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Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

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oh i love that movie mini😊 super fun but also lots to learn about parenting and children.

The hero in that movie, had always followed his father's rules in the house and tried to be the son he wanted, but wished to at least get a job and marry the girl of his choice. These qualities are complete opposite to Abir. Abir has always been a rebel with a cause, he's always been brave to do what he wants in his life, the way he wants to live his life, he has. Even with a controlling mom like Meenu, she has never successfully restrained him, which is not the case in the movie.

Actually the son breaking down scene in that movie would work very nicely with Kunal's character who has been a puppet to Meenu. He's followed almost every word of hers, respects her greatly, it's only very recently he's started to make his own life decision.

Dnt even compare the hero and Abir, both are totally different.😆

But the fact is true for everyone. When two people with contrasting personalities come together, it is always difficult to understand each other and their MO(Applicable for friends also ). Mishti who is confrontational is unable to understand Abir and Abir who is non confrontational with people is unable to understand Mishti. There is no problem in being different and having fights is normal in any relationship especially in the initial stages. But the fact is I can't understand the whole hypocrisy after they got married. Before marriage he was like encouraging her and all, now he is saying her methods are not right. He knew before also she was like that. Why calling her out now?? If he is calling her out, atleast make her understand why u are making this decision. As long as she didn't question him and followed him he was okay. He was not bearing brunt of her attitude ryt?? Others were the victims. Now that she is questioning him and his actions, somehow her MO is not right.I knw I am being harsh, par mujhe aisa hi feel ho raha hain with the character graph. Seems like a contrived fight like the brrakup thing. I am not able to digest this frankly speaking. Some actions of Abir doesn't go along with his character and is designed for a particular track. Like the pushing and all in breakup and now this. I wish they stopped meddling with him.

Oh the breaking down scene, I was talking abt Kuhu and Mishti infront of Maheshwari family not Abir or Kunal. Abhinal is actually transparent infront of the family, but not so in case of the sisters. Both are playing the roles Maheshwari family has tailored for them, the good girl and the immature one. But their actual personalities cannot be confined to this tag.

Oh btw my conclusion from the recent episodes is Abir and Kunal are alike amd Mishti and Kuhu are alike.

The girl who spoke about her equation with Kuhu only one day back with Abir, is now suddenly bitching about Kuhu infront of Kunal. Wonderful. She never even felt comfortable talking abt Kuhu to Abir, suddenly she is comfortable with Kunal??

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

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Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus

But she will be pregnant then and we will have a five year leap. And Abir won't know he has a child. They will meet after fifty epsiodes and this time with third angle for Abir and this tamasha will go on for another hundred episodes before next reunion and next separation 🤣

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Originally posted by: Onyourface

Welcome to AT eighty one

I am missing the old mishbir fun

Kuchh bolne ka nahi karta mann

This is absolutely not done

Ab toh rhyme bhi ho raha mujhse

I am actually watching the old episodes...makes me realise what a master piece it was , I mean it still is on many levels when there were no unnecessary justifications for what they do , the story was so straight crisp and clean ...and so were the characters.... and the pace was so dheere dheere , like viewers ko time milta tha , to digest everything...

So even after courtship they don't know how to work as a team then what's the use of courtship Its like extra classes lene ke baad bhi exam mein toh mediocre performance hi di sorry for the lame comparison but still

So much to delay abir not listening to mishti .. . Kuchh bhi ...abir was always shown to be a good listener... especially when it comes to mishti .. this is for abir then

Sun abir sun

Mishti ki baat ki dhun

Usne tera perspective chunna

Tu bhi uska Chun Chun Chun Chun

Cool wrote one bhramastra line - they need to work as a team ...

that's the thing , they have to learn to work as a team ... fighting your own battles and thinking that other one has to understand my thoughts will not solve the purpose now

Now I actually doubt the whole idea of courtship actually If they didn't learn how to work as a team, then what is the whole point of knowing each other before marriage , sirf ek dusre ko jaan liya , sikha kuchh nahi It's more like choti choti test se kuchh nahi hota , real exam aaye toh pata chalta hai kaun kitne paani mein hai ... but they have developed a strong bond, thanks to the bitter past experiences...they very well know how life is without each other and that's why the over layer of protectin comes for each other

If you notice , after kuku shaadi track, these two have stopped working as a team, they take decisions on their own even when the decision is about "them" .... we can give justifications that achha yeh reason tha isiliye nahi bataya n blah blah blah lol but the reality is that the team factor was always missing , it was more like one does something and the other fixes it up without the first one having no idea what the other one is fighting for and the other one having no idea what the first one is fixing up They were trying to solve out things with their own perspectives being a priority thereby inviting a lack of communication ...creating collateral damages on both the sides for each other Then again the process of fighting and fixing starts

Now with marriage, this dynamics is changing, now lack of communication and only thinking from individual perspective will not lead then anywhere....they both want to solve their respective puzzles ( meenu and kuhu ) but they aren't aware that their own individual puzzles will get solved only when they will find the missing pieces and that missing pieces are there with each other ... so a flawless communication without arguments will only solve the purpose ... this kind of communication is a new thing for both of them actually And whenever we come across a new thing in life , it takes time to adjust to the changes... as I said , it will take then trial and errors to come on the same page. Aisa lagta nahi tha AM ke saath aisa hoga lekin ho raha hai

Their fights seems very natural to me actually , abir has this character trait where after a certain point he can't take arguments, and he walks out , next day he starts a fresh after having a break ...its not like he dosent listen, he does but for him the tone matters ( we have seen this with meenu ) ... and mishti who is actually confrontational and she dosent shy away from putting across her thoughts , its like now or never for her when she decides that bas ab bohot ho gaya ( we have seen it with kunal ) ....so a kind of their core traits are coming across each other in such a way where they are actually working for the betterment for each other but it seems that they aren't concentrating on each other , but in reality they are concentrating on each other only, abir's puzzle ends with saving mishti from meenu's big plan , he has seen the extent of hate meenu has for mishti that she blames mishti for even bringing baba back ( that time mishti ko idea tha ki baba aise niklenge ) and mishti's puzzle ends when she puts forth the real intentions of kuhu behind the coffee thing and photo frame thing in front of abir so that abir can get a clear picture about kuhu...he hasn't seen the side mishti has seen ... for the first time their core traits are against each other it's an internal battle that they are fighting and I don't know for wired reasons I am enjoying it *dont kill me for this * the story still intrigues me to see how they will reach on the same page , as usual after every track abir will join his hands and say I am sorry

I have seen couples fighting and wife saying mein ghar nahi jaungi and husband be like theek hai mat aana I am going but then they realise arey re baba blunder ho gaya mishti should actually say " jaa abir jaa jee le apni zindagi" 🤣🤣

aisa hota hai , when we are at our emotional peak we do tend to say things that we dont mean , anger hoti hi aisi chez hai ... this reminds me of one more incident in AM's life, if you all remember that eye surgery thing ...mishti was so tensed and hurt too , she wanted to straight away say no to kunal but was struggling with her words , at that time abir actually stood up for her but she was all stressed and said " ankhein meri , surgery meri , tumhara kya hai " .. actually she liked what he said but she was at her emotional peak ... I know that time they were Just friends and now they are husband and wife so can't compare the incidents , also I am not saying ke mishti is also like this, I am just saying we sometimes become mean and we always don't mean what we say ...in the end she did follow abir's advice and didn't change her mind on surgery thing , m sure abir too will follow her advice soon

I was actually finding it so relatable and funny on their characters yesterday but then yahan sab serious chal raha tha toh main kuch boli nahi

Vaise I really feel vo mishbir 1.0 koi aur hi the , mera farewell post banane ke baad chale Gaye sach mein n lambe baal n chasma

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even im feeling the same what u said in post... they are fighting for each other leaving each other...

2 months seperation ke baad bhi kuch seekha nahi...

but im enjoying them like this..

irritated to the fact that they are not getting SS...

mishbir who are best with each other now not understanding what is happening between them...

abir not listening to mishti and mishti not understanding abir's behaviour...

im hope they bridge their communication gap and work as a team....

lambe baal aur chashma ke saat bhi mere mishbir gayab ho gaye...

why cant mishti keep chashma and suprise abir... abir ke lambe baal tho ab aane se na raha...

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Guys Finally updated My drabble on meenakshi and mishti

About the Man they Love the Most

Here's the link

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/153049786

Hope you all will like it 🤗

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Dnt even compare the hero and Abir, both are totally different.😆

But the fact is true for everyone. When two people with contrasting personalities come together, it is always difficult to understand each other and their MO(Applicable for friends also ). Mishti who is confrontational is unable to understand Abir and Abir who is non confrontational with people is unable to understand Mishti. There is no problem in being different and having fights is normal in any relationship especially in the initial stages. But the fact is I can't understand the whole hypocrisy after they got married. Before marriage he was like encouraging her and all, now he is saying her methods are not right. He knew before also she was like that. Why calling her out now?? If he is calling her out, atleast make her understand why u are making this decision. As long as she didn't question him and followed him he was okay. He was not bearing brunt of her attitude ryt?? Others were the victims. Now that she is questioning him and his actions, somehow her MO is not right.I knw I am being harsh, par mujhe aisa hi feel ho raha hain with the character graph. Seems like a contrived fight like the brrakup thing. I am not able to digest this frankly speaking. Some actions of Abir doesn't go along with his character and is designed for a particular track. Like the pushing and all in breakup and now this. I wish they stopped meddling with him.

Oh the breaking down scene, I was talking abt Kuhu and Mishti infront of Maheshwari family not Abir or Kunal. Abhinal is actually transparent infront of the family, but not so in case of the sisters. Both are playing the roles Maheshwari family has tailored for them, the good girl and the immature one. But their actual personalities cannot be confined to this tag.

Oh btw my conclusion from the recent episodes is Abir and Kunal are alike amd Mishti and Kuhu are alike.

The girl who spoke about her equation with Kuhu only one day back with Abir, is now suddenly bitching about Kuhu infront of Kunal. Wonderful. She never even felt comfortable talking abt Kuhu to Abir, suddenly she is comfortable with Kunal??

bitching is what kuhu did... like taking mishti name and saying what ever she thinks and not even guilt of it... eevn after hearing 2 times from kuhu abir didnt even said a word to kuhu to stop talking like that about mishti...

in a way kunal is better and he can say to mishti if he didnt like but here abir is just hearing to kuhu...

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Guys Finally updated My drabble on meenakshi and mishti

About the Man they Love the Most

Here's the link

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/153049786

Hope you all will like it 🤗

Originally posted by: ruhi19

ok finally... i will read now and comment...🤗

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Originally posted by: Mimzy

Of course.....🤣

Many of them silently stalk also....😆

Main bhi us list mein aa gayi hun ab 🤣🤣 But must say...kal tumhe kya ho gaya tha mini ...you were like hi ha ha ha 😈😆

🤣🤣 I enjoyed reading all your posts 😎😆

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

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meenu ko bhi dard hoti hain...this remainded of naanu saying to abir or kunal that mishti will bridge the gap between abir and meenu... and u proved that in ur story today...