Originally posted by: SheThought
Uru 🤗
Tumhe farak padta hai 😳
It's not like I couldn't see Abir's point of view before. I did.
During coffee pill fiasco, initially I wrote so many posts justifying Abir's point of view (AY knows 😆) and how he is looking at the bigger picture and is keeping Meenu's games in mind.
But my acceptance of the same when downhill very quickly after his handling of Kuhu for the pill fiasco - his so-called great bond with Bro makes accepting Abir's point of view an uphill battle to say the least!
For all the oohing and aahing of Kuhu in the RV house and her pandering by Abir, what has she actually done to earn it besides being sweet to their faces and backstabbing Abir and his love without guilt in the background?!
Abir is oblivious to Kuhu's flip side and he won't let Mishti talk!
So even if we keep Abir's big picture understanding in mind, his current ignorance to Mishti's pain and frustration and his continuous indulgence of Kuhu is beyond infuriating... so understanding ke baad bhi frustration nikal aata hai!
Samja toh tab bhi tha, aur ab bhi hai.
The major difference today was that Kuhu's ill-treatment of Mishti happened in front of Abir. He was no longer in dark about how Kuhu abuses and even gets physical with Mishti.
So, now if he keeps the big picture in mind and has a difference with Mishti then it is little easier to accept then the previous scenario.
And I am hoping that he will continue to get well versed with Kuhu's other kinds of amazing-ness too from time to time...
Hope I was able to convey what I wanted to...
I love you too Abir ki Uru ka Abir 😆😆
Haan bohot farak padta hai 🙈
Yes I saw those posts but today I feel you are extremely convinced with your views 👍🏼
Pali I don't disagree with your views but I have some thoughts and facts to share Actually I have a different view on abir's reaction, my next set of lines may not be appreciated but I will still write them cuz it gives a better explanation of abir's reaction , please read it once , its going to be long but I had to let it out
It's very clear that abir doesn't see kuhu the way the audience and mishti sees because there is major shift in the ways kuhu was presented in front of abir and in fornt of mishti, no wonder abir and mishti are at huge difference of opinion over here , I am explaining mishti's side cuz that you are very much aware , I will explain abir's side here
Abir was never aware about the differences between sisters , infact if you look from abir's eyes , kuhu has been a victim in meenu's plans not once but twice ( first by deliberately exchanging rishta and secondly by making kuhu a pawn to meenu's and kunal's plans ) in haldi fiasco , there were two people who suffered, first was mishti who was manipulated to say those things and second was kuhu who had to go down on her knees to make kunal accept , for abir she was a girl who faced her worst on the first night and was simply used in the process which is why you don't see his harsh reaction on kuhu for the email fiasco too , in abir's eyes she was a victim, not an accuser , a victim because kunal forced her to send the mail ,that's why he said that why did you do so much for kunal, start respecting yourself ...abir wasn't aware that kuhu was also actively wished to do that , for abir it was only kunal who tried to separate mishbir and not kuhu...
Spending 8 - 9 months with a person in the same house gives an idea about how the person is , what abir saw that inspite of being a victim , kuhu still agreed to stay and give herself and kunal another chance , they did file for divorce but she also followed abir's advice and started her own business , instead of being bitter towards anyone else , she started behaving sane and mature ... if you see kuhu never really tried to harm any RV family member because of kunal ( expect mishti , but that is something that mostly mishti and the audience knows and mishti remained quite ) unlike meenu who has deliberately tried to harm the entire family in different ways...not only that, after break up when abir asked her that is she upset , kuhu says she is, but she also understands that there might be a big reason for abir to take such a step , she wasn't her usual chirpy self with abir anymore , what abir saw was she follows his advice and also trusts and understands his decisions, in the MishNish track, kuhu actively supported abir by giving him an access to RV house , of course kuhu had a double motivation because she didn't want nanchak to marry mishti , something that she had openly told abir also and so she helped till sangeet day when mishbir were supposed to have the final talk ...not only that, when kunal's birth truth came out , instead of taking sadistic pleasures about it that see kunal you hurt me so life hurt you , she actually supported kunal and made him accept his new identity , she became a support system to kunal and abir saw that ... he also saw that when time comes , kuhu takes a stand for mishti too , like she took in market fiasco .... what abir saw was that there were differences between sisters but they do support each other at times , just like kuhu helped abir in nishmish thing , mishti also helped abir in kuku thing , also when in need , kuhu helps kunal and abir in her own ways, abir clearly hasn't seen kuhu separating mishbir ( infact he has seen opposite in nishmish thing ) or going against mishti without a reason ...he has no idea that kuhu dosent want mishti to be a rv family member because she was clearly happy for their first GD and now she is upset because of divorce thing only, he has seen the struggles that a happy ending without involving family would have been possible without those papers coming out ... clearly he has seen the best side of kuhu and he has seen kuhu supporting abinal when needed so for him to instantly believe that coffee thing was galti se was very much natural ...because he had no idea that mishti was the target and secondly he hasn't seen kuhu getting involved in such things on purpose...
there was a sense of comfort that developed between the three when mishti wasn't around or wasn't a part of that group ... so much so that they dont mind joking on elders, during nishmish track, abinal were joking that BP has become old movie ka villain and kuhu gives them back saying that your mom is no less , its not that kuhu isn't aware about meenu , but her being the captain of the house , kuhu wishes to be in her good books but in reality she doesn't trust meenu, that's why she was comfortable enough to tell abinal that meenu won't let this matter go as she is not kunal's mom ( something which meenu only told her the other day ) ...today mishti tried to stop her saying those things because she doesn't really have the idea of comfort that these 3 share on discussing meenu and mishti isn't comfortable enough to do such talks because mishti has her own set of people where she freely addresses meenu as DS ( with BP and nishant) , mishti will take her own sweet time to become part of this group ...
That's why abir's reaction is very much justified on many levels that they have seen these sisters indirectly helping each other at times then what is the fight all about...
Also abir being over compassionate at times is not something that's a today thing , this is how his character his , I mean he chose to be an NGo owner and let go a hot career as an app developer, of course he has a tracking app and he earns from it but working like a full time business man like kunal would have been different
Sometimes i believe that the same is the reason for giving a free pass to nishant , nishant did inform abir that how lifeless was mishti in London , somewhere with a stupid attack only , but nishant did gave a platform to mishbir to start the interaction after break up , nishant made mishti come back to rajkot that's why on the climax day , there was a sense of mutual understanding for nishbir , nishant very well knew he had terribly gone wrong in judging abir and putting up a fight against him thats why he himself stepped back and abir just knew that nishant realised his blunder and that's why abir didn't reveal much details and let him go , he also saw that once mishti was broken because of him, does she have the strength to handle another jhatka from her best friend too who claimed to love her just like abir ?
Even in the future, abir is not going to react impulsively and that's for sure , layer by layer kuhu's insecurities are coming out , but abir will still be subtle ( kunal will be giving a harsh reaction) here , abir won't react impulsively because he has already seen what his impulsive reaction did in the past ( a break up ) his mom is very much capable of putting him into a catch 22 situation and that's why I believe he kind a tried his best to give parul the recognition so that this matter gets a closure forever
He very well knows that he has challenged meenu and all her further actions are an answer to his challenge only ... that's why he sees both mishti and kuhu as pawns over here ...and meenu as the ultimate master mind , infact he sees mishti as a bigger pawn here ...and today's incident just confirms it for him....
Him not agreeing to mishti's perspective on kuhu immediately is because he has seen a different side of kuhu for months but mishti not understanding his point of view on meenu is shocking to him cuz mishti herself had a first hand experience with meenu but if you look from mishti's side , she isn't wrong because according to mishti, its meenu who has whole heartedly accepted her and kuhu is going against her yet again
I am happy that mishti is not waiting for abir to take a stand for herself and she will try to show him her perspective again and again till he agrees ....
Hope I made some sense 
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Edited by Onyourface - 5 years ago
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