Originally posted by: Onyourface
I know where you are coming from rashi, bm has guided mishti to be a " achi gudiya rani" and at times mishti does take a step back , thinking badi maa kya sochegi, she didn't reveal how sour her relation is with kuhu and preferred to act like good sisters and that was because she thought she didn't want to hurt BM or rather what would BM think about her , and sometimes bm does try to kind a force ( m not getting a better word ) to follow her decision, like she wanted mishti to go for kunal's rishta ...
But the thing is , BM and mishti's relationship is extremely deep , I have seen that BM lover her unconditionally, can also go against BP for mishti...
more than abir and BP also I believe, mishti also feels less pressured to share all her emotions with her ( except for the kuhu angle and who knows If she had shared certain things of that area , aaj situation better hoti ) , if there is anyone in the show who I have seen mishti sharing her real feelings with , than that's BM .
BM does accept and understand mishti's feelings and her decisions and honestly I kind a like the advises she gives to her on her relationship with abir ...
Clearly, my views on BM are not as harsh as yours, sorry
I haven't followed much of kaira journey so I have no idea what role BM played there