Originally posted by: stormborn
Yahhh college me I used to get mind gamers.
I was an introvert and a bit touch-phobic like Maya. So one guy started calling me sister so that I let him hug me (I never did). Then one day suddenly in front of the whole class he knelt down and proposed.
uske baad alternating days pe sister and sweetheart bolta raha and tried to make me jealous by getting intimate to other girls whenever I was into vicinity (I noticed ke he is standing 5 ft far from a girl. Then mein dikhi and he pulled her near. Waisa chalta raha derh saal tak. Thank god ke mein looks pe nehi bhulti coz he was really handsome)
this is just one mind-gamer. I came across many during college years....My friends called me wacko magnet.
Aur abhi I am experienced so mind gamers kuch ukhaar nehi paate.....So abhi psudo feminists aur so called nice guys ke mele lage hai !!!!
I am the kind who doesn’t talk to anybody. I don’t make friends very easily and then guys always come up with the “oh you look like Emma Watson or some actress” to strike conversations and being approached because of the way I looked made me extremely wary.
So my ex literally tried to befriend me for 2 months till I kinda relented (he was extremely sweet, knew what made me tick or what was appealing and insanely good looking)
Then I had to go away for a few months (we weren’t in touch at all for a lot of reasons) and when I came back, for some reason we instantly reconnected and picked up right where we left off.
So we FINALLY exchanged numbers and then initially started the wooing stage which lasted for 3 months and “pighalna” was inevitable because he was my SRK.
Fast forward to a few months, love kept dissipating, I was an idiot and pathetically in love (did every idiotic thing you can possibly imagine) then one inconvenience later... “I don’t love you anymore and I think I don’t have it in me to be committed to anyone blah blah blah”
Toh that one stupid first best friend, boyfriend.. shattered my heart and here I am :)
Shit. sorry for the ridiculous rant...