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Guys can we have a general discussion thread where we can discuss abt any topic in general🤔🤔I'm getting bored these days sitting at home..come up with interesting topic and shall we discuss that..not necessarily abt the show as such

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Welcome to AT eighty one

I am missing the old mishbir fun

Kuchh bolne ka nahi karta mann

This is absolutely not done

Ab toh rhyme bhi ho raha mujhse

I am actually watching the old episodes...makes me realise what a master piece it was , I mean it still is on many levels when there were no unnecessary justifications for what they do , the story was so straight crisp and clean ...and so were the characters.... and the pace was so dheere dheere , like viewers ko time milta tha , to digest everything...

So even after courtship they don't know how to work as a team then what's the use of courtship Its like extra classes lene ke baad bhi exam mein toh mediocre performance hi di sorry for the lame comparison but still

So much to delay abir not listening to mishti .. . Kuchh bhi ...abir was always shown to be a good listener... especially when it comes to mishti .. this is for abir then

Sun abir sun

Mishti ki baat ki dhun

Usne tera perspective chunna

Tu bhi uska Chun Chun Chun Chun

Cool wrote one bhramastra line - they need to work as a team ...

that's the thing , they have to learn to work as a team ... fighting your own battles and thinking that other one has to understand my thoughts will not solve the purpose now

Now I actually doubt the whole idea of courtship actually If they didn't learn how to work as a team, then what is the whole point of knowing each other before marriage , sirf ek dusre ko jaan liya , sikha kuchh nahi It's more like choti choti test se kuchh nahi hota , real exam aaye toh pata chalta hai kaun kitne paani mein hai ... but they have developed a strong bond, thanks to the bitter past experiences...they very well know how life is without each other and that's why the over layer of protectin comes for each other

If you notice , after kuku shaadi track, these two have stopped working as a team, they take decisions on their own even when the decision is about "them" .... we can give justifications that achha yeh reason tha isiliye nahi bataya n blah blah blah lol but the reality is that the team factor was always missing , it was more like one does something and the other fixes it up without the first one having no idea what the other one is fighting for and the other one having no idea what the first one is fixing up They were trying to solve out things with their own perspectives being a priority thereby inviting a lack of communication ...creating collateral damages on both the sides for each other Then again the process of fighting and fixing starts

Now with marriage, this dynamics is changing, now lack of communication and only thinking from individual perspective will not lead then anywhere....they both want to solve their respective puzzles ( meenu and kuhu ) but they aren't aware that their own individual puzzles will get solved only when they will find the missing pieces and that missing pieces are there with each other ... so a flawless communication without arguments will only solve the purpose ... this kind of communication is a new thing for both of them actually And whenever we come across a new thing in life , it takes time to adjust to the changes... as I said , it will take then trial and errors to come on the same page. Aisa lagta nahi tha AM ke saath aisa hoga lekin ho raha hai

Their fights seems very natural to me actually , abir has this character trait where after a certain point he can't take arguments, and he walks out , next day he starts a fresh after having a break ...its not like he dosent listen, he does but for him the tone matters ( we have seen this with meenu ) ... and mishti who is actually confrontational and she dosent shy away from putting across her thoughts , its like now or never for her when she decides that bas ab bohot ho gaya ( we have seen it with kunal ) ....so a kind of their core traits are coming across each other in such a way where they are actually working for the betterment for each other but it seems that they aren't concentrating on each other , but in reality they are concentrating on each other only, abir's puzzle ends with saving mishti from meenu's big plan , he has seen the extent of hate meenu has for mishti that she blames mishti for even bringing baba back ( that time mishti ko idea tha ki baba aise niklenge ) and mishti's puzzle ends when she puts forth the real intentions of kuhu behind the coffee thing and photo frame thing in front of abir so that abir can get a clear picture about kuhu...he hasn't seen the side mishti has seen ... for the first time their core traits are against each other it's an internal battle that they are fighting and I don't know for wired reasons I am enjoying it *dont kill me for this * the story still intrigues me to see how they will reach on the same page , as usual after every track abir will join his hands and say I am sorry

I have seen couples fighting and wife saying mein ghar nahi jaungi and husband be like theek hai mat aana I am going but then they realise arey re baba blunder ho gaya mishti should actually say " jaa abir jaa jee le apni zindagi" 🤣🤣

aisa hota hai , when we are at our emotional peak we do tend to say things that we dont mean , anger hoti hi aisi chez hai ... this reminds me of one more incident in AM's life, if you all remember that eye surgery thing ...mishti was so tensed and hurt too , she wanted to straight away say no to kunal but was struggling with her words , at that time abir actually stood up for her but she was all stressed and said " ankhein meri , surgery meri , tumhara kya hai " .. actually she liked what he said but she was at her emotional peak ... I know that time they were Just friends and now they are husband and wife so can't compare the incidents , also I am not saying ke mishti is also like this, I am just saying we sometimes become mean and we always don't mean what we say ...in the end she did follow abir's advice and didn't change her mind on surgery thing , m sure abir too will follow her advice soon

I was actually finding it so relatable and funny on their characters yesterday but then yahan sab serious chal raha tha toh main kuch boli nahi

Vaise I really feel vo mishbir 1.0 koi aur hi the , mera farewell post banane ke baad chale Gaye sach mein n lambe baal n chasma

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Stay home

Stay safe

Stay healthy

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TEAM WORK is the word....I have been telling this from their first argument on the holi day...

She works on facts and he works on his instincts...So when these two personalities team up NO ONE could be as successful as they would be...It is just that we couldn't see them lose. That's it...That was we're ranting about...Nothing more, Nothing less...Deep down they are still a team knowingly or unknowingly...LOVE has bonded them as a team...No one could use their love against them like they did before ( thanks for their past experiences)...

All of our rants were as a wife, now that mishti being a wife... we could feel what she is going through...MEN😆

Being said this many times before, any two individuals life (story) starts only after their marriage. before marriage we're all a chapter in our parents life...Like most of us , even I waiting to read how they are going to write up their story...

You too StaySafe, StayHome and WeAreInThisTogether.....Take care...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Nandu guruji 2.0 🤗🤗🤗 I am missing you and your views out here 😳 please if possible regularly aaya karo ... sometimes I feel lost with my opinion 😔, in that case I look upto yout opinion.... 😎

Bold - 👏👏 I 100% agree with this thought process... bang on as usual , I am really feeling bad for mishti , after a lot of failed attempts, she has actually started to share her real thoughts with abir and at the exact same time abir is in the situation where he is clouded by meenu's thoughts ... 😔 Haha abir's theory wont work now 😆 I hope he realises this soon 😆

🤗miss your highlights and presence here too. I know I'm sorry I've been irregular, this corona virus made life busy, especially straight after my bhai's shaadi, many of my family was still staying here with us, and now we had to promptly get them back home safely🤗

Now that things a going into lockdown, and we're self-isolating/social distancing, I'll have more time to be active here and comeback to give more reviews👍🏼 The AT and mf are moving so fast these days, with numerous analysis and opinon posts, I'm struggling to keep up with them😆🤣

Yup you're totally right👍🏼 I feel awful for Mishti, but I also know that Abir's intentions are not wrong. His approach will backfire and Mishti will be the collateral damage here again.😒

Come on Abir, don't lose focus on the effects of your words and methods are having your wife. I still have faith in you and your love mishbir❤️🤗

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

🤣yes ofcourse, Abir is one of a kind. None like him before nor after.

I understand your frustration and disappointment, I'm also confused with the inconsistent writing. But I'm gonna have to agree to disagree with some of your points about current Abir n Mishti's dynamics, it's quite complicated, but yes a clear simple deep conversation is all they need. The writers are being the big obstacle for that. So we'll just have to accept and go with the flow.

@Bold: oh i see...that's a very nice idea. Yes the maheshwari family are living in this unbelievable fake bubble in regards to the sisters. At least Abir has a band-aid theory and work on it. Here BP BM varsha and shaurya have turned a complete blind eye to mish-ku problem, they've raised them from young, but still don't understand or see the severity of their issues. They just try to cover it up superficially and end up putting more pressure on them to make sure they keep the RV bro's bond intact🤔 Mish-ku bond is very much more deep-rooted and complex than just the obedient sister and the immature one. Sadly the writers are not exploring and dealing with these issues, properly but rather just making more drama mess.

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Nandu......Okay I have scared u with my frustration. 😆

I am okay now.......😆

Abt Mishbir we will actually discuss after the episode. No use banging my head over them😆

Mishku equation would have been interesting if explored correctly. You know I think the people who wrote mishbir journey preleap and kuku post leap till nishmish shaadi are the same. They wrote it simple and relatable. Even the mishku equation post leap was potrayed beautifully. Preleap and post nannu track mishku was and is intolerable. 😆

I dnt find any love between them.....and everyone keeps saying they love each other. I find it toxic to the extreme.😆

https://www.instagram.com/p/B-CMjFFHkon/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

🤗🤗he has grown beard yaar.he is looking so good in this look

Originally posted by: ruhi19

muje tu mera saat hi rehna chahiye...i dont but i want that update...😭

Main Ye bhi jaldi update karungi Ruhi 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Ohhooo Mini dear.. 🤗

itna mat socho yaar.. like uru said trail n error is needed for them to come on same page... they are not normal couple but they need to first have normal situation to overcome it by their ajeeb ways naa...

now we are getting only the situation but we are yet to see how they will overcome all this... for mishbir more than situation we can relate n learn from their outcome only so just chill n go with flow...

jaan🤗🤗

u know I was planning that we need to have a thread or post... where we can have some discussion on what we want what is missing

The actors, writers, makers, producers all are free way free now.... they can at least read this

We n share that post ka link on twitter

What say

there are loads of things which can be brought up yar

Originally posted by: The_incredible

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Vaishu r u a kvian??

Yup 😃

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

oh..you better upload.. Because of your stories I open my account after so long... 

Or else raat mein meenu ke sapne aa aage.. Woh bhi close up shot..

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🤣🤣🤣🤣main aisa nahi hone dungi, I will surely update soon 👍😃😆

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Yup 😃

Oh so we belong to same category😆welcome to the club👏👏