Part 6
The wedding day came and Mini was getting ready in her room when Babita came there. She saw two girls from beauty parlour were busy doing her makeup and hair. She asked them to leave Mini alone for some time. Mini gave her a questioning look. âNothing just wanted to talk with you. Wanted to tell you things which my mother told me on the day of my wedding. Consider it as tips for successful married life.â Said Babita as she hold Miniâs hand. âAnd what are those divine tips?â asked Mini as she made dramatic expressions making Babita laugh at her antics. âFirst, from now on your husbandâs home is your actual home. So take care of it. Always spread happiness there. Make it such a place where he would always want to return at the end of the day. Second, whenever you two fight then donât let your ego guide you. Third, Its your responsibility to take care of his desires.â Said Babita becoming hesitant at the mention of third mantra. âMom, I got the first two but donât you think the last one is biased. I mean I am his wife so he should also take care of my desires too.â Replied Mini innocently. âStupid girlâŚ..by desiresâŚI didnât mean as in general wishes or somethingâŚI meanâŚ.I meanâŚ.physical desires.â Babita completed with difficulty. âOh mom, please stopâŚ.I donât need to hear this.â said Mini totally embarrassed. âBut Mini you have to understandâŚ.this is important in marriageâŚ..a wife should be able toâŚtoâŚgive himâŚuhâŚsatisfactionâŚ.in the form ofâŚ..the closenessâŚ.â Babita struggled to find a subtle word to describe physical proximity. âSexâŚ.its called sex mom.â Mini said out loud embarrassed by her momâs metaphors. âChup kar besharam ladkiâŚdheere toh bolâ Babita chided her. âReally mom? You are here to give me gyan on physical relations and you are not even comfortable saying the exact word for it. WowâŚ.and you know what? The way you are trying to use code words for it is making it sounds more vulgar.â Replied Mini now feeling awkward at her situation. âShut up. Here I am trying to help you and you are not even listening.â Said Babita annoyed by Miniâs behavior. âPlease, donât help me. And donât you think you are some 5-6years late in giving me this sex education. I mean I already know everything about it. Even if I have any doubt I will google itâŚ.but please I am not going to discuss this with youâŚ.its super awkward and embarrassing.â Said Mini as she folded her hands in front of her mom to leave the topic. âFine then. I wont talk about it.â replied Babita as she went out of her room. âThank God!â Mini sighed in relief.
Mini got ready and was waiting in her room when Preet came there to take her, âCome, pandit ji is calling bride.âSaid Preet as she helped Mini to carry her dress as it was too heavy. Mini was wearing a maroon color raw silk heavily embroidered lenhga with golden dupatta. Preet took Mini down to the mandap hall. Mini was not a shy person but she didnât know why she couldnât even look up straight to notice the decorations or surrounding people or she didnât want to look at anyone else first? She wondered. As they came near the mandap which was made at a little height Mini stepped on the small ladder. She was about to lose her balance because of her heavy dress but her father Hanuman and Neil both came to her rescue at the same time as they both extended their hand to offer her support. Mini held Neilâs hand and Hanuman Singh pulled back his hand and stepped aside to make way for them. Mini looked up for the first time. She saw Neil, their eyes met for few seconds. He looked handsome as ever in his cream and golden color sherwani. His eyes hold her captive. There was so much depth in them. So muchâŚwhich she would like to discover. She felt something moved inside her heart. âCome with meâ said Neil as he gestured her to climb the ladder of mandap. Mini felt as if she would have gone with him to the worldâs end let alone this mandap if he would have asked her to. He made her sit on his left side and he himself sat along with her. Pandit ji started chanting sacred mantras-
Tadev Lagnam Suridam Tadev
Tara Balam Chandra Balan Tadeva
Vidya Balam Daiv Balan Tadev
Lakshmi Pate Tendra Yugam Swarami
Shubmangal Sawadhan
The whole atmosphere became religious and pious with the hyms and the mantras as people watch the union of two souls. Pandit ji called Hanuman Singh for âKanyadanâ. Hanuman Singh went there with heavy heart. He did what pandit ji asked. He held Miniâs hand in his and then placed it on Neilâs hand signifying the relinquishment of his rights over her to Neil. Hanuman Singh couldnât control it anymore and let his tears fall as he folded his hands in front of Neil as if pleading him to take care of her little doll. Neil held his hands in assurance. After completing other rituals pandit ji asked Neil to fill sindoor in Miniâs mang and make her wear mangal sutra as he kept chanting holy matras-
Mangalam Bhagwan Vishnuh,
Mangalam Garunadhwajah
Mangalam Pundari Kakshah,
Mangalaya Tano Hari
Ya devi sarv bhuteshu
Lakshmi rupen samsthita
Namas tasyai namas tasyai
Namas tasyai namo namah
Neil took pinch of sindoor and lifted his hand while Babita helped Mini and pulled back her pallu over her head a little to make space. Neil filled her mang and Mini closed her eyes as myriads of emotions cross through her eyes. Neil took the beautiful mangal sutra from the sindoor filled plate and tied it around Miniâs neck. Mini looked at her mangal sutra and then towards Neil. Though she had seen these rituals in so many marriages she had attended but when it was happening with her it all felt new and overwhelming. She didnât know what is the importance of this chain and pinch of vermilion but it felt heavy on her as if now she is no more that carefree girl and suddenly a responsibility of âwifeâ is bestowed upon her. She looked at her mom and dad. They were happy but had tears in their eyes. She wanted to reach out to them but they seemed too distant at that moment. Mini was feeling restlessness. Meanwhile pandit ji asked them to stand up for the pheras. Neil stood up but Mini remained seated lost in her thoughts. Babita helped her in getting up. Their gath bandhan was done and pandit ji asked them to take 7 pheras for 7 promises about supporting each other in every situation. Mini was still lost in thoughts when Neil extended his hand and took her hand in his holding in a tight grip. Mini looked at him and he pressed her hand a little and blinked his eyes. Mini found the assurance in that little gesture which encouraged her to move forward. Pandit ji kept chanting mantras as Mini and Neil took the pheras-
Bhoomi mangalam Udaka mangalam
Agni mangalam Vayu mangalam
Gagana mangalam Surya mangalam
Chandra mangalam Jagat Mangalam
Jeeva mangalam Deha mangalam
Mano mangalam Aatma mangalam
Sarvamangalam Bhavatu Bhavatu Bhavatu
Sarvamangalam Bhavatu Bhavatu Bhavatu
Sarvamangalam Bhavatu Bhavatu Bhavatu
At the end of last phera pandit ji declared them as husband and wife and asked them to take blessings of their elders. Neil and Mini took everyoneâs blessings and had their family dinner. Since next day was reception and all Miniâs belongings were in haveli only so Babita and Hanuman decided to do just symbolic bidai of Mini where she was taken to Neilâs room in the 5 star hotel in which he and all the baratis were staying. Mini was supposed to sit there for few minutes and returned to haveli. Since Miniâs parents and some of Neilâs relatives were present there Mini and Neil couldnât interact. Soon Mini was taken back to the haveli. Mini sighed in relief as soon as it all ended and she was back in the safety and warmth of her room. Preet was sleeping over with her.
âSo,how does it feel?â asked Preet as Mini came out of bathroom after changing. âIt was tiring yaar Preet kaureâŚboth physically and mentally.â Said Mini as she finally sat on bed to get some rest. âNot thatâŚI mean how does it feel to be married?â Preet asked again. âTo be honest, I donât knowâŚ.you know it happened so soon. I mean I met him just two months ago and now we are married. I am still confused as to how my life is going to change and in what measures?â replied Mini. âDonât be nervous Mini. Everything is going to be fine.â Said Preet in assurance. âAchha ye sab serious baatein chhod naâŚ.ye bata suhagraat ko lekar kuch excitement hai ya nahi?â Preet teased. âExcitement kaha se hogi? Shadi ke baad bhi mujhe mere handsome husband ke sath nahi balki tere sath bed share karna pad raha hai.â Mini said as she made faces. âPreet hit her with pillow, âHaan haan ab toh tujhe meri company buri hi lagegi na tujhe tera Neil jo mil gaya haiâŚ..lekin dekh lena kal jab tu Delhi chali jayegi na toh meri bahut yaad ayegi tujhe.â Said Preet as she become sad thinking about the bidai of her best friend. âAww ,I will be in touch with youâŚ.aur itni asaani se thode hi na chhodungi tujheâŚaati jaati rahungi tujhe sataane.â Said Mini as she hugged her.
Next day was spent in reception and all of them only got free at evening. They were supposed to leave at night only as tomorrow was another reception at Delhi. As it was actual bidai of Mini everyone from her family was emotional. Babita and Hanuman came holding Miniâs hand towards the car where Neil was waiting for her. Mini was feeling as if she was leaving behind her childhood and all the sweet and sour memories of it in this house. She felt as if her legs have become heavy and she couldnât move. She looked at her mom and dad with tears in her eyes as if asking them to stop her from going. Babita put her hand on her head lovingly and asked her to go ahead. She hugged Babita and Hanuman for the last time before sitting in the car. âBetaâŚ.Mini sirf beti nahi hai hamariâŚ.jaan haiâŚ.ye samajh lo ki apni zindagi tumhe saup rahe hainâŚ.khayaal rakhna iska.â Said Hanuman Singh as he hugged Neil. âDonât worry. She is my wife nowâŚmy responsibility. I will take care of her.â replied Neil as he hugged him back. Then he took their blessings and sat in the car. Hanuman and Babita kept looking at the direction where the car went till it disappear from their eyes.
âPlease donât cry. Itâs a new beginning of our life. Start it with a smile.â Said Neil as he saw Mini was still crying. Mini just nodded her head in yes and wiped her tears. After few hours they reached Delhi where Naeem bi made the arrangement for their welcome. Mini kicked the utensil full of rice and entered by putting her right leg first in the plate full of kumkum paste. She then walked inside the house leaving her foot prints on the floor. Mini touched Naeem biâs feet for blessings. Neil saw this and he was touched by this gesture. He himself was going to ask her to do that but she did it on her own. âPlease stop it, what are you doing? Ab tum is ghar ki malkin ho aur main bas yaha ek naukar hoon.â Said Naeem bi as she was overwhelmed by the respect shown to her. âNeil said that you are a motherly figure to him. So how can you be just a servant for me? You are our elder and elders are always respectable.â Said Mini as she smiled at her. Naeem bi took them to Neilâs room. And the servants brought Miniâs suitcases.
to be continued....
P.S. I know you want to hit me with chappal for ending it here𤣠but it had become too long for one part so had to end it here.đđł
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