Ani doesn't consider her as a wife - Page 2

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Ballika vadhu story is different cos they both were kids when they got married!! In that story also it was jagiya who hadn't feel for anandhi..but anadhi had feelings towards him and eventually changed after he got married to someone!!

But here in Barrister Babu... Anirudh is grown up and he knows what marriage and responsible is.. eventually he will fall for her....!! And coming to Bondu she is already into him and so fascinated of him...maybe she really didn't know what the meaning of marriage and love but then before independence as the show concept I don't think so no girl will remarry then....and also after all knowing what Anirudh did to her she will fall head over heals and treat him as God too!!!

So it's definite that they both will end up together for sure!!!

Totally agree, i knw it's hard to imagine to love a girl who grown up in front of you but we r thinking as per today's era. How ever in that time it was normal. I think with the tym Anirudh gets emotinally attached with bondita and when she grown up ,a day will come where he can't think his life with out her, becoz by that tym he would already spent a big time of his life with her.

Originally posted by: rttr

Totally agree, i knw it's hard to imagine to love a girl who grown up in front of you but we r thinking as per today's era. How ever in that time it was normal. I think with the tym Anirudh gets emotinally attached with bondita and when she grown up ,a day will come where he can't think his life with out her, becoz by that tym he would already spent a big time of his life with her.

Very true we are thinking as per our generation!!

But that era it's all normal.... Even budda gets married to a small kid were normal that time!!! So it's totally fine...(as bihari mentioned in a epi even ani's mom was a kid... Didn't she have three kids with his father!!!?)

Maybe it takes time or it would be Bondu who fall for him first and make him realize or wise versa

What does anirudh mean by 'she is not my wife but my responsibility' ? Then why on earth he married her .. In 1902 adoption existed right ? Well , I know that Bengali families used to adopt brahmin boys to save their wealth by a religious practice .. and way back then girl adoption was also in practice! Could have adopted her!!

And why he is referring her as that girl.... can't he call her by her name .. she deserves that much of respect right??

Society will defame her later when anirudh will not claim her as his wife ... I know she is strong enough but .. imagine the situation!

Originally posted by: Learner01

What does anirudh mean by 'she is not my wife but my responsibility' ? Then why on earth he married her .. In 1902 adoption existed right ? Well , I know that Bengali families used to adopt brahmin boys to save their wealth by a religious practice .. and way back then girl adoption was also in practice! Could have adopted her!!

And why he is referring her as that girl.... can't he call her by her name .. she deserves that much of respect right??

Society will defame her later when anirudh will not claim her as his wife ... I know she is strong enough but .. imagine the situation!

He is not going to claim a child as his wife. He hates the fact he had to get married to a child to save her life. Its against his principals. He gets ashamed to call a child as his wife. He will take care of her. thats more than enough She doesn't understand what being a wife is so he doesn't expect anything of that sort from her. Thats what he was saying. he will not let anyone defame her or make her feel ashamed. Thats part of the caring he was talking abt

And he will probably claim her as his wife when she is older. Regarding him not calling by her name. It might be 5 episodes but in the show all these things are happening on one night. from the wedding to all of this. He will soon start calling her by her name. He probably wasnt listening when she told her name was bondita in the boat

Adoption was not going to be any help for her during the time ani had to take the decision to marry her. She will be called a widow and made to live like her mom. If you watch today's boat scene, the widows let her go only when they knew she was married to him. So i dont know how adoption will solve anything. She is not an orphan.

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Very true we are thinking as per our generation!!

But that era it's all normal.... Even budda gets married to a small kid were normal that time!!! So it's totally fine...(as bihari mentioned in a epi even ani's mom was a kid... Didn't she have three kids with his father!!!?)

Maybe it takes time or it would be Bondu who fall for him first and make him realize or wise versa

@bold- seeing anirudh today i feel he will not fall in love that easily even after she is grown up, he considers her his responsibility and will go to any lengths to protect her but falling for her is something unimaginable to him. Even when she grows up i feel he will be in denial about his feelings as it will be difficult for him because she has grown up in front of him and will always be a bacchi for him.

But bondu may fall for him and more than that she will always consider him as her role model or idol

Originally posted by: bhshre95

@bold- seeing anirudh today i feel he will not fall in love that easily even after she is grown up, he considers her his responsibility and will go to any lengths to protect her but falling for her is something unimaginable to him. Even when she grows up i feel he will be in denial about his feelings as it will be difficult for him because she has grown up in front of him and will always be a bacchi for him.

But bondu may fall for him and more than that she will always consider him as her role model or idol

I haven't see today's episode yet, but don't knw why i feel that Anirudh will fall for bondita for sure as saudamini seems too confident that she is his true love. I think her pride will break for sure.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

@bold- seeing anirudh today i feel he will not fall in love that easily even after she is grown up, he considers her his responsibility and will go to any lengths to protect her but falling for her is something unimaginable to him. Even when she grows up i feel he will be in denial about his feelings as it will be difficult for him because she has grown up in front of him and will always be a bacchi for him.

But bondu may fall for him and more than that she will always consider him as her role model or idol

Totally agree!!! It's not that easy for a man who has principles... Maybe as you said.. if he gets the feeling too he won't be accepting or it will be difficult for him to differentiate his feelings!!

But eventually it will all change during situations!!

And one doubt.. I don't remember which serial it was either ballika vadhu or someother... I watched it was child marriage in which after getting married the girl stays with her in law and for some years before or after puberty they will be sent to their birthplace(mayka)..!! is that true??? In real it happened that way??

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Totally agree!!! It's not that easy for a man who has principles... Maybe as you said.. if he gets the feeling too he won't be accepting or it will be difficult for him to differentiate his feelings!!

But eventually it will all change during situations!!

And one doubt.. I don't remember which serial it was either ballika vadhu or someother... I watched it was child marriage in which after getting married the girl stays with her in law and for some years before or after puberty they will be sent to their birthplace(mayka)..!! is that true??? In real it happened that way??

I think its in balika vadhu only, there sugna also stayed in her mayka for many years and later an and I was also sent to her mayka right? But I don't know the ritual properly

do you think they will they follow it in this show also?

Originally posted by: Kavila

.yes in some states like gujrat and North India especially Bihar and up once a girl married in childhood he she will remain in their respective nayaka until she reached puberty age and then they will do their bidayi and send them to their sasural the ceremony is called gauna till those year the rsoec husband are wife was not allowed to talk or gave communication only a day was fixed by the elders where they can meet only under the guidance of the elders ...

Hi kavila 😊 Thank you so much for this piece of information 😊 didn't know before!! There were so much practices then!!