on their balcony and a wind blew something on fire onto my balcony. I just got really scared and panicked a bit


Glad you're OK..........anyone would be worried about these weird things......they already have a habit of fighting........stay safe!

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Posted: 5 years ago

Helloooo anyone here?


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