Originally posted by: vibha28
I completely agree and I was the one who has always said this premise of falling after one dies is rubbish.
Everyone thinks he loves her but he never did because where there is love there is trust. You donât built trust you just trust the one you love. If you are giving yourself to someone because you love them then you trust them to cherish your love and heart. Aman failed in that. He has never trusted roshni and his love is conditional as when things are smooth he is in love but when going gets tough he gets flustered.
He has never done anything himself - last time salma cleared all and after that he didnât even think to make sure that was roshni ok ? So I donât know how this man loves because he certainly doesnât trust.
I am sticking around as I really liked this show in the beginning and I am hoping something will give. Once my English shows start I will bail.
True, love and trust must go hand in hand, otherwise i will not call this as love. And what ever is the situation, how much ever angry you are, you will never kick that person out of the house!! You might ask her to get off on that point in time as you are immensely angry, but not throw that person out. A human being is not a doormat to be treated like that many times!! And if she is, then I would say she should make him sweat to realize her worth and make him worthy first for her and then only consider to go back. Forgiveness is a good trait but only for people who value that.
In addition, I too am completely NOT FOR showing females as weak, that too a female who is supposed to have some powers!! I hate it when they are shown the way she is being now - helpless, morose, sad, no inner strength to face that person strongly without showing any emotions on the face even though there is a storm inside her!!!!! Women are by far not weak or helpless, they are one of the strongest creations of GOD -- that is why they are capable of giving birth to a life !!!!!!