When two people stop making sense....

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Posted: 5 years ago
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....that's when they're in "love"?😆


Time and again, since the last many epis now, we are being shown parallels in the conversations between Shravan-Bunty and Suman-Kanchan.....the one recurring theme is how both Bunty and Kanchan point out to them that they just aren't making sense anymore😆


I really felt for poor Kanchan today trying to make sense of Suman softening over Shravan😆. She's used to dealing with a hardcore logical version of her sister...this new version who makes many exceptions for Shravan is hard for Kanchan to square right now. Suman really is a marvel....her ability to hold on to her justified hurt with Shravan while still being large hearted enough to give him credit for managing to show courage in some form is amazing. That ofcourse is the surface level reason she is giving. The other reason that she won't admit to Kanchan is that Shravan is the exception to all her usual norms and rules. She makes allowances for him that she wouldn't otherwise. The why of that is what's being explored here.


Because on the other side we have a Shravan also acting out of character according to BFF Bunty😆.....the most Bunty had ever seen him upset before this was over his father taking away his bike😆....but today, Shravan mopes around, refusing to eat golgappe cuz he yearns for Sumo ki smile😆.....I found one statement from him telling today.....when he thought to himself that the first person to tell him he doesn't have himmat happens to be the very girl he likes and wants to impress. That ofcourse is the surface reason, just like Suman has her surface reasons. The other reason is the deeper one....Suman too is the exception to all his life philosophies and norms. He makes allowances for her that he doesn't for anyone else, so she is beyond the typical girl he wants to like and impress. The why of that is also a work in progress for him😆


Based on these patterns, I would like to see the writers bringing these threads together into something meaningful. At this point, it seems like a refreshing approach towards exploring these evolving feelings without the standard "thunderclap" that supposedly deems two people in love. Right now these two are hovering between friendship, liking, "impress karna hai".....it's good they haven't instantly jumped to "love".....at the same time though, I would like some variation beyond Shravan's standard fixation of "impress karna hai"😆. Let's see if his "main matter karta hoon ki nahin" experiment yields any shifts.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

....that's when they're in "love"?😆


Time and again, since the last many epis now, we are being shown parallels in the conversations between Shravan-Bunty and Suman-Kanchan.....the one recurring theme is how both Bunty and Kanchan point out to them that they just aren't making sense anymore😆


I really felt for poor Kanchan today trying to make sense of Suman softening over Shravan😆. She's used to dealing with a hardcore logical version of her sister...this new version who makes many exceptions for Shravan is hard for Kanchan to square right now. Suman really is a marvel....her ability to hold on to her justified hurt with Shravan while still being large hearted enough to give him credit for managing to show courage in some form is amazing. That ofcourse is the surface level reason she is giving. The other reason that she won't admit to Kanchan is that Shravan is the exception to all her usual norms and rules. She makes allowances for him that she wouldn't otherwise. The why of that is what's being explored here.


Because on the other side we have a Shravan also acting out of character according to BFF Bunty😆.....the most Bunty had ever seen him upset before this was over his father taking away his bike😆....but today, Shravan mopes around, refusing to eat golgappe cuz he yearns for Sumo ki smile😆.....I found one statement from him telling today.....when he thought to himself that the first person to tell him he doesn't have himmat happens to be the very girl he likes and wants to impress. That ofcourse is the surface reason, just like Suman has her surface reasons. The other reason is the deeper one....Suman too is the exception to all his life philosophies and norms. He makes allowances for her that he doesn't for anyone else, so she is beyond the typical girl he wants to like and impress. The why of that is also a work in progress for him😆


Based on these patterns, I would like to see the writers bringing these threads together into something meaningful. At this point, it seems like a refreshing approach towards exploring these evolving feelings without the standard "thunderclap" that supposedly deems two people in love. Right now these two are hovering between friendship, liking, "impress karna hai".....it's good they haven't instantly jumped to "love".....at the same time though, I would like some variation beyond Shravan's standard fixation of "impress karna hai"😆. Let's see if his "main matter karta hoon ki nahin" experiment yields any shifts.


Shift toh hai dono taraf haan yeh alag baat hai that they refused to acknowledge the shift in themselves and the other one. I mean this idiot is so confused in main matter karta hoon ke nahi when any blind person can tell he does. this suman isn't the sumo he met on day 1 who was furious over him cheating the army wala dude and running away. Matlab she keeps saying she's behaving like she would with anyone else but still when he says forget about being friends use the balm as a neighbor she feels something and doesn't take an aggressive approach to pass the balm back😆 Actually gets worried when she accidentally ends up hitting him touches her wound thinking of his fresh chot I know this part he doesn't know but all this clearly tells ke faraks given =10/10😆 she wouldn't bother about some area gear nathu khara getting hurt but sharavan matters on a different level and is definatly more than just a friend/neighbour acquaintance

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Shift toh hai dono taraf haan yeh alag baat hai that they refused to acknowledge the shift in themselves and the other one. I mean this idiot is so confused in main matter karta hoon ke nahi when any blind person can tell he does. this suman isn't the sumo he met on day 1 who was furious over him cheating the army wala dude and running away. Matlab she keeps saying she's behaving like she would with anyone else but still when he says forget about being friends use the balm as a neighbor she feels something and doesn't take an aggressive approach to pass the balm back😆 Actually gets worried when she accidentally ends up hitting him touches her wound thinking of his fresh chot I know this part he doesn't know but all this clearly tells ke faraks given =10/10😆 she wouldn't bother about some area gear nathu khara getting hurt but sharavan matters on a different level and is definatly more than just a friend/neighbour acquaintance


Exactly😆....dono hi clueless hain about the significant shifts in their personalities. Shravan toh chalo phir bhi is giving some credit to Sumo about how much she's influenced him etc. but he's still too much of a dhakkan to get that this isn't just about "impression jamaana"....lol....and yes, he has no clue that Sumo is already making a lot of exceptions only for him....Sumo is good at sidestepping also😆....he will have to learn to be more perceptive and less of a ghonchu like he is currently bouncing like a kid to say hi to her😆.....the irony is that it doesn't even take much to melt Sumo but is bande ko koi idea hi nahin😆


I hope the writers can explore that angle....Shravan is currently still in some ways consciously thinking about this like impressing Sumo will be some achievement to prove a point to himself. He isn't realizing that his actions are already beyond whatever his thought process is. His actions are showing that he cares more deeply but he still gets hung up on labels of "impress karna hai".....beta Shravan, beti Sumo....impressions are fleeting, emotions are lasting😛....ab impression ke jaap se bhi aage badho😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Great post, AY! Waiting to see the farak padta hai games in today's episode😆

Liked how Shravan is being sensible in this matter. He's willing to chase Suman only if she's interested😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Her smile makes his day. It takes guts to apologize publicly with a good heart and I applaud Shravan for that.


Suman is starting to get influenced by his actions & now, it's her turn to realize what Shravan might mean to her. I get that his pranks were not good but she's also noticing that he's starting to speak up the truth. I think the day is not far when she'll realize his presence in her life & Shravan is just waiting for that moment.


Only problem is Anish who is just so dang manipulative, trying to control on the grade 1 girls like suman and devika. I think Shravan is just waiting for a good opportunity to blast on him & anish failed his buddy pair hahaha.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bucky

Great post, AY! Waiting to see the farak padta hai games in today's episode😆

Liked how Shravan is being sensible in this matter. He's willing to chase Suman only if she's interested😆


Thanks, Bucky :)


LOL this is delayed sensibility from Shravan. Two days back, he was happily imagining her as his GF already and now he's again confused about whether she really likes....lol he will remain confused for some time I guess.


He was probably feeling confident after the night out that she likes him but then the party fiasco has confused him again since he's hurt her so badly.


I don't believe him waise....he's too far gone to stop chasing Sumo now😆.....any small hint he gets from her also he will take as a big sign that she is IMPRESSED by him. I'm growing allergic to this word "impress" now.....aage badho, please😆. They both need to learn that impressions are fleeting, temporary....if you accept someone, it's as a whole....not based on whatever impression you make.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Meena_J


Only problem is Anish who is just so dang manipulative, trying to control on the grade 1 girls like suman and devika. I think Shravan is just waiting for a good opportunity to blast on him & anish failed his buddy pair hahaha.


Anish is able to manipulate only because Shravan messed up with all his lying and showing off. The day Shravan takes that power away from him and earns genuine trust from Sumo, Anish's tactics will be ineffective.


But first, Shravan has to earn it. Won't be too hard for him, since Sumo is soft over him anyways and large hearted enough to give him a chance whenever he is genuine.


LOL Anish's buddy project was bound to fail since he made it about a superiority complex....as if the civilian kids are his servants who must bow before him. Good that the principal called that out.


Shravan will definitely get back at Anish....he's biding his time for now and focusing on Sumo first😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Excellent points! 👏It is good to see you back.


Shravan was used to flings all his life and now he is in front of someone who takes friendship seriously. Trying to change one's personality for someone else is not easy. But Sumo is not going to have it any other way so the transformation in Shravan's personality is on. I just wish he would stop sucking up to Aneesh and Devika. He should just be directing his energies towards Sumo. Also, enough of the sorries. Think of some other methods, dude. And who is his friend, philosopher and guide amongst all this? Bunty of course who is confused himself.😳


Sumo is making a lot of exceptions regarding Shravan which has confused Kanchan. Actually, she has done a lot of favors to Shravan after the party. She refused to tell this story in front of his or her parents therefore saving Shravan the humiliation. She used Damru's phone and told Shravan to go home. Not only that, after the buddy report she came back and opened the gift. And of course gave a piece of her mind to Aneesh which was severely needed. And she is still suppose to be in the anger phase right now.


Not sure how many epiosdes are still left before they go on a break, but hoping to see them at a good point before they leave.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tennessean

Excellent points! 👏It is good to see you back.


Shravan was used to flings all his life and now he is in front of someone who takes friendship seriously. Trying to change one's personality for someone else is not easy. But Sumo is not going to have it any other way so the transformation in Shravan's personality is on. I just wish he would stop sucking up to Aneesh and Devika. He should just be directing his energies towards Sumo. Also, enough of the sorries. Think of some other methods, dude. And who is his friend, philosopher and guide amongst all this? Bunty of course who is confused himself.😳


Sumo is making a lot of exceptions regarding Shravan which has confused Kanchan. Actually, she has done a lot of favors to Shravan after the party. She refused to tell this story in front of his or her parents therefore saving Shravan the humiliation. She used Damru's phone and told Shravan to go home. Not only that, after the buddy report she came back and opened the gift. And of course gave a piece of her mind to Aneesh which was severely needed. And she is still suppose to be in the anger phase right now.


Not sure how many epiosdes are still left before they go on a break, but hoping to see them at a good point before they leave.


Thanks, Tennessean :)


@bold: LOL these sorries are feeling a little random and aimless right now. Not sure what repentance can be achieved by becoming a waiter in the school canteen😕....that was pretty random....lol


Bunty is confused, true but the Bhopali school peon who is now suddenly advising Shravan also seems random with his ideas.


Shravan is still mostly goofing around like a kid and I guess the story is in a bit of a filler/pause mode due to the bank of epis drying up. It's going to be re-runs from today onwards, so I guess they've decided to take a break with this blood donation camp idea only. LOL we will get to see Shravan's needle phobia whenever they come back from break.

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