I was thinking about something when I read this.....
But most of the things you have mentioned is situational. Abir's truths doesn't hold must weightage as a blackmail material or something that can be used against him or a reason to break them apart. Even with Mishti most of her truths cannot be used against her since Abir will not believe Meenu over Mishti. Even haldi khaand also wouldn't hold much weightage if Mishti had just shared it with Abir. Likewise with Abir, Meenu wouldn't have had much weightage over him abt Kunal truth if he had shared it with Mishti. All in all their action reaction is the same but situations/truths are different.
But I think the basic factor that differentiates the two is....Mishti works as a one man army...she doesn't confide in anyone what she is about to do or her suspicions. Which always lands her in hot waters. Even with BM she shared the minimum details. Nobody even have an idea of how much danger she was in rajgadh till now. Plus they always encourage her to solve the big problems ....wonder why??
But with Abir he always has someone or the other in loop even if its not mishti. So they are able to guide him better. Like in nishant fiasco kunal , parul maasi everyone were in loop. When he confided in nishant, they were sceptical and even he knew nishant played him. So he took it upon himself to reveal the breakup truth...which he succeeded. He has people behind him who will knw when something goes amiss with him. And it leads to better outcome for him.
Lagta hain mein aur confuse hogayiii🤣
There is some point which I am unable to explain....sochna padega.....😆
Mini the thing is the truth n their relationship doesnt have any connection be it haldi, kunal running away, baba truth, nishant, nish mish or any truth... even after knowing truth or before knowing it doesnt affect them as in their own relationship.... abir used the baba truth only to break up the actual truth of kunal he too knows if mish knew this that wont make much of a difference for them, he wanted to save kunal from big ben then he said it himself in one episode.. n mish knew haldi truth wont make any difference in their relationship but for her sister that truth was used against her...
and mish working in one man army is the main problem... the reason is abir doesnt involve in detective giri but helps others only when extremely necessary but mish herself gets involved in finding truths.. 😆thats why abir truth are not much big but mish truth becomes exaggerated..
even i confused you more i think or i'm confused 😆😆