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Originally posted by: hav123

I have not seen his live so no idea ..but going by the updates here .. I feel something did happen but the fact that vg knows how shehnaaz is he has not taken it badly ..of course he also unfollowed her but he is still in a good relationship with her ..otherwise why would shehnaaz call her to say that the vm he tagged both sid and shehnaaz was good and she even asked where he gets such from ....he even cleared in a post that following unfollowing doesn’t matter .there relationship is still as family ...

On the other side though I feel what I concluded from B.B. is sometimes shehnaaz can get unreasonable and she can do such things which can hurt your heart .....I have seen many incidents where I really felt people got attached to her and she doesn’t think much before breaking her relationship with them and that can hurt someone .... I want to say much about this but some other time maybe .....

True and she does things as she feels! She doesn’t clarify with them and again she can go to them if she feels! As far as bhau is concerned, after bhau said so many things to Sana , she was nice to him and was in very good terms too! So I don’t see anything wrong if he expected her to call as he didn’t leave the office in bitter terms with her! Yeah if he feels she is become proud, then I don’t think he said any word to feel bad, he didn’t abuse her outside now and he just expressed his opinion! His choice and not a big deal, he isn’t conspiring by using a proud word!

Originally posted by: hav123

I have not seen his live so no idea ..but going by the updates here .. I feel something did happen but the fact that vg knows how shehnaaz is he has not taken it badly ..of course he also unfollowed her but he is still in a good relationship with her ..otherwise why would shehnaaz call her to say that the vm he tagged both sid and shehnaaz was good and she even asked where he gets such from ....he even cleared in a post that following unfollowing doesn’t matter .there relationship is still as family ...

On the other side though I feel what I concluded from B.B. is sometimes shehnaaz can get unreasonable and she can do such things which can hurt your heart .....I have seen many incidents where I really felt people got attached to her and she doesn’t think much before breaking her relationship with them and that can hurt someone .... I want to say much about this but some other time maybe .....

@ Red: i disagree to this. Only time she was rude & break relation as a friend was Mahira and Paras. rest she was nice to Rashmi and Aarti till the end.

Even when vikas came back as connection for Siddarth, Honestly whatever Vikas was doing I was not agreeing with him, so Shehnaaz has every valid reason to be angry with him.

So there is always a reason whenever shehnaaz was angry with someone.

Taali hamesha do haath se bajti hai.

People were mean to her, then she was upset and said things on their face.

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

True and she does things as she feels! She doesn’t clarify with them and again she can go to them if she feels! As far as bhau is concerned, after bhau said so many things to Sana , she was nice to him and was in very good terms too! So I don’t see anything wrong if he expected her to call as he didn’t leave the office in bitter terms with her! Yeah if he feels she is become proud, then I don’t think he said any word to feel bad, he didn’t abuse her outside now and he just expressed his opinion! His choice and not a big deal, he isn’t conspiring by using a proud word!

Sana is an tough nut to crack. If u see it quite.minutely , she was the ultimate loner in the show.

And its cos she is very hard to understand, and is easily misjudged.

Apart from sid who took extreme pains to do phd on her ,other ppl wont bother. And that was another reason why sana was so scared of sid leaving her . And she took extreme steps herself to manao sid. She wld never do that for anyone. Other ppl also got pissed with her in show. But she didnt try much there. Cos he was the only one who knew her inside out.

If u see clealry in show ,yes she was accessible. Ppl used to talk to her. She wld also talk to everyone. But was she on no one's priority list except Sid's.

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

True and she does things as she feels! She doesn’t clarify with them and again she can go to them if she feels! As far as bhau is concerned, after bhau said so many things to Sana , she was nice to him and was in very good terms too! So I don’t see anything wrong if he expected her to call as he didn’t leave the office in bitter terms with her! Yeah if he feels she is become proud, then I don’t think he said any word to feel bad, he didn’t abuse her outside now and he just expressed his opinion! His choice and not a big deal, he isn’t conspiring by using a proud word!

See bhau iv I don’t know..I made post connecting to vg more ...but frankly speaking I never liked bhau..he was playing double games ...he botched about everyone behind there backs and was sweet on face ...shehnaaz was really sweet to her but I didn’t like the way he called her rakhi Aunty and shamed her jsit because she told him that he can’t sleep so much ..I never liked him ...so as a perosn his opinion doesn’t matter much ..he has a habit of saying such things of anyone points out his negatives ..he did same with sid ...anyways it was in B.B. and if we consider it was a show and let bygones be bygones..shehnaaz would not have done it intentionally..she hardly had time to be I touch with anyone ..and nevertheless she is not in touch of anyone it’s her choice which is completely fine ..she knows fifi and vg are the only people who wish good for her ...she didn’t have that intimate bond with bhau..if bhau feels so she is proud it’s his opinion ..but I’ll be the last perosn to believe she has become proud as she is too simple and down to earth perosn to be like this ..this is one of the reason sid fell for her ..she has no air about herself...

Originally posted by: hav123

I have not seen his live so no idea ..but going by the updates here .. I feel something did happen but the fact that vg knows how shehnaaz is he has not taken it badly ..of course he also unfollowed her but he is still in a good relationship with her ..otherwise why would shehnaaz call her to say that the vm he tagged both sid and shehnaaz was good and she even asked where he gets such from ....he even cleared in a post that following unfollowing doesn’t matter .there relationship is still as family ...

On the other side though I feel what I concluded from B.B. is sometimes shehnaaz can get unreasonable and she can do such things which can hurt your heart .....I have seen many incidents where I really felt people got attached to her and she doesn’t think much before breaking her relationship with them and that can hurt someone .... I want to say much about this but some other time maybe .....

See hav shehnaaz is not a kind of person who would immediately make sense, she is a complex personality... Tbh I adore VG-SidNaaz bond..but whatever i know from their personalities, some distance is needed. Shehnaaz is kind of person who follow her guts more.. And we have seen most of the time she is right in long run and wrong too.. Basically she lacks the art of concealing her emotions and reacts impulsively... And another thing she doesnt sugar coat or articulate her pov well, hence misunderstood by many. We have seen how many people she has let off the hook, coz she is unable to defend or explain her actions.. including Sid sometimes..

And No, No one really was attached to shehnaaz.. people took liking in her coz she seems to be accessible and easy to manipulate but when they discover that its not the case, they develop grudge against her. No one ever accepted and supported her without ulterior motive except sidharth. But i agree for future shehnaaz need to clear with her words.

Bhau is a duffer. Thatman spoke rubbish about her in house and expects her to be in touch.. Their are people who can pretend , sana is not one of them. You think sidharth is in touch with him except by chance meeting in party? But Since shehnaaz is a soft target, its easy to take dig on her than him.

None was well wisher of her in that house, so either she can be in touch with them for the sake of formality or can avoid them, coz either way its fair..

Originally posted by: mayu1982

@ Red: i disagree to this. Only time she was rude & break relation as a friend was Mahira and Paras. rest she was nice to Rashmi and Aarti till the end.

Even when vikas came back as connection for Siddarth, Honestly whatever Vikas was doing I was not agreeing with him, so Shehnaaz has every valid reason to be angry with him.

So there is always a reason whenever shehnaaz was angry with someone.

Taali hamesha do haath se bajti hai.

People were mean to her, then she was upset and said things on their face.

My opinion is not based on Mahira paras or rashmi Aarti on a larger frame ....I’m talking more for her personality...there are incidents when she has broken relationship without any explanations and that has hurt people...sid is the only perosn who was able to crack her ..shehnaaz is a mysterious personality..she is unpredictable...you never know which moment what she might feel and act completely differently ..she can definately be shocking ...only sid is the perosn who can understand her motives and can understand what’s going on her mind and her heart and why she does certain things

Sana unfollowed Vikas soon after he gave interview for spotboy with Vicky Lalwani,in that interview Vikas praised Himanshi a lot.He said she is very good girl and she is a great singer.I may be wrong but I feel so.

Originally posted by: wendy25

See hav shehnaaz is not a kind of person who would immediately make sense, she is a complex personality... Tbh I adore VG-SidNaaz bond..but whatever i know from their personalities, some distance is needed. Shehnaaz is kind of person who follow her guts more.. And we have seen most of the time she is right in long run and wrong too.. Basically she lacks the art of concealing her emotions and reacts impulsively... And another thing she doesnt sugar coat or articulate her pov well, hence misunderstood by many. We have seen how many people she has let off the hook, coz she is unable to defend or explain her actions.. including Sid sometimes..

And No, No one really was attached to shehnaaz.. people took liking in her coz she seems to be accessible and easy to manipulate but when they discover that its not the case, they develop grudge against her. No one ever accepted and supported her without ulterior motive except sidharth. But i agree for future shehnaaz need to clear with her words.

Bhau is a duffer. Thatman spoke rubbish about her in house and expects her to be in touch.. Their are people who can pretend , sana is not one of them. You think sidharth is in touch with him except by chance meeting in party? But Since shehnaaz is a soft target, its easy to take dig on her than him.

None was well wisher of her in that house, so either she can be in touch with them for the sake of formality or can avoid them, coz either way its fair..

Just to add to what you are saying we all are a sum total of our experiences and over a period of time develop our coping mechanisms. So many times it is mentioned here that Sana does what she feels like,Sana does not take opinions of others etc. I honestly feel that most of the time what she would speak big to just so that people would have a certain image about her. Case on point when she told Himanshi/Rashmi that she can make multiple boyfriends...no where in her past or present actions we saw that she is like that. She took her commitments very seriously. Hence I feel that her coping mechanism is to cut off from people if she is not comfortable. She could not do it in BB house as there was no where to go to...but once outside why would she be in touch with people who belittled her.

I have been a silent reader as like since yesterday’s debacle because I felt that since I have not invested as much as others have in this couple...I should not be putting my opinion forward either way. But one thing I do want to point out that going forward we will see lot of changes, mostly in Sana. Everyone was in agreement that she needs grooming if she wants to establish herself...maybe one thing in that direction would be to control the SM narrative as well. We were all proud when she did not respond to the watsapp gang...the old Sana would have. Similarly she may choose to be more quiet regarding her love life as well...cuz here not only are they serious another family is involved. So rather then hoping to see the same organic bond..we can choose to enjoy their growth and transition

Originally posted by: hav123

My opinion is not based on Mahira paras or rashmi Aarti on a larger frame ....I’m talking more for her personality...there are incidents when she has broken relationship without any explanations and that has hurt people...sid is the only perosn who was able to crack her ..shehnaaz is a mysterious personality..she is unpredictable...you never know which moment what she might feel and act completely differently ..she can definately be shocking ...only sid is the perosn who can understand her motives and can understand what’s going on her mind and her heart and why she does certain things

Dear my observation is purely on the basis on her BB journey. I know she is extreme, she is unpredictable. She will get angry if she is disagree with something with someone. But she doesn't break relations easily.

Example 1- of my statement - when aarti and shehnaaz had huge fight after payida task where Sid move Aarti payida. They had huge fight and shehnaaz said alot of things to her, but next day she herself goes towards her and clear out the things how she was not angry on her but she was angry on sid.

Example 2 - whenever she and rashmi had a fight - it was always shehnaaz who will go and talk to her. example - after vishal- madhurima pan kand, Shehnaaz was supporting madhurima and Rashmi was supporting Vishal and they had a huge fight. Then shehnaaz was complaining to Asim that Rashmi is not speaking to her.

What I am saying she is extreme and unpredictable, she is not double-faced person. She is honest person, if she is angry/happy, she is on your face. She herself will not go out of way to break any relations ( exceptional is always there - pahira case).

Sorry I am not taking Sid and her relationship in the account for this, because she emotional attachment with SID is extreme 😎so expectations and reactions is also extreme over there. Thats my POV.🤔