Hey guys!
I have been wondering since the beginning of the show why the Maheshwaris never really talk about the problems between their family members, especially KuShti ki kushti and MishMeet.
The jealousy, resentment, misunderstandings are always swept under the carpet. Not once have I seen BP & BM, the elders of the household, address the very obvious friction between Kuhu and Mishti. Their approach is akin to putting a bandaid on a head injury.
They don't address any of these issues directly, play Hum Saath Saath Hain, dance to songs and consider the problem resolved. If they really want these differences to be ironed out, they should speak to Kuhu and Jasmeet about their insecurities.
For instance, when the KuKu divorce truth came out, everyone was harping on about 'Why didn't Kuhu tell the family?' instead of asking her what the problem was or consoling her. It was an inquisition; she was crying her eyes out and they seemed unconcerned about her actual feelings. Not once did any of them go to her and find out what went wrong with Kunal, including Varsha and Shaurya. Though BP-BM make the right noises about Kuhu's happiness, I never see them actually going and talking to her and having a heartfelt conversation with her, unlike with Mishti.
Coming to Jasmeet, BP-BM should talk to her about how her hatred for Mishti. Just saying 'Jasmeeet' sternly when she makes a mean comment is not enough. You have to solve the issue at its roots. These are superficial measures that won't yield results. I remember Jasmeet warmed up to Mishti in the middle but the Nannu episode changed it all. That time, Jasmeet was absolutely right in saying that she didn't want them married because Mishti loves Abir. Which mother would want their child to marry someone who loved another?
Now, it's clear that Jasmeet feels her and Nannu's feelings are being sidelined for Mishti's happiness. I am not commenting on whether it is right or wrong but BP-BM need to address it.
BP-BM are the decision-makers in the household. When you are the mukhiya, you have to reach out to people and talk to them.
What say?
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