Originally posted by: nushy1995
We do!
About the sequence, I am not saying Avantika isn't a well wisher. I have no idea regarding what they had shown earlier. So I might miss some points.
Transparency is the key - yes! But sometimes it's better when you don't make it public because the choice of words and how you are delivering it has a huge role to play and the other party may get alarmed.
There was one such incident in the show I am watching now and I'll discuss on that later in detail.
About Avantika's stand, sometimes you may feel you are hogging all the space and you can take a step back, as long as you have that clarity that now your son needs more space. Giving space doesn't necessarily mean you have to move out. You can have tea and a light conversation like it's necessary that they too start thinking about their future and you need rest - in the light way. I felt YHM did a great job on that aspect when Ishita was undermining Aliya's decisions and Toshi gave both of them a demo.
Here you openly ask your bahu who is a Mahatma in a tone like this - it sounds a bit cold and extreme.
Otherwise Avantika was bang on!
Thanks for sharing your views, and perspective. I felt Pkd did a great job here, so let's agree to disagree.