Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
@bold - true nandu this is another sensitive n need of hour topic they would handle it well comparatively... they have given so many good messages in each track.. lets get down the lane..
First courtship know your partner #no to jhatpad shaadi
life mai 1% bhi chance hai tho le lena chahiye
life is like a novel if we know what is next maza kaise aayega
problem can be small if he keep it at a little distance n see
No is also an option be it a girl or boy (mish rejecting rishta/kuku Gd time abir mentioned it too for shwet)
sharing love doesnt mean love decreases for other relationship mumbai abinal confrontation
koi bhi pooja ek ladki ki izzat se bada nahi hai
a test should be there for parents to know whether they can give good parenting (mish in rajgarh with mehul)
no kid should sacrifice for others happiness.. abir blackmail family apni jagah pyaar apni...
Never give up n keep fighting mishti the best example...
Compromise shaadi is spoiling 2 lives at a time.. nish mish..
cooking skill is not an identity for a girl in sasural mish first rasoi dialogue by meenu...
If you remember anything continue with it....
wow! what a wonderful post yaar diya!😊👏🤗
Yes the writers and makers have always given such inspiring and meaningful messages, even if it is hidden these days in the drama. There is still some small social family messages they are conveying
@allbold: uff! These ideas have changed my life!👏🤗👏 Such wonderful and inspiring messages portrayed beautifully by the story of mishbir. Definitely something that stay with me forever❤️
hmm, let me try remember some more..
past me jo hota hai, woh hum bada seriously lete hai. phir kuch din baad lagta hai ki "kya tha yaar" (kuhu's advice to Kunal to learn to move on from the past)
potential life partner is not a 'responsibility' burden (kunal and mishti courtship date, Kunal labels Mishti as "shaadi ke baad responsibility banjoagi" when refusing her to work)
When a rishta breaks, not only does it affect the girl and her family..but remember the boy has feelings too. "ladkon ko bhi hurt hota hai" (Kunal expresses his pain to Abir form fear of being rejected)
Nayi rishte banane ke liye, hum purane rishton ko thodenge nahi. Learning to make new bonds without hurting or sacrificing old bonds (Mishti tells Abir after their love confession at temple)
building a wall around you, and putting on a facade will not "make everything awesome" (mishbir both hiding their real emotions infront of family)
Hiding big secrets from your lifepartner in the name of "protecting them" will not always end well (both mishbir still struggle with this concept of hiding truths because the other will be hurt)
Abir supporting Ketu to get a job and work. And questioning Nidhi maami, so what if Ketu has a boyfriend, If Atul can have a gf, why can't Ketu. Girls should not be looked down upon for having relationships before marriage.
Children of single parents/mothers can choose to insert their mother's name as last name. "Abir meenakshi rajvansh" since he does not wish to be associated with a fraud father like Mehul Kapadia
Learning from your mistakes. but more importantly, knowing to own up to your mistakes. (Abir's dhamakadhar confrontation with his nanko/kunal) (now a learning lesson for Kuhu)
i guess that's all for now..
do continue if you can think of more🤗😊
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