Originally posted by: EtherealRati
I like the way he defended himself at the spotboy interview.....he is a good defender....he tries defending things very convincingly.....he gives his best to it .......and kaafi jyaada corner karne ki koshish thi woh spotboy reporter ne.......toh pehle biasness.....sid clearly pointed that i was nudged first and if i was nudged....thats wrong too but when i pushed back ....i was wrong....big boss punished me.....we all play to be safe in nominations but for four nominations i was directly nominated.....others in the house also gave dhakkas.....but nobody got nominated even once. So biasness mere saath huyi hain....even i can claim that.
Now my perspective on this......sid nahi deserve karta tha woh punishment in bori task in my opinion....why ....that was explained in wkw well. So i agree with that.....kyonki tasks mein baaki log bhi pushed.....but they were never punished. And even without tasks people have pushed....they werent punished either. And people have gone physical even before he got physical.....nobody got punished.
Second time when he was punished.....it was right....because that was after he gave three or four continuous dhakkas to asim....and powerful ones as he himself claimed.....his point is that nobody got the right to nudge him.....if pushing is wrong .....nudging is wrong too.....i do agree with the point to some extent .....that yes nobody should be allowed to touch you without your permission....that too when you are fighting......but then you cant really justify such hard pushes by that......woh self control sid ko khud mein laana chahiye. Nudging in a fight is wrong.....yes it is.....but pushing that badly that it can harm the other individual is worse. Cant be justified at all with statement like it was a reaction. And if i am not wrong....everytime he hasnt pushed because of nudge....once he pushed kyonki asim uske kaan mein cheekh raha tha and woh bimar tha. Self control is an important concept.....its not like asim push ka jawab nahi de sakta tha .....usne bahut later stage mein jaake dhakka maara hain.....he did control.....sidharth did not. He should have in my opinion. But i like that he shared what he felt .....for him nudging/touching someone in a aggression moment is wrong and he would raise the bar like he says. Soach mein changes ki jarurat hain yahan i feel though. You cannot really harm people if they have touched you. Nudges can definitely accelerate your anger...but pushing still cant be justified. A push which leads somebody to have injections for pain....no ....not done at all for me. He do needs to understand that.....i know he can live his life the way he has been living as he says ki main jee loonga but good changes is something i will always want and wish and he showed certain changes too.
And as i have recently got to know that his mother and sisters have never seen him this angry ........and he hardly got to say things in house ....kyonki woh sabse chota hain......that was a revelation because i thought that the kind of personality he has....he must be dominating but no its the other way round.....that was good to know.....and they were somewhere shocked at the anger.....his sis saying ki isko main bacha bacha ke laati thi gali ke bacho se....log usse kehte the ki apni behen ko bula.....toh he wasnt really a aggressive child always......and girls dominate his house ......he himself accepted that it was real siddharth but he reacted the way he did because he was trapped.....in a house.....he could not just go away from there.......i will also put in the facts that he reacted that way after 1.5 months of fights and he has never touched anybody in them ......and he reacted when the person he literally loved was achanak se standing opposite him and nudged him. Though i till today believe...dosti tootne mein dono ki galti thi. Baaki ka discuss nahi karte.....sidsim fights were worst this season and sid galat raha hain unmein. I hope and pray he doesnt really behaves like that in real life ever....gussa karna alag baat hain aur maar peet alag.....tolerance level increase karna chahiye usse .....and i am sure jaise aap ek band ghar mein behave karte ho aur jaise aap asal zindagi mein react karte ho ......there is a big difference in that.
