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Originally posted by: ruhi19

phir kya baat kiya usne?

ya even I want to know😕 why nothing about the show

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Than what did he talk about😲

Not even one word about the show😲

What Is this

He told that he have impacted Abir..well I don't know yaar..I have to go through the entire thread.people asked him questions reakted to himself more cool..he didn't even answer the question of missing the set or shooting .🤗🤗

Chat session of Shah 😆

https://www.instagram.com/p/B-4Y2zChxxl/?igshid=15xqr0g5n8omz

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Originally posted by: ruhi19

phir kya baat kiya usne?

I can't say everything I read ruhi..😆😆it will take a lot of tym..

*No questions related to mishbir as well....*

Hello girls...just now went through chat session...when he asked whether to visit the shows hashtag all answers were a big NO🤣🤣I hope he never visists🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Oh okay now I understood what you are trying to say about these minimum expectations,

you feel she should be expecting more when it comes to her ife partner , like pampering her , or loving her infact her requirements were more practical then emotional here , was that a compromise, oh definitely a big big yes , not only for mishti but also for kunal

that's what the kind of person she was , or should I say grew up to be , someone who was oblovious to love, with all the past events in her life, she grew up believe that love is conditional and something which is not meant for her , sometimes I believe that she demanded courtship because she knows that when a couple breaks off , more than the two people involved there, the people who were dependent on the couple gets affected , there was never a moment where she thought about something called love, in fact i remember just one day before the engagement when abir asked kunal if he loved mishti , kunal just responds saying kya kuhu jaisi batein kar rahe ho , obviously it was a no from his side , then on the engagement day when kuhu asked mishti whether she loves kunal , mishti was blank , obviously the answer was no , it amazes me that love wasn't the basic requirement for both mishti and kunal , practical expectations were more important ..... I remember a conversation in mahs house on kunal rejection and BP said that kunal was a kind of person who would not compromise himself but always expect his wife to do so , he doesn't consider his partner as an equal, equality is something which mishti definitely expected, in fact what you are trying to say that it was "her normal" it wasn't really one , it was a time where her patience was tested , whenever you see red flags in s relationship , there comes 2 paths to deal with it Path A is to back out from the relationship and path B is to try to mend the relationship with all the enthusiasm , mishti first tried to follow path B but in that path the basic requirement is to have a strong sense love , affection or any kind of emotional attachment , not only that the other person has to also give a significant response, mishku relation didn't have that strong affection and kunal wasn't really responding, infact a major turn came for mishti in the eye surgery track when she realised that kunal can even question her basic personality, with every step her patience was reducing, and she was moving from path B to path A .... so sooner or later, even if naman abir or kuhu weren't there in the picture , kunal and mishti would have broken off, not only the absence of love but the lack of understanding and compatibility was their major drawbacks.

Yes abir's presence in mishti's life brought to life an unexpected expectation and that was that unconditional love as a combination, something that she she never believed in , something that she believed she would have never experienced otherwise , I definitely agree with the points you made here !

Hmmm pure addiction toh nahi, nishant was hinting at a way how she got attached to abir mostly in a negative way 😆 Like in a way she cant see anything beyond abir that is causing harm to maheshwaris and nishant himself..

but actually it's more of a devotion, an attachment that lead to realisation of love and the bliss of rising above the individual barriers , something that AM witnessed in their journey , the kind of love that nannu wanted to understand but sadly couldn't 😛

Haan amazing journey indeed

Ohh beautiful post by both you n mini yaar i love this discussion... 👏👏 you guyz arew rocking it... 👏

actually what mini said n you explained is right mishti should have more expectation but then doesnt the expectation varies for every person every love story or to be general every story is different only bcoz of that...

For mishti she didnt want to end up like her parents so she had some basic expectations based on that and how she was raised n even if she compromised she couldnt go beyond a limit with kunal or nannu else what she feared for would'be happened ending like her parents... Abir became the unexpected expectation n to keep that she is going to lengths for him, protect him n keep him with her...

For Abir also it was like an unexpected expectation but in a different way... he found his lives answers in mishti... main sahi karna chahthi hu mishti karti hai, whatever he wanted to do, he wished for mishti did it, she was the missing piece of puzzle in his life, she became a part of him and she gave everything beyond his expectation n he just treasures her, protects her gives her everything he can, everything in his life depends on her he is just a lost soul without her the other piece of his life...

Their love is something beyond understand like you guyz said it was such a beautiful journey which can pull string in our heart...

Even kuku they do have a different kind of love..

For kuhu she needs someone jo sirf uski hai, who can fight everyone for her, the first one was more important for her... thats why she just accepted kunal without any expectation, did everything so that he accepts her be with her thats the only thing she expects from him, she was always in giving end thats why even a small thing from kunals side makes a big difference to her...

For kunal he needs someone who would be with him, support him n family, just a responsibility, he started liking kuhu mainly bcoz she went beyond what he expected did was there with him at every point without any expectation now only he has started reciprocating n acknowledging her love...

Everyone have different expectation but the minimum the expectation the maximum the happiness... there is no fixed expectation in anyone that they should expect this or that its not a give n take too, its just a feeling of being loved when you get something you never got in your life...

Originally posted by: Just_Smile

Hello girls...just now went through chat session...when he asked whether to visit the shows hashtag all answers were a big NO🤣🤣I hope he never visists🤣

ohh my whats happening in tag chandu even i have not visited since some weeks 🤣

Originally posted by: ruhi19

wah..diyu u said it very well... abir always thinks of mishti and kunal , so his actions are based on them....

yes everything has 2 sides, but 1 side dominates more, so we see dominated more and come to conclusions...

exactly this ruhi we mostly go by with what is very obvious rather than looking at the other side which is mostly hidden...

Originally posted by: ruhi19

hi guys... this a taser of my new story, mishbir at singhania's...

TEASER

Mishbir comes to singhania’s and see the lights were off ,when mishti is about to call but she observes one by one lights are getting on, with the pics of her from her birth to the day she stayed with them and it covered all her birthday pics and pics of special occasion, she sees all her toys too from her kitchen set to gudda gudiya…

She is happy by seeing everyone and how the house is decorated in her welcome , by her favourite fairy tale theme…

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Mishti asks naksh to share his worries and feelings about akshara… he is quite surprised about mishti asking him this, which no one asked him or noticed… mishti understands him and says I know you miss her and you took responsibility of house at very early age… you are close to tai ji and you are with her 24*7 when naira didi left us, then she returned after a long time but after that akshara tai ji left us very soon… so you can say me…

Naksh gets emotional and says I really miss her and only she is the one who understand me more than anyone but now I can see my mishtu is there for me… she asks him to share what he kept for himself…

Maa ke saat mera rishta alag hain mishtu… mein jab ek saaltha , papa coma mein chale gaye aur vo 5 saal tak coma se bahar nahi aaye , maa ne papa aur maa ka dono ka pyaar diya and ghar aur office sambhala… so maa ke saat mera rishta bahut gehra tha, jab naira humare life mein aayi huamri family complete hua and hum sab cape town chale gaye… maa humesha meri pareshani samjti thi and papa ke saamne mera side leti thi… she supported me in every decision and when mom humare beech nahi thi, tho sab kuch chala gaya… uske baad naira ke life mein problems aayi and papa ne apna saara time naira ko diya and I always been compromised and adjusted but I really miss her and love her… jitna naira ko papa ki zarurat thi utna muje bhi thi par chodo…

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Special breakfast for mishti prepared by everyone with all her favourite dishes… everyone feeds her and even fights in themselves to complete their dish first… abir is very happy seeing mishti and the love they had for mishti…

P.S: i didnt choose any name for this,so if u any suggest me

wow this is beautiful ruhi.. 👏 i so want to read your stories but time nahi hai yaar i even read vaishu's in wattpad only here i dont go in MF mostly... but you have super skills dear this teaser is so good... 👏 will try to catch up with your story whenever possible 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Meri jaan 🤗

Your becoming gayab day by day

Kya re

meri cool 🤗

Arey yaar thoda busy jaan work load in home increasing so only even in re run i'm a little slow... sorry yaar until we go to regular schedule things will be little like this only