Hello gals,
I wanted to write something from day before yesterday but didn't had time to do so. yesterday’s episode was very meaningful..
and today’s MishBir conversation
Sorry, it is quite long...please bear with me...This post is completely my opinion of three episodes...You can always disagree to agree.
I would say the whole game of shuffling cups was staged because he smelled something bad. and he made sure the cup which went to Mishti was given to his Maa at the end. But when she smartly exchanged it with kuhu, he took the cup from her. (as diyu predicted)
Kuhu should have come up with some random reason to stop everyone from consuming that drink but she failed to do so. However, she made sure that she doesn't consume her drink.
Mishti is a confused soul and whenever she is confused she takes abir's words or shayari's as insipration and follows it adrently. example: keep trying even if you got 1%of chance to achieve something.
1. She stopped herself from revealing the truth because of abir kunal convo in their room made clear to her that Abir wont blame someone blindly without any hard evidence except for herself.
2. Abir supporting kuhu infront of the family during holi dhahan that "KUHU will not hurt anyone" made Mish to deduce that she shouldn't disclose this khaand of kuhu because abir has immense trust in kuhu. It could be either she doesn't want to give abir a heartbreak or she might have thought Abir won't standby her. (I personally prefer the former reason).
Meenu didn't let this pill incident slip off because she knew Mishti will blast kuhu infront of both families, so that she could prove that Mishti is not the right person to be a RV bahu. But Mishti doesn't want to carry her infamous tagline in RVs, so she has been giving moral lessons to kuhu in private so that she confess on her own. Meenu being DS she will never leave any stone unturned to prove that she is right. Yes, till that scene downstairs,even i gave him the benefit of doubt..even mishti felt abir is right after she spoke to kunal so went to meet abir and abir also after talking to parul maasi came inside to talk to Mishti but alas no one could come inbetween him and his bro. So he decided to go behind his bro.
He definitely had a gist of the so called sisters relationship but he didn't indulge into it...and because he is a person who want solid evidence he brushed it off easily. But after witnessing the bond they share...I was expecting him to talk it out to Mishti about it in their room. But alas, he spilled out something inappropriate.
A person who is well aware why we have two ears but just one mouth...failed miserably as a husband when he didn't give allow his wife to continue after he realized that his wife will not stop arguing about his bro khaand.
A BF who was impressed about her GF being a fighter, showed his disinterest of his wife being a fighter. Trust me this is not the first time, meenu just asked him to break the rishtey with mishti but the reason he gave of her coming from a broken family is his own words. So when he said that' jagadaa karna tumari aadath hain' is clearly supporting his previous statement during breakup ‘ she is from a broken family' . So Mish misinterpreting it as such is not wrong.
He know why she walked out and she ended the discussion with 'Fine, we will walk in your path'. But my worry is he didn't stop her or go behind her instead he decided to downstairs through the other entrance.
But the last nail in the coffin was when MISH saw her hubby giving a hug and assured his bro that his wife will not let her secrets out.
This might have made mishti deduce that Abir too thinks that she is incapable of keeping the family together.( ie. her misinterpretation (to us) is made to be right interpretation for her). This justified her dialogue to him today about learning the lessons on how to bind the family together... So far, it was just Meenu and Jas scenes were playing in Mishti's head but I felt really sad when she played abir words in it...(so Abir has been added to her tag list)...Unless he words it out, those scenes will be playing on her head whenever similar situations arise.
Based on the dialogues of Mishti today, she will never share her thoughts to Abir anymore instead she will walk beside him in his path but when he comes to know that he is wrong in the way of dealing issues. ( applying band aid to wound is not the same as resolving family issues). she will give a hand to him to rise up and stand high.
Actually, I dont believe in 'kaan padakke apologizing' or 'going on your knees to apologize' or 'gift something to apologize' or 'get touchy to apologize'( this is for couples only). To me they should talk it out 'why, how,when,what, who, because ' all these positive encourages should be addressed in the apologizing session. Even for proposing, I believe these PE should be addressed rather than going on your knees. This defines equality.
But yesterday, I loved the role reversal of apologizing and making food to manaavo your spouse is the best way ever. Who said they didn't communicate.They did through the messages. And Mishti made him feel guilty by reminding him the promise he made during their wedding. Even today, by giving in easily he made him more guilty. You will what I am talking about if you have noticed his expressions throughout their conversation in the care date. Even yesterday, his expression screamed guilty when Mishti reciting the shayari. Even today, he made him guilty by giving in easily and accepting that @she is indeed from a broken family'. When he explained his Band aid strategy of dealing family issues. look at her expression, she even questioned back what if it is goes beyond limit.. and getting partner's help. So he will back to Mishti's when he gets that' jhoor ka jatka'.
She almost teared up when she was reciting the shayari.. Poor girl. All she wanted was to be heard by her hubby...Abir eyes was only for Mishti in last two episodes. He smiled only when he saw his Mishti Doi smiled in the kitchen. (Dil Sr). His heart would have broken into million pieces when he saw her washing the dishes.
(They are Rajvansh’s right). But what the use, when you don’t want to listen to her.
I loved Abir parul conversation in the courtyard. this woman is mother goals. She made Abir understand who should he standby (ie Mishti). And I liked when the elders identified the friction between the newly weds and took the resposibility to guide them in their marital life. Naanu didn't say manano Mishti he said talk to nicely. And BM made Mishti understand that Abir let go of this easily even it was alife and death situation for him. and i think that is when Mishti decided to let go of this issue because she know what kuhu is capable of. So when Mishti gets hurt Abir will go bonkers...(This what is what we wanted)...Today’s precap, where his bro is back to square one.
I think Mishti has made a decision to go in Abir's way for now so that at the right time she could bring him back on track. in other words, She will walk beside him hand in hand but when he comes to know that he is wrong. She will give a hand to rise him up and stand high.
This is another way of dealing with fights /arguments between couples. (especially the newly weds)
The other one is showing cold shoulder (People like me, Pali and geeth prefer...Isn't it ladies... and if you wish you could join your name to this list). 
Mostly, the second one could be implemented mostly after few years of marriage.
I loved when she throw the plate right after she sensed abir is behind her #sadisticpleasure. and i am sure all married woman here would have obliged with Mishti's royal ignornace to her pati. It means that he dare not to come close to her.
Day before yesterday, Abir taught moral lesson chapter 1 to his bro and in return as guru dakshana bro taught him how to lie. But if you have noticed he didn't give a hoots about kuhuness when kunal talked about it...he was just looking at Mishti. Poor Abir. I felt bad for him..
Kunal will standby Mishti infront of the family where abir will standby his bro until he gets to taste his own medicine.(trust me his bro is very much highly capable of it). Kunal will also try to meddle bhaiya and bhabhi when needed like he did in yesterday's episode by placing mishti's hand on top of Abir's.
Drama tho jaroor hoga because Meenu changed her strategy now, she will Gel with Kuhu like we saw in yesterday’s episode to prove her point yet again...And she said to kuhu that she punishes people for their mistakes...As per Meenu, kuhu has done two mistakes so far first one is she didn't made sure that spiked coffee was consumed by Mishti and then calling her dragon saas.
I am happy that Mishti gave the ownership back to kunal. I want her gel with and follow Parul's footsteps on maintaining a household/family because that is where Mishti lags.
Though Abir is the one who gave the long due recognition to parul maasi, their target will be Mishti.
The disjointed scenes of mishbir in today’s episode is even worse than the ping- pong parallels.
Edited by Npdeepa - 5 years ago
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